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Shofar Day 5 Dear Believers In Smyrna: Digging Deeper

January 23, 2026 by Merry Ohler Leave a Comment

Shofar Day 5 Dear Believers In Smyrna: Digging Deeper

Merry Ohler

January 23, 2026

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Revelation 2:8-10

8 “Write to the angel of the church in Smyrna: Thus says the First and the Last, the one who was dead and came to life: 9 I know your affliction and poverty, but you are rich.

I know the slander of those who say they are Jews and are not, but are a synagogue of Satan. 10 Don’t be afraid of what you are about to suffer.

Look, the devil is about to throw some of you into prison to test you, and you will experience affliction for ten days. Be faithful to the point of death, and I will give you the crown of life.
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The Original Intent

1) What is the significance of Jesus calling Himself the “First and the Last?” (verse 8)

The church at Smyrna is only referenced twice in Scripture, both times in the book of Revelation. (Revelation 1:11, Revelation 2:8) While the Bible may be mostly silent about the city and says little about the early church there, Christ’s words about Himself and His exhortation to the church at Smyrna reveal much depth we can study. His opening words here identify Himself unequivocally as “the First and the Last, the one who was dead and came to life.”

As God, Jesus Christ is and was eternally present. From before the first description of creation’s beginning, Jesus was there. (Genesis 1:1-2) John’s written introduction to his gospel bears witness to Christ’s deity and divine nature in further support of this statement. (John 1:1-18) Unlike His created work of humanity, God alone is uncreated. He always has been, and always will be. (Psalm 90:2, Isaiah 40:28, 1 Timothy 1:17) He has no beginning and no end. (John 8:58, Genesis 21:33, 1 John 5:11-13)

Through the prophet Isaiah, God declared this to be true of Himself; Jesus’ words in Revelation echo the words of His Father, centuries before He uttered them to John. (Isaiah 44:6-8) Underscoring His initial statement to John and further asserting His divinity, Christ added, “the one who was dead and came to life.”

Some external sources and commentaries point to parallels that may have been significant for the church at Smyrna, but by staying within the pages of Scripture, we are assured of His deity through His own words, as evidenced by the incredible prophecies He fulfilled in accomplishing this one statement. (Psalm 22, Isaiah 53, Psalm 16, Acts 2:22-36) 

The Everyday Application

1) What is the significance of Jesus calling Himself the “First and the Last?” (verse 8)

When I consider the reality that Jesus is God, having no beginning or end, I am once again struck by how completely “other” He is to us. There is nothing else in our scope of existence comparable to Him, although all things point to Him. Everything has a beginning and an end. The sun, the moon, the stars, the planets. Every human, every creature. Every object. Humanity was originally crafted from dust, and to dust we will return. (Genesis 3:19, Psalm 90:3, Ecclesiastes 12:7)

This is not the case with Jesus. He was there at the beginning, because He had no beginning. After all things come to their end, He will remain, because He has no end. All was created by Him and through Him. I can rest in the comfort and knowledge that He alone is God. There is no other. He is the way, the truth, and the life. He testified about His divinity and identity Himself, and His words are true.

All of Scripture verifies His testimony and existence. The details of His virgin birth, sinless life, death, and resurrection fulfill over 300 prophecies made across thousands of years. All of this proof points me to the truth I can rest in: Jesus Christ is the Messiah, the Son of God, the First and the Last.

He is my King, He is alive, and He cares for me. He has no beginning or end, but I do, and my beginning, middle, and end are in His sovereign hands. Because I have repented of trying to live life my own way and have turned to follow Christ, I am covered by His shed blood. My sins are forgiven; I have peace because I trust in Him. 

The Original Intent

2) Why did Jesus tell the church of Smyrna, suffering in affliction and poverty, that they were rich? (verse 9)

Having just asserted His authority and divinity with stunning clarity, King Jesus uttered His next words to John with compassion and intention, “I know…” The church at Smyrna was enduring great affliction and suffering. The words describe a church under incredible pressure and extreme poverty. More than simply getting by with little, this church consisted of truly destitute people; they had nothing.

In just a few words, the Creator, the One through whom all things were and are and will be, the First and the Last, again showed His incredible love for His people by showing them they were seen in a merciful act of true encouragement. I know your affliction and poverty, but you are rich.

The church at Smyrna wasn’t forgotten. Their struggles, circumstances, and persistence in faith were seen by the King of kings and Lord of lords. The One who was, and is, and will be bridged the gap between their perceived isolation and the temptation to feel forgotten, reminding them that He saw both their physical and spiritual state with equal clarity. Further, He encouraged them to remember that their physical state did not reflect their eternal reality. 

The Everyday Application

2) Why did Jesus tell the church of Smyrna, suffering in affliction and poverty, that they were rich? (verse 9)

When I think about the kind of affliction and poverty the church at Smyrna likely faced, my own struggles seem pale in comparison. Nonetheless, I can be encouraged by Christ’s words. The truth that earthly circumstances and situations do not define our eternal destiny or victory in Christ stands firm and is true for all believers. Regardless of what struggles and challenges we face, we know that Christ is working in the midst of those situations to sanctify us. (2 Thessalonians 2:13-17, 2 Timothy 2:20-26, Romans 5:3-5)

Whatever struggle I face, Jesus is also El Roi, the God Who sees. (Genesis 16:13, Psalm 139:1-4, Proverbs 15:3) He intimately knows every detail of the lives of all His people, and I am one of those people. He knows, He sees, He cares. He is pleased when He calls me to continue in faith, for His glory, and I respond to His call. (Hebrews 11:6, Romans 12:2, Matthew 5:14-16) Just as He demonstrated in His words to the church at Smyrna, He never forgets. He is glorified in our faithful following of His life and way. 

The Original Intent

3) What does Christ mean to be “faithful to the point of death”? (verse 10)

Jesus saw their present state and knew the church at Smyrna would soon face an increase in persecution; His word of encouragement and exhortation to remain faithful was issued at the perfect time. While Scripture doesn’t elaborate on the exact details of their situation, Christ’s acknowledgement of their physical and spiritual state implies they possessed a faithfulness worth commending.

His words weren’t mere blind encouragement or a careless call to achieve some unattainable goal. This was a rallying cry to weary and worn believers with battered hearts and minds, reminding them of their purpose, calling them to follow in their Savior’s footsteps faithfully. Who else could more genuinely encourage a brother or sister to be faithful to the point of death other than the One Who had first been faithful to the point of death, Himself?

Jesus knew the scorn, abandonment, persecution, and horrors of being faithful to the point of death. In His kindness, He reminded His faithful church at Smyrna that they were not alone, and if they persisted in faith, He would see them through to His promise of eternal life and victory. 

The Everyday Application

3) What does Christ mean to be “faithful to the point of death”? (verse 10)

When God called Jesus to walk the way of the cross, being faithful to the point of death, even death on a cross, Jesus obeyed fully. (Philippians 2:7-8) As a parent, I have often used the phrase, “Right away, all the way,” when teaching my children what obedience means and looks like. However, when I measure those words against Christ’s example, I see some things are lacking in my “go-to” phrase.

Yes, it is important to obey “all the way,” which we see referenced in Christ’s words admonishing the church at Smyrna to be “faithful to the point of death.” However, even Christ prayed and asked that the cup might be taken from Him. He has empathy for the one who is called to die to self and follow in His footsteps; we can be encouraged by His reminder that when we are faithful to the end, we will be crowned victorious for His glory. Praise God!

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“Thus says the First and the Last, the One who was dead and came to life:” (Revelation 2:8)

What a weighty way for Jesus to introduce Himself to the church in Smyrna! He doesn’t begin with comfort or promises; He begins with identity. He is “the First and the Last”—a title belonging to God alone. (Isaiah 44:6) He reminds the Church He holds eternity in His hands.

Then He adds, “The One who was dead and came to life.” (Revelation 2:8)

This isn’t just a statement of resurrection, it’s an anchor of hope. Jesus has passed through death itself and emerged victorious.
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Come Day 11 Come To Be Fulfilled

February 24, 2025 by Carol Graft Leave a Comment

Come Day 11 Come To Be Fulfilled

Carol Graft

February 24, 2025

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Isaiah 9:2-3
Revelation 21:1-4
John 7:37-39
Revelation 22:17-21
Matthew 11:28-30

“He will wipe away every tear from their eyes. Death will be no more; grief, crying, and pain will be no more, because the previous things have passed away”. (Revelation 21:4)

Can you imagine?

If you are struggling right now, working through a painful diagnosis, heartbreak, grief over a loss, or just frustration over the ways of the world, one day sorrows will be erased in less than the blink of an eye. According to Revelation, all Christ-followers will experience this good news.

But what about here and now? 

Scripture speaks…
“Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.” (Hebrews 13:8)

“‘I am the Alpha and the Omega,’ says the Lord God, ‘the One who is, who was, and who is to come, the Almighty.’” (Revelation 1:8)

“Both the Spirit and the bride say, ‘Come!’ Let anyone who hears, say, ‘Come!’ Let the one who is thirsty come. Let the one who desires take the water of life freely.” (Revelation 22:17)

“He who testifies about these things says, ‘Yes, I am coming soon.’” (Revelation 22:20)

What do you need from Jesus today?
This week? 
This season?

He simply says, “Come unto me.” 

Whatever you need, He is.

Come to Jesus,
The Bread of Life (John 6:25-40)  

This account takes place shortly after Jesus miraculously fed a large crowd. The disciples are still looking for more signs as to who He is, and He tells them to stop and instead look at Him.

He is offering more than food which fills a belly for a moment; He offers food to satiate and satisfy our souls forever. 

“‘I am the bread of life,’ Jesus told them. ‘No one who comes to Me will ever be hungry[.]’” (John 6:35)

When we try to fill ourselves with the things of this world, we will not be satisfied.

Come to Jesus,
The Light of the World (John 8:2-20) 

During the Feast of Tabernacles, great lamps were lit so the temple would be prepared for praise and worship. Jesus reveals Himself during this celebration as the Light of the World. 

Does it sometimes seem you are surrounded by dark news or continually met with dismay? Salvation in Christ means we no longer need to walk discouraged by darkness. (Isaiah 9:2) 

Come to Jesus,
The Door (John 10:1-10)

Jesus is the only true gatekeeper. Anyone else claiming to save and set people free is a liar. Jesus is the only one worthy of opening the door. (Revelation 5:3-6)

We want to be loved, known, and invited in and we can be easily deceived by someone who has less than honorable intentions. It is likewise easy to fall prey to someone who says we are not redeemable, even if that “someone” is our own feelings and thoughts.

Have we been listening to those voices? 

Come to Jesus,
The Good Shepherd (John 10:11-21)

A trustworthy shepherd looks after, protects, and is willing to lay down his life for his sheep. He knows each and every one, and the sheep also know their shepherd’s voice, picking it out from a crowd. 

So many voices clamor for our attention. Can we hear our Savior? 

Come to Jesus,
The Resurrection and the Life (John 11:17-27)

This scene convinced the Jewish authorities they must get rid of Jesus. They knew this miracle would only increase Jesus’ following and thereby potentially cause an uprising. 

Lazarus had been dead for four days. Jewish tradition stated the spirit of a dead person is still surrounding the person for three days, so four days would assure Lazarus was truly gone. Many questioned why Jesus had stayed away while Lazarus was sick. After all, healing would have happened had He been there; death would have been averted. 

Have you ever been distraught over the loss of a loved one, a chronic illness, or challenging diagnosis? Jesus wants to calm those heartaches and fears. 

Jesus can heal, either in this life or the next. 

Come to Jesus,
The Way, The Truth, and The Life (John 14:1-14)

Counter to popular belief, salvation is found only in Christ. Jesus is the Truth and Life, so He is the only Way.

Are we seeking Truth? Are we seeking Life? 

Come to Jesus,
The True Vine (John 15:1-8)

In order to live rightly, we must remain close to the vine. The fruit of righteousness, loving obedience, and justice are proof of our flourishing connection to Christ. When we stray, when we seek sources beyond the True Vine, our emptiness is displayed in our actions and is felt deep in our spirit. 

May we seek to prioritize our connection to the Vine and enjoy the good fruit He produces in us.

Come to Jesus.

Christ’s first-century invitation is the same today, for He never changes. (Hebrews 13:8)

“If anyone is thirsty, let him come to Me and drink.” (John 7:37)     

On that Day of Final Victory, we will see the splendor of the throne room and behold the majesty of God. (Isaiah 6:1-3, Revelation 4:1-11)

Sisters, He bids you come. 

Will you accept?

 

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Happiness is an outward expression identifiable by a smile or even laughter. It’s usually the result of some accomplishment or a favorable occurrence, so it fluctuates depending on the moment.

However, God promised joy through Jesus Christ, which comes from a person's inner spirit. It’s stable and enduring because the truths it holds dear, are precious and sure regardless of trouble or bliss.

Real, abiding joy does not ebb and flow due to circumstances or the type of day a person is experiencing.
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Come Day 9 Come To Relate: Digging Deeper

February 20, 2025 by Rachel Jones Leave a Comment

Come Day 9 Come To Relate: Digging Deeper

Rachel Jones

February 20, 2025

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Matthew 11:28-30

Come to Me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest 29 Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, because I am lowly and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.
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The Original Intent

1) How can taking up Jesus’ yoke bring rest for our souls? (verses 28-29)

First century farmers would join oxen using a wooden yoke so they could work hard plowing or carrying a heavy load. A yoke of oxen was an ordinary sight, making the yoke an apt symbol for Jesus to use in His teaching.

Marvin Vincent explains, “One of the most common figurative expressions of the time was that of the yoke for submission to an occupation or obligation.” The concept was referenced in the Shema, a public prayer, wherein, according to Alfred Edersheim, “The section Deuteronomy 6:4-9 was said to precede Deuteronomy 11:13-21, so that we might take upon ourselves the yoke of the kingdom of heaven, and only after that the yoke of the commandments.”

Jesus used the symbol of the yoke because it was well-known to His audience as representing submission. In contrast to the striving of the oxen, Jesus promised that taking up His yoke would bring rest. (verse 29) Christine Caine exhorts that the rest Jesus offers is a rest “where we labor from acceptance, not for acceptance . . . from a place of knowing we are loved by God, not striving to get that love from God . . . where we labor from our identity as sons and daughters of the King of kings and the Lord of lords.”

We often make things harder for ourselves than the Lord intended. The yoke we try to bear on our own includes worry, stress, and endeavoring to gain acceptance. Jesus’ yoke is easy because it comes with help and strength from Jesus Himself. (Philippians 4:13)

He lays out good works for each one of us and makes us able to complete those works in Him. (Philippians 2:13) I urge each one of us to take up Jesus’ yoke today and find rest!

The Everyday Application

1) How can taking up Jesus’ yoke bring rest for our souls? (verses 28-29)

As a kid, I had a few issues with anxiety and worry, but they didn’t really surface until I was married and had to share everything with another person and put my trust in him. I struggled to relinquish control as my completely opposite-from-me-husband did all the things not the way I would. I reacted to his absent-mindedness and inattention to detail with hyper-vigilance and constant reminders so I wouldn’t worry about lost keys, forgotten appointments, or the freezer door left open.

I fretted and fussed trying to avoid calamity, but I didn’t perceive it until we spent time away with some new friends. I recognized the same anxiousness in the wife’s behavior as in my own, and I realized I was causing unrest in my life and marriage because of my striving and worrying. I needed the rest for my soul that Jesus promises in Matthew 11:29.

Ruth Chou Simons asserts, “When we put our hope in Jesus, we trade restless feelings about our not-yets and not-enoughs for His already and all-satisfying. We trade the burden of trying to access what we think we’re missing for the rest that comes when we receive what God fully provides . . . We can be at rest right where we are because our ability to ‘be still, and know that [He is] God’ (Psalm 46:10) is not dependent on whether our circumstances feel restful or light. It’s wholly dependent on where we turn for true rest.”

I was able to give control of averting disaster over to Jesus and rest in knowing that God was in charge. Working with the Lord, I became a help to my husband rather than a micro-manager of his every move (
Proverbs 27:15-16) and we could be at rest.

The Original Intent

2) Why does Jesus emphasize that He is lowly and humble in heart? (verses 29-30)

In Matthew 11:29, Jesus describes Himself as “lowly and humble in heart.” Jesus emphasizes His humility because it is a trait required for a heart to be at rest. He invites those who learn from Him and His submission to the Father, to take up this same yoke, finding rest in relaxing into the Father’s wise, loving care. He makes a way for us to follow Him, and it is done by donning humility. (John 10:9)

Christine Caine suggests, “Much of the burden that we feel, the weariness that we feel…is because we are on our minds all the time. It’s so releasing to get yourself off your mind and start thinking about someone else.” When we are humble of heart, we are not worried about receiving our due or getting what we think we deserve. Humility causes us to think about Jesus and His will. (Psalm 25:9)

Ray Ortlund suggests that Jesus’ “heart is not touchy, not sullen, not resentful, not haughty. The Son of God came down as an egoless nobody to make friends with self-important people like us, and he has not changed.” Jesus wants us to be lowly and humble in heart so we will be made more like Jesus. (Philippians 2:8, Romans 8:29)

In following the humble Christ we find salvation (Psalm 149:4), exaltation (James 4:10), and wisdom (Proverbs 11:2). God wants us to walk humbly with Him (Micah 6:8) so we can imitate Him (Ephesians 5:1) and learn from Him. When we rely on our humble Lord and walk in His ways, we find rest for our souls.

The Everyday Application

2) Why does Jesus emphasize that He is lowly and humble in heart? (verses 29-30)

I attended a child’s birthday party outdoors under a giant tent reserved for the small gathering of friends and family. When the mom revealed the fall-themed cupcakes, all the kids were excited—including a tiny interloper who wandered in and plopped down at the table with the other kids, hands outstretched for his sumptuous treat.

Some parents tried to discover where the uninvited guest came from, but the party mom just welcomed him with open arms. She let him join the fun with the party guests while others sorted out where his family was. She wasn’t upset that this unattended child crashed her party. She didn’t make snarky comments to the negligent mom when she finally showed up or complain to management about the mishap, demanding recompense.

This mom simply welcomed and accepted the little guy. I think of her humble response sometimes when I watch viral videos of customers throwing food at workers who messed up their orders or airplane passengers de-boarding because someone grew violent about the seating arrangements.

These examples help us understand that Jesus emphasized the character trait of humility in Matthew 11:29. Without humility, we can’t be like Jesus. And one of God’s great plans for all Christ followers is to change us into His image. (2 Corinthians 3:18)

David Mathis declares, “True humility is not the denigrating of humanity, but God’s image shining in its fullness . . . To humble ourselves is to come ever closer, step by step, to the bliss and full flourishing for which we were made.”

When we are humble, the light of God shines through us. What a blessing that God walks with us on each step of our journey to Christ-like humility! (Proverbs 3:34)

The Original Intent

3) Why does Jesus say His yoke is easy and His burden is light? (verse 30)

Jesus declares in Matthew 11:30 that His “yoke is easy and [His] burden is light.” These are statements in contradiction for a “yoke” denotes hard work and toil and “burdens” suggest heaviness. Yet Jesus says His yoke is not hard but easy, and His burden is not heavy but light.

Jesus can say this because all we need to do to take His easy yoke upon ourselves is trust in Him and follow Him. We are not responsible to chart the course, just to follow it in His strength. (Deuteronomy 31:6) David Guzik declares, “The yoke is easy and the burden is light because He bears it with us. Borne alone, it might be unbearable; but with Jesus it can be easy and light.”

J. H. Jowett concurs, saying, “The fatal mistake for the believer is to seek to bear life’s load in a single collar. God never intended a man to carry his burden alone. Christ therefore deals only in yokes! A yoke is a neck harness for two, and the Lord himself pleads to be One of the two. He wants to share the labor of any galling task.”

Our burdens are light because Jesus bears them. (Psalm 68:19) His yoke is easy because taking up His yoke means accepting His grace and leaning on His strength. Scotty Smith suggests that to be yoked to God “is to realize (He) fully carr(ies) us, not just our burdens. (He is) our righteousness, our hope, our peace—all the way Home.” What a privilege to be yoked to our Savior, trusting everything to Him!

The Everyday Application

3) Why does Jesus say His yoke is easy and His burden is light? (verse 30)

I often mistakenly equate serving and pleasing God with working hard for God. I figure that the harder the work is, the better pleased He must be. The more lessons I plan, the more time I spend at church, the more devotions I write, the more pleasing God will find me. I fill my days striving to do the “God things” and soon feel weighed down, exhausted, and frustrated, much like Mary’s sister, Martha. (Luke 10:38-42)

I get weary in well-doing (Galatians 6:9) because I am doing everything on my own without relying on the strength and grace God lovingly provides. In Matthew 11:30, Jesus tells us that His yoke is easy and His burden light. We don’t have to shoulder all the work, or even half of the work. God lets us rest in the knowledge that He is in charge.

Christine Caine asserts that His yoke is easy because “Jesus does the work…What we need to do, our part of the yoke, is to believe and abide.” Kath Thomas suggests that “Perhaps part of that light yoke is resting in the knowledge that our God is sovereign. All things are in His hands and we can trust Him for our future, our present, and even our past. I don’t have to work it all out. . .”.

What pleases God is obedience (1 John 5:3), not my busyness. He commands us take His yoke upon ourselves and learn from Him. That is so much better than trying to do everything on my own.

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Jesus desires for us to live, as one Bible translation puts it, “freely and lightly.”

Yes, we will face hardship in this life, but He wants us to live with an inner peace and lightness from Him, even in the midst of hardship.

This means, then, there is no place for the heavy bondage of legalism, the soul-crushing pace of hustle and hurry, the life-draining idol of comparison, or the guilt and shame-inducing fearful lies of the enemy.
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Come Day 8 Come To Relate

February 19, 2025 by Rebekah Hargraves Leave a Comment

Come Day 8 Come To Relate

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February 19, 2025

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Psalm 116:5-9
Song of Solomon 2:10-13
Matthew 11:28-30

When I discovered the topic of our next study here at Gracefully Truthful, I immediately saw the hand of God all over it. You see, the Lord has had me on a journey since the Advent season of 2023, a journey of becoming aware of the tender invitations He extends to me. I read a handful of Advent books at the end of last year, and in every one, the word “invitation” kept popping up. That, my friends, is no coincidence. 

Though I have walked with the Lord for the vast majority of my life, only in recent months have I considered my relationship with Him as a series of gracious invitations. In light of the specific invitation we are discussing today, this realization is both a gift and a balm to my soul. 

I tend to be hyper-focused on my to-do list, always hurrying from one thing to the next, and subconsciously taking on the burdensome belief that everything depends upon me. So when I read these words of invitation from Jesus in Matthew 11:28-30, I am instantly stopped in my tracks:

“Come to Me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, because I am lowly and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”

Though I had read those words many times, I learned something striking about this passage in the following excerpt from John Mark Comer’s excellent book, The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry:

“Jesus was a rabbi (Hebrew, meaning ‘teacher’). Yes, He was more – the Messiah and the embodiment of God Himself. I deeply believe that. But if you had been a first-century Jew and Jesus showed up in your synagogue one Sabbath morning, the odds are, the category you would have put him in was that of a rabbi or a traveling sage. 

“And like every rabbi in his day, Jesus had a yoke. Not a literal yoke; He was a teacher not a farmer. A yoke was a common idiom in the first century for a rabbi’s way of reading the Torah. But it was also more: it was the rabbi’s set of teachings on how to be human. His way to shoulder the (at times crippling) weight of life- marriage, divorce, prayer, money, conflict resolution, government- all of it. It’s an odd image for those of us who don’t live in an agrarian society. But imagine two oxen yoked together to pull a cart or plow a field. A yoke is how you shoulder a load. What made Jesus unique wasn’t that He had a yoke; all rabbis had a yoke. It was that He had an *easy* yoke.”

These words stopped me in my tracks as I was reading. Jesus desires for us to live, as one Bible translation puts it, “freely and lightly.” Yes, we will face hardship in this life, but He wants us to live with an inner peace and lightness from Him, even in the midst of hardship. This means, then, there is no place for the heavy bondage of legalism, the soul-crushing pace of hustle and hurry, the life-draining idol of comparison, or the guilt and shame-inducing fearful lies of the enemy.

Imagine if we all lived with THAT kind of freedom. The amazing grace and beauty of the gospel is that we can, if we follow the way of Jesus! 

This brings me to the beautiful words of Song of Solomon 2:10-13, a passage which begins with the same invitation as Matthew 11,  the invitation to “come”.

“My love calls to me:
Arise, my darling.
Come away, my beautiful one.
For now the winter is past;
the rain has ended and gone away.
The blossoms appear in the countryside.
The time of singing has come,
and the turtledove’s cooing is heard in our land.
The fig tree ripens its figs;
the blossoming vines give off their fragrance.
Arise, my darling.
Come away, my beautiful one
.”

When placed alongside Jesus’ words in Matthew 11, this passage teaches us, with deep beauty and impact, about the nature of God’s invitation; it is all about relationship. We are invited and called to walk in step with Him, delighting in His presence, and feeling calmed and comforted by His love. 

Instead of striving, we now trust. 
Instead of rushing, we now slow down. 
Instead of thinking everything is on our shoulders, we realize, actually, He carries everything for us. 

What a beautiful relief!

Now, as I ponder my daily to-dos and encounter the events of each day, I am able to feel a soul-deep peace, for my Savior’s yoke is easy, and His burden truly is light.

“Return to your rest, my soul,
for the Lord has been good to you.
”
(Psalm 116:7)

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The GT Weekend! ~ Come, Week 1

February 15, 2025 by Katelyn Palmer Leave a Comment

The GT Weekend! ~ Come, Week 1

Katelyn Palmer

February 15, 2025

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Ephesians 1:17-19

I pray that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, would give you the Spirit, of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of him.

I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened so that you may know what is the hope of His calling, what is the wealth of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and what is the immeasurable greatness of his power toward us who believe, according to the mighty working of his strength.”
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Reflective Prayer

Thank You, Yahweh, thank You for loving us unconditionally. Thank You for showing us how You heal by Your mercy, grace, and love. Thank You for always being present in every circumstance, even when we don’t acknowledge You.

Lord, help me learn to see Your heart in every situation. Let my heart first seek Your Son when I experience spiritual hunger and thirst. (John 6:35) Help me learn to receive Your blessings (and rebuke) with gratitude and grace. (Philippians 2:14-18) Let my eyes see You working in my life (Philippians 2:13) and allow me to be a vessel of Your love for others (John 15:12-17). Then we shall certainly feast at Your table as brothers and sisters in Christ.

Yahweh, from the beginning You have held true to Your promises. You have cared for Your creation with unconditional love. I pray that Your love is felt by those who are poor in spirit right now. (Matthew 5:3) I pray Your love permeates the hearts of those who mourn. (Matthew 5:4)

I pray Your hand blesses those who have been humbly working out Your will in Your name. (Matthew 5:5) Yahweh, give us all the strength to turn the other cheek when this world tests us, to seek Your heart when we lose our way, and leave a mark of love everywhere we go.
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Reflection One

Sometimes, we clutter things up with our own words. Our words just don’t heal our wounds the way we wish they would. But God’s Word is a balm to the deepest wounds of our soul. (Psalm 6:2, Psalm 147:3)

Remind yourself of God’s encouraging words Brenda shared with us on Monday; the Lord’s love overwhelms our understanding! “God is our refuge and strength, a helper who is always found in times of trouble.” (Psalm 46:1, emphasis mine)

“Light shines in the darkness for the upright. […] He will never be shake. […] He will not fear bad news; his heart is confident, trusting in the Lord. His heart is assured; he will not fear. In the end he will look in triumph on his foes.” (Psalm 112:4, 6-8, emphasis mine)

“Come to me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest… you will find rest for your souls.” (Matthew 11:28-30, emphasis mine)

“I will not die, but I will live and proclaim what the Lord has done.” (Psalm 118:17)

“Be merciful unto me, O God… What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee.” (Psalm 56:1-4, KJV, emphasis mine)

Let the Lord’s promises be the foundation you stand on, the refuge you seek in times of trouble and in times of triumph. Let His Words soothe the ache in your heart. Decide to come, see Him!
Monday & Tuesday

Reflection Two

Humans are meant to live in communion both with each other and also with God. (Genesis 1:18-20, John 15:1-8) While God is omnipresent and His will reigns supreme (Psalm 139:7-16, Psalm 9:7-12), He allows us the freedom to choose Him in this life. We have the freedom to accept or reject His gift of salvation and communion with Him. When we choose not to allow the Spirit to dwell within us by choosing a relationship with God, or when we stray from the Spirit as a Christ-follower and attend to our flesh, our souls cry out because we are not whole.

This is spiritual hunger and thirst.

We are spiritual beings in a temporary physical world; we are designed for much more than the temporal and fleeting. Yet, we cannot realize spiritual completeness without Jesus. In John 7:37-39, Jesus promises us we will find completeness in Him; He is enough to satisfy our spiritual hunger and thirst by providing reconciliation with God. (2 Corinthians 5:16-21)

Jesus could pay the price tag of death for our sin because He is of God. (John 7:28-29) He is fully man and fully God. (Philippians 2:5-8, Colossians 1:15-20) He did what we could not and took our sin upon Himself, defeating sin and death so we may live in God’s love forever more. (1 Peter 2:21-25, Galatians 1:3-5, Galatians 3:13-14) All that’s needed is our trusting faith in Jesus that He did this work for us, for without faith, it is impossible to please God. (Hebrews 11:6)
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Reflection Three

As is the case with all Biblical texts, we must study God’s word through a biblical lens that encompasses all of Scripture. If we take the text at face value, divorcing it from the rest of God’s Word, we run the risk of missing God’s heart and listening to enemy deception.

For example, consider Acts 20:35, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Face value, and the enemy, might have us believe it somehow makes us wrong to request or receive help. Other lies include the idea that we must earn God’s blessings by giving to others or that we must give even when we are drained of spiritual and physical resources.

However, if we study through the lens of Scripture as a whole, we understand we must first receive from the Lord, be it directly from His hand or through the people and circumstances in our lives, before we have anything to give away.

Jesus was in constant prayer with the Father, asking for provision and trusting God to deliver. Then Jesus gave healing, blessing, and wisdom. Jesus also spent time alone with the Father to be restored physically and spiritually by Him. As Paul explains in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, we comfort those in affliction through the comfort we ourselves receive from God.
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January 19, 2017 No Comments

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The Law of Love

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Therefore Day 4 Unified Diversity: Digging Deeper

May 30, 2024 by Stacy Winkler Leave a Comment

Therefore Day 4 Unified Diversity: Digging Deeper

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May 30, 2024

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Read His Words Before Ours!

Ephesians 4:7-16

7 Now grace was given to each one of us according to the measure of Christ’s gift. 8 For it says:

When he ascended on high,
he took the captives captive;
he gave gifts to people,

9 But what does “he ascended” mean except that he also descended to the lower parts of the earth? 10 The one who descended is also the one who ascended far above all the heavens, to fill all things, 11 And he himself gave some to be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, some pastors and teachers, 12 to equip the saints for the work of ministry, to build up the body of Christ, 13 until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of God’s Son, growing into maturity with a stature measured by Christ’s fullness.

14 Then we will no longer be little children, tossed by the waves and blown around by every wind of teaching, by human cunning with cleverness in the techniques of deceit. 15 But speaking the truth in love, let us grow in every way into him who is the head — Christ. 16 From him the whole body, fitted and knit together by every supporting ligament, promotes the growth of the body for building itself up in love by the proper working of each individual part.
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The Original Intent

1) How do these verses connect with the ones written at the beginning of the chapter and the book? (verses 7-16)

Having just completed the description of who the believer is in Christ, how dead we are outside of Christ, and how our unity with Christ binds and unifies all believers together, Paul then instructs the Ephesians how to walk worthy of their calling in Christ as it relates to their relationship with one another. (Ephesians 1-3, 4:1)

He explains their unity with each other by describing how they all belong to the one God, “One Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of us all.” (Ephesians 4:5-6) In verse 7, Paul explores how each believer is different by God’s design through Christ’s gift of grace on the cross and in His resurrection.

It is because of Christ’s ascension to heaven after His resurrection that He gives grace to His people through the Holy Spirit whom He sends to indwell each believer. (verse 10, Romans 3:24, John 14:16-17) The gifts are a portion of the grace given to each believer by the Holy Spirit and are to be used to glorify God by equipping “the saints for the work of ministry, to build up the body of Christ until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of God’s Son […].” (1 Peter 4:10-11, Ephesians 4:12-13)

Thus, the diverse gifts listed in this passage are given to individual believers by Jesus to equip the believers to grow in unity through their increased knowledge of and faith in Jesus Christ.

The Everyday Application

1) How do these verses connect with the ones written at the beginning of the chapter and the book? (verses 7-16)

Is this list of grace-gifts given to believers a complete list? No, it is a partial list from Paul. Other biblical passages tell us of other gifts given by the Holy Spirit, but the one thing all gifts have in common is they are all used to glorify God. (Romans 12:3-8, 1 Corinthians 12:4-11, 1 Corinthians 12:26-31, 1 Peter 4:10-11)

Paul may have provided this particular list of gifts because the outcome of their use will unify a group of believers in the faith and knowledge of Jesus. (verses 12-13) We cannot have unity without a common knowledge, understanding, and faith in Jesus Christ, which is how these verses are rooted in the first part of the letter. (Study chapters 1-3 with us! Journey Into Done!)

As we learn about Jesus, we are unified under one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all. (Ephesians 4:4-5) We are told to grow in the knowledge of Jesus in multiple places in the Bible. (2 Peter 3:18, 2 Peter 1:2-3, John 17:3, Philippians 3:8)

The people with these particular gifts have the responsibility to lead in unity and teach the ways of Jesus. Both are vital in our walk as we share Jesus with a world that does not understand unity within diversity and does not understand Jesus or His ways. (verse 1, 1 Corinthians 2:14)

Believers in Jesus don’t always agree on every detail of our faith, after all, we are diverse! In the words of Rupertus Meldenius, a German Lutheran theologian of the early 17th century, our bond should be “In essentials unity, in non-essentials liberty, in all things charity.”

The Original Intent

2) Why does Paul seem to misquote Psalm 68:18? (verse 8, Psalm 68:18)

Psalm 68 describes a king who is victorious over his enemies. The captives he takes into his kingdom would normally give gifts to their new king. However, in Psalm 68, the king gives gifts to his new captives, offering them salvation, power, and strength. (Psalm 68:19-20, 35)

Those who put their faith in Jesus have been taken captive by the Gloriously Good King and saved from the old kingdom of sin and death and have been transferred to a new and brilliant kingdom of life, strength, and power. (Colossians 1:13) With his understanding of New Testament and Jesus’ sacrificial death and resurrection from the grave, Paul understood Psalm 68 to ultimately describe what Jesus has done for the believer.

Jesus descended to the earth as a man, God in human form, and ascended to heaven after His resurrection “to fill all things.” (verses 9-10) This includes giving His captives an abundance of grace which include salvation and specific gifts that build up the church body.

His gifts of grace for those who trade the chains of Death for Life in Jesus include everything we need for life and godliness. (2 Peter 1:3) This includes gifts that build His church and bring more captives into His kingdom by sharing the good news of offered freedom by the Good King!

Paul’s restatement of Psalm 68:18 is not a misquote, but rather a deeper interpretation of the passage as fulfilled in Jesus’ victory on the cross and His ruling reign as King of All.

The Everyday Application

2) Why does Paul seem to misquote Psalm 68:18? (verse 8, Psalm 68:18)

What a glorious thing it is to be a captive of the victorious King of Kings! Captivity by Jesus is a safe-holding for all eternity to enjoy Him forever, but we do not automatically become transferred to His good kingdom.

The Savior is only accessible through faith, trusting His work on the cross while acknowledging and repenting of our sin that separated us from Him in the first place. (Acts 3:19-20) Everyone’s default destination is the Kingdom of Sin and Death. Until we willingly ask for His rescue, we remain chained to Death.

According to Scripture, there are 3 facets of salvation.
1) Salvation from sin’s punishment.
This takes place when one bows the knee and accepts Jesus as Savior and Lord of their life. We gain access through faith and repenting of our sin. (Acts 2:38) Sin no longer is our taskmaster; we are free to walk in the love of our new Lord, Jesus Christ! (Romans 6:14, 18)

2) Salvation from sin’s power. (2 Corinthians 9:8, 2 Corinthians 12:9)
Souls rescued by Jesus gradually grow a distaste for sin and an appetite for the holy ways of God. This heart desire is cultivated in us by the Holy Spirit; He shifts our hearts as we lean into Him and practice turning away from sin and toward our new King as we “walk worthy of the calling” we have received. (Ephesians 4:1-3)

3) Salvation from sin’s presence.  
One day, we will be free from every hint of sin; sin and death itself will die forever and its stains will no longer color any aspect of our life as we dwell perfectly with the triune God. (1 Corinthians 15:26) What a glorious day that will be! Until that day, may we grow in our “maturity with a stature measured by Christ’s fullness.” (verse 13)

The Original Intent

3) What is the purpose and result of the gifts listed in the passage? (verses 11-16)

The gifts Paul lists are those of apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, and teachers (or possibly translated as pastor-teacher). These specific gifts are to be used in the church to lead and teach about Jesus, equipping “the saints for the work of ministry, to build up the body of Christ […]”. (verse 12)

Since Paul has already discussed the unity of the believers in the midst of their gifted-diversity, it is fitting he would instruct the Ephesian believers to learn from the people with these gifts. It is through them God had chosen to teach the believers about unity and Jesus.

During this time in history, Ephesus was filled with magic, sorcery, and false teaching. Teaching about Jesus and the church’s unity because of Him was necessary so they would not “be little children, tossed by the waves and blown around by every wind of teaching, by human cunning with cleverness in the techniques of deceit” in the culture surrounding them. (verse 14)

Paul pleads with the Ephesian church to turn their back on the influences of their community and join together under the leadership and teaching of the church, so they can “grow in every way in Him who is the head– Christ.” Just as each part of the physical body is meant to function with different tasks and duties, so the Body of Christ, the Church, is made up of diverse people with diverse gifts. How is this diversity unified? Through the Head, Jesus Christ, who orders and directs the Body, the Church. (verse 15)

The Everyday Application

3) What is the purpose and result of the gifts listed in the passage? (verses 11-16)

In his first letter to the Corinthian believers, Paul also addressed the idea of the unified church made up of diverse members with diverse gifts. He writes there is one Spirit, one Lord and “[…] there are different activities, but the same God working all of them (the gifts) in each person.” (1 Corinthians 12:4-6)

Does this sound familiar? It’s similar to the Ephesians 4 passage!

The Spirit is actively working in His people, distributing gifts to each person as He sovereignly wills. (1 Corinthians 12:11) Paul says these manifestations of the Spirit are given to each believer “for the common good.” (1 Corinthians 12:7)

What is the common good? To love God, grow in fellowship with Him, be unified with one another, and respect the good gifts of other believers. Each person is necessary because each part of the church, just as in a physical body, is “fitted and knitted together by every supporting ligament”. Each part of the church is vital in promoting “the growth of the body for building itself up in love, by the proper working of each individual.” (verse 16)

Are you growing “in every way into Him who is the head – Christ” by listening to those God has appointed to lead, teach, and equip you?  (verse 11-12, 15) Are you using your gifts, whatever they may be, to glorify God and in serving His people? Each member of the kingdom has the opportunity and responsibility to use their gifts for the church to the glory of God; let’s use ours to the full!

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As believers, we are given the clear mission of building one another up in faith and in love. Ephesians 4:15-16 exhorts, “

But speaking the truth in love, let us grow in every way into Him who is the head-Christ. From Him the whole body, fitted and knit together by every sup-porting ligament, promotes the growth of the body for building itself up in love by the proper working of each individual part.”

Did you catch that?
Our mission is to, yes, build one another up in faith, truth, sound doc-trine, right living, and good works.

But it does not end there, nor does it even begin there.

Love is what begins, ends, and undergirds this ministry work. We are not called to “beat one another over the head with sound doctrine”; far from it!
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The GT Weekend! ~ Done, Week 1

May 11, 2024 by Katelyn Palmer Leave a Comment

The GT Weekend! ~ Done, Week 1

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May 11, 2024

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Ephesians 1:3-8

Blessed is the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavens in Christ. For He chose us in Him, before the foundation of the world, to be holy and blameless in love before Him.

He predestined us to be adopted as sons through Jesus Christ for Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will, to the praise of His glorious grace that He lavished on us in the Beloved One.

In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of His grace that He richly poured out on us with all wisdom and understanding.
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Yahweh, In all Your wisdom, You created each of us in love, with every hair on our head and freckle on our face. (Psalm 139:13-14, Matthew 10:29-31) You knew each step we would take before we took our first breath.

Offering rescue to the world through the blood of Your Son on the cross was always Your plan. To spend eternity with us was always Your plan. To love us unconditionally and without restraint was always Your plan.

Your Spirit, a gift we never earned nor deserved, testifies to our adoption as Your children crying out within us, “Abba Father”. (Romans 8:15-16)

Your Son intercedes on our behalf even as He pays the price for our sin on the cross. (Luke 23:34, Romans 8:34)

I pray that as we, the sisters of Gracefully Truthful, move through the theme of “Done”, You, Yahweh, move through us.

I pray our understanding of the power of Your love alive within us deepens and we extend it lavishly to our neighbors.

I pray we see Your heart.

I pray we are encouraged to share the news of Your sacrifice and share in Your sacrifice to serve others.

Truly, the work of our salvation is DONE and all who trust in You are YOURS.
In Your Son’s name I ask, Amen.

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Journal Prompts

JOURNAL ONE

What a treat to jumpstart our new theme, Done. Lesley really packs a punch as she drives home the truth that God’s love for us is genuine and complete.

When a phrase or message is repeated often, like “God loves everyone,” sometimes it can lose its meaning. Lesley gently reminds us that God isn’t loving us generically or because He is acting from obligation. We aren’t the last ones to be picked for God’s family team. God intentionally chose each of His followers “before the foundation of the world”! (Ephesians 1:4)

We are messy, sinful creatures consumed by our own lives with little perspective of the world around us and yet the Creator of the Universe handcrafted each of us, then chose us to be His before He even created the world. Have you ever known such intentionality?!

Lesley and Mandy also remind us that God chose us with purpose. He chose us to be made holy like Himself, to be adopted into God’s family, and to be freed and redeemed from the wretchedness of our own sinful decisions through His son Jesus Christ. All of this work, beginning to sacrificial end, delighted Him to accomplish! (Ephesians 1:5)

I urge you to meditate on the foundational belief that God chose you not because of your works, but simply because He wanted to; that desire for you never fades!
JOURNAL TWO

Something a pastor said that has always stuck with me is the idea that God wants relationship with us more than He wants our vain sacrifices and works. The Lord has told us this in word and has demonstrated it with His actions. (Hosea 6:6, Romans 5:8)

God chose us before even creating the universe (Ephesians 1:4), laid plans for His Son to be the purchase price for our reconciliation to Him (Galatians 4:4, Ephesians 1:7-10), and blessed us with all the spiritual blessings of the heavens through His Son (Ephesians 1:3).
All of this was so we may become His daughters and sons!

It is encouraging to read repeatedly that God delighted in His plan to unite us with Him. Adoption was His heart’s desire from the beginning. (Colossians 1:19-20, Isaiah 53:10). He has always shared His love and spiritual wealth with us, in knowledge, relationship, peace, and joy.

To know God in this way is to understand what Paul was speaking about in Philippians 3:7-11. He eloquently relates that everything the material world offers…is dung…compared to the “surpassing value of knowing Christ Jesus”. (verse 8)

While this may sound like an exaggeration, Paul is right. As God’s children and heirs (Ephesians 1:11-13), our goal should be to seek Him all the days of our lives. While we will certainly fail on more than one occasion, keeping our eyes trained on this goal will safeguard our hearts (Proverbs 4:23) and prepare us for the path Yahweh has set before us (John 14:1-4).
JOURNAL THREE

Forever. A word not created by us, but by Yahweh, the One who has always been and will always be. It’s impossible for us to fully comprehend the true meaning of forever, but Jesus knew exactly what it meant when He said, “He [God the Father] will give you another Counselor to be with you forever”. (John 14:16, emphasis mine)

Many of us doubt our salvation at some point, but Jesus never has. Yahweh knew we were set apart as His long before light dawned on the earth. He hasn’t doubted the security of our eternal rescue for a moment.

If true Christ-followers are safe in eternity with the Father forever as family (Ephesians 2:4-6), how will we steward the part of forever we spend on earth?

In a word: worship.

We are meant to spend this time cultivating a relationship with God and learning from the Holy Spirit all the wonderful things He was sent to teach us as we bring ourselves to Him in surrendered worship.

In John 16, Jesus outlines four purposes of the Holy Spirit: to convict the world of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8-11); to guide us in truth and declare what is to come (John 16:13); and, lastly, to glorify God (John 16:14-15). What a marvelous Father we have, so generous with His love, and we get to spend forever with Him.
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She Day 12 Flesh Of My Flesh: Digging Deeper

November 14, 2023 by Melodye Reeves Leave a Comment

She Day 12 Flesh Of My Flesh: Digging Deeper

Melodye Reeves

November 14, 2023

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Discover the original intent of Scripture. Make good application to our everyday lives.
Become equipped to correctly handle the Word of Truth!

This DD Connects With "Flesh Of My Flesh"
Why Dig Deeper?

Read His Words Before Ours!

Hebrews 13:1-5

Let brotherly love continue. 2 Don’t neglect to show hospitality, for by doing this some have welcomed angels as guests without knowing it.

3 Remember those in prison, as though you were in prison with them, and the mistreated, as though you yourselves were suffering bodily. 4 Marriage is to be honored by all and the marriage bed kept undefiled, because God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.

5 Keep your life free from the love of money. Be satisfied with what you have, for he himself has said, “I will never leave you or abandon you.”
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The Original Intent

1) In its context, who is the writer addressing from verse 1 onward?

Much like the apostle Paul does in his letters, the unnamed author of Hebrews makes a shift from the direction of his letter leading up to this point as he prepares his closing. The transition of verse 1 signals an upcoming practical exhortation to believers.

As chapter 13 begins, the writer offers final encouragement to live in such a way that honors one another. In the previous verse, he referred to his audience as participants with him in the kingdom of God. He writes, “Since we receive it … let us be thankful.” (Hebrews 12:28) He begins by speaking to them regarding brotherly and sisterly (philadelphia) love.

The Scriptures teach that all the saints are to demonstrate a familial love for one another within their spiritual relationship. What we read about in verse 1 is an affectionate love among men and women who are connected to each other through Christ, therefore are unified spiritually just as a biological family is unified by blood. (John 17:21-23)

The reference to “brotherly love” is a combination of the Greek word phileo (Biblehub.com) with the Greek word adelphos (Biblestudytools.com). In its different forms, the word adelphos occurs several times in the New Testament with a variety of meanings which can be determined by looking at the context.

Adelphoi, the plural form of the word, is used by Paul in Galatians 3:27-29 to refer to siblings in the family of God who are heirs of promise. It identifies those who are in a sacred relationship with one another in Christ. There is to be a unique ‘kindredness’ of love and honor among those who are in the family of God through Jesus Christ. (Romans 12:10, Philippians 2:20)

The Everyday Application

1) In its context, who is the writer addressing from verse 1 onward?

Since the book’s author never names himself nor specifically designates his audience, both are an uncertainty for the Bible reader. Ancient theories suggest that the original recipients were Jewish Christians, hence the title Hebrews. (Hebrews 1:1: “Long ago, God spoke to our ancestors…)

If that is so, the reader would have understood the book’s many references to the Old Testament. Becoming familiar with the biblical traditions which were previously taught helps us interpret the writer’s mindset and possible meaning. It guides us to understand God and learn what He thinks about practical living.

For instance, reading the psalmist’s reflection in Psalm 133:1 provides us insight on his perspective of unity. His expression was possibly indicative of his own experiences of the hostile existence between those who should be kindreds. (1 Kings 15:3-6) David, the author of Psalm 133, knew it was better to have unity and love rather than disharmony and dishonor.

Continually demonstrating brotherly and sisterly love toward one another is essential for us as believers. Dear GT Sister, let’s pray for God to ignite within us a deep love for all our sisters in Christ. There are women in our sphere of influence who need our genuine compassion and care. I encourage you to look around within your own church family to find them. I assure you there’s someone who needs a caring friend.

May we prayerfully look toward others with our eyes and hearts open to God’s prompting to really see them and reach out to one of them today.

The Original Intent

2) What connection does the writer make in verses 2-3?

Family ties were common in Jewish culture with a rich heritage of honor running through their bloodlines. Psalms and Proverbs give us several examples of familial ties that would have existed within God’s people. (Proverbs 1:8, Proverbs 3:11, Proverbs 12:4, Psalm 127:3-5)

The Ten Commandments given by God indicate the vital role that family plays in His covenant with them as six of the ten handle relationships between people. (Deuteronomy 5:16-21) Under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit (2 Timothy 3:16, 2 Peter 1:20-21), the writer of Hebrews is making sure the reader understands the responsibility they have beyond their physical family. (verse 1) He urges them to carry their hospitality into the realm of potentially uncomfortable.

His mention of angels in verse 2 in interesting. Was the writer remembering the strangers who appeared at the door of Abraham? (Genesis 18:1-8) We learn from that Old Testament story the magnitude of extending hospitality to needy strangers! The author then mentions in verse 3 the prisoner and the outcast.

It could be tempting to gather with family and never consider the unseen suffering of those beyond those we love. Not only were they to be ready to serve those who needed hospitality, but also those who needed their remembrance. (Greek: mimnesko) This was a call to share in the suffering of others by consistently being mindful of those who were in prison or were abused (likely because of their faith).

Whether it was tangible support, prayers, or simply reminding each other of those suffering, there was to be acknowledgment and love for the “unseen”! Jesus told His followers that when they refused to help “the least of these brothers and sisters”— they were refusing to help the Lord Himself. (Matthew 25:35-45) In verses 2-3, we learn genuine love isn’t neglectful of others’ needs!

The Everyday Application

2) What connection does the writer make in verses 2-3?

Friends, as women of Jesus, we should be consistently developing a heart of love for others. Some of them sit near us each week in our local churches. But there are more!

Maybe you’ve read in your church’s ministry announcements of opportunities to love the marginalized and often disregarded. Or maybe you can open your home to someone who needs shelter. Not everyone can serve in the same capacity or give the same amount of time to community ministries or local missions’ efforts, but we can probably do something to demonstrate Jesus’ love for all.

Maybe it’s helping someone who is helping someone. Some churches offer groups who work together to minister to prisoners, widows, orphans and the poor. Women can also lead the way by joining together with other women to form teams to serve alongside one another. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-11)

There are many ways we can serve “the least of these.” Careportal.org serves kids and families by connecting believers to real-time needs in their own cities. See if it’s available in your area! Likely, you also know women who are striving to love Jesus well who may live across the world from us.

Gracefully Truthful is a great resource for finding and “meeting” women from other cities, states, and nations. We would love to increase our international opportunities to love and honor women all over the world who desire to follow Jesus in deeper ways.

Join a GT POD, register to study with us, or perhaps the Lord is calling you to join our team and write with us! Maybe you can’t move across the world and serve suffering believers. But we can ALL … 1) pray, 2) give and 3) remember those who are in need.

The Original Intent

3) Why might the writer include the subject of marriage in this passage? (verse 4)

The author of Hebrews continues his teaching on love by offering instruction on how to reflect God’s image as faithful, God-honoring wives. We may feel the subject is out of place as it can seem like it has been inserted in the middle of a thought without connection to its surroundings. So, we must ask ourselves if and how it connects.

The writer explains how marriage is to be honorable and “the marriage bed kept undefiled.” (verse 4) The Greek word translated “undefiled” (amiantos) is used three other times in the New Testament, and it carries the idea of being “set apart.” (Hebrews 7:26-27)

Just as it was essential to honor one another within community, the author commands the recipients to show honor within marriage by having an exclusive sexual relationship within marriage. An honoring kind of love in marriage guards against betrayal, specifically sexual unfaithfulness.

Notice the importance of honor in marriage: ONLY in verse 4 of our passage does the verse come with a warning of God’s judgment. We don’t always know God’s will about something. But in this we do! Scripture tells us it is God’s will we abstain from sexual immorality. (1 Thessalonians 4:2-5)

God does not take lightly dishonoring the marriage vow. The word for honor (timios) used in verse 4 means precious. Marriage was to be considered as precious. It’s the word used in 1 Corinthians 3:12 regarding precious stones and in 1 Peter 1:19 in reference to the precious blood of Jesus.

Considering marriage as precious and priceless should instill in the recipients the value God placed on marital faithfulness. It was a strong command and a lesson in the significance of honoring one another in marriage in a marked way.

The Everyday Application

3) Why might the writer include the subject of marriage in this passage? (verse 4)

We have read that loving others in the right way works for the good of everyone: for the brothers and sisters in Christ, for the strangers, and for the prisoners. But in the midst of these thoughts, we also learn how to please God in marriage.

Calling people to lifelong faithfulness was as counter-cultural then as it is today. Though seemingly a random mention, I believe the writer meant to include it here to indicate its significance. My friend, if you’re a wife as I am, may we understand that honoring our marriages is good for us and for society. Malachi 2:13-15, Proverbs 14;34,  Because this is God’s original plan, He would not be just if he did not judge those who disgrace marriage and treat it with contempt. (Psalm 89:14)

Yes, all Jesus-loving women are called honor others. But Jesus-loving wives are also called to honor our marriages. Scriptures teach us that our marriages are to be set apart as precious. If you are following along with our GT theme of “She”, we are considering the intentional delight of the Lord God who formed femininity and wrapped it in strength, courage, and dignity for the purpose of reflecting the image of the Lord who made “She”.

There are so many ways “SHE” can become involved in reflecting the image of the Lord. For wives, we have one particular way we are to reflect Him, by honoring our marriages in remaining faithful to our husbands and making marriage an exclusive sexual union. Friends, please know this: if you’ve failed, there’s grace. There’s always grace. (1 John 1:9)

You can walk in forgiveness, choose faithfulness, and trust God to provide you with strength to remain faithful.

The Original Intent

4) What essential truth is expressed in verse 5 to give the believer confidence and peace in all our circumstances?

We read in the previous passage how grace and thankfulness are to be lived out, knowing the reality of the unshakeable kingdom of God. (Hebrews 12:14-29)

With this in their minds, believers are to live with one another in loving and honorable ways within 1) faith relationships (verse 1), 2) local communities (verses 2-3), and 3) marriages (verse 4). In addition to these responsibilities, the author instructs believers to rightfully consider money matters. Again, the verse may seem to be an interruption of thought until we notice the contrast from the previous verses.

The perspective of a person who follows Christ is that our love is to be given to people, not money. We are to be content with what we have because of God’s faithful presence. (verse 5) There is no reason to place priority on keeping money for our security when we have God Himself.

The author’s goal was to communicate that what matters most in the kingdom of God was the forever relationships we’re creating. Believers are to honor others by sacrificially giving to them, honor marriage by being faithful, and honor God by not being consumed with self.

Jesus also addressed money issues in ways least expected. (Luke 12:13-21) The Jewish recipients of this letter had faced plenty of adversity, and they felt the sting of abuse, prison and need. (Hebrews 10:32-34) But they are reminded that God had made a promise to them just as He had to Moses (Deuteronomy 31:6) and to Joshua (Joshua 1:5).

This isn’t as much about money as it is about WHO God is. He is the believer’s confidence and contentment as He was the apostle Paul’s. (Philippians 4:11-13) They could graciously serve others, even if they had to sacrifice their own possessions.

The Everyday Application

4) What essential truth is expressed in verse 5 to give the believer confidence and peace in all our circumstances?

It is in the DNA of humanity to worry. (Matthew 6:19-34) But when we worry, it’s a sign that we believe something can go permanently wrong. So, we begin to make plans to save and gather all the things for ourselves to be “secure”. But, Sister, we don’t need to do this!

What a wonderful promise we read, “For He Himself has said, ‘I will never leave you or abandon you.’” He Himself. That’s the Lord God of all creation. Even though this is probably a reference to Deuteronomy 31:6, God’s never-forsaking presence is a prevalent promise found throughout the Bible.

Long before Jesus promised His disciples His presence (Matthew 28:19-20), God promised to be with His people. The Old Testament believers were assured of God’s presence with them. The psalmist often declared the Lord’s nearness to him in days of distress or trouble. The prophet Isaiah spoke God’s promise to the people when he told them the Lord would give a sign of a baby born of a virgin whose name would be Emmanuel, meaning God with us.

One day, all true believers will be with the Lord forever and ever! (Genesis 28:15, Psalm 46, Isaiah 7:14, Matthew 1:21-23, and Revelation 21:3) So, my Friend, the end of verse 5 is really the key to obeying the rest of the instructions in this passage. We can love others and we can honor our marriages because God is faithful!

“Now, trusting anyone is risky. But the biblical story portrays a God who has been faithful all along and whose promises were fulfilled in the story of Jesus. And so, as we look out at the obstacles facing us and our world, we’re invited to take that same risk and join Abraham, David, and the people of God in trusting that God is overflowing with faithfulness.” (bibleproject.com)

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While I had some vague, dreamy understanding that marriage was designed to honor God, I am absolutely certain my definition would never have included the curious verse that reads like a cliff-hanger at the close of The Love Chapter.

“For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I will know fully, as I am fully known.” (1 Corinthians 13:12)
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She Day 11 Flesh Of My Flesh

November 13, 2023 by Rebecca Adams 2 Comments

She Day 11 Flesh Of My Flesh

Rebecca Adams

November 13, 2023

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Read His Words Before Ours!

Hebrews 13:1-5
Ephesians 5:22-33
Genesis 2:20-25

The most common Scripture read at weddings is found in The Love Chapter of our Bibles.
Love is patient.
Love is kind.
Love does not envy,
is not boastful,
is not arrogant,
is not rude,
is not self-seeking,
is not irritable,
and does not keep a record of wrongs. 
Love finds no joy in unrighteousness but rejoices in the truth.
It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never ends.
(1 Corinthians 13:4-8)

My husband wrote this passage into his vows with beautiful, heartfelt, deeply sincere language. I can still hear his boyish, 20 year old voice promising me the world as I held back tears and promised him my everything in return.

Looking back, of course, I can confidently say we knew nothing about the words we spoke, just as we knew nothing of the countless struggles we would face as a married couple.

Still, with beautiful words and exchanging of rings, “I Thee Weds” and a breathless kiss, we danced and sang down the aisle into our new life.

While I had some vague, dreamy understanding that marriage was designed to honor God, I am absolutely certain my definition would never have included the curious verse that reads like a cliff-hanger at the close of The Love Chapter, “For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I will know fully, as I am fully known.” (1 Corinthians 13:12)

This, my friends, is the hidden key to understanding this magnificent love described in the verses above as well as marriage.

The core purpose of marriage isn’t fantastic lovemaking, having babies, sharing a life partner, going on adventurous dates, or even ministering together for the gospel. The core purpose of marriage is to provide a living, breathing picture of Jesus’ relationship with His People where He is the Groom and His people are His Bride.

“For no one ever hates his own flesh but provides and cares for it,
just as Christ does for the church, 
since we are members of His body.
For this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife,
and the two will become one flesh.
This mystery is profound,
but I am talking about Christ and the church
.”
Ephesians 5:29-32

Marriage is God’s “looking glass gift” for us to see Him, love Him, and know Him, and, through those grand explorations, we see and know ourselves as well while He shapes us into the image of His dearly beloved Son. (Romans 8:29) Even if you aren’t married, the gift of marriage is still for you to see and explore this great reflection of what it means to be the Bride of Christ, for you also are Bride. Marriage benefits the whole community to better see what the Lord meant by calling Himself the Bridegroom and His Church, the Bride. (more on that in tomorrow’s Digging Deeper; don’t miss it!)

In our marrying, our lovemaking, our meal preparations and laundry-folding, in our bread-winning, our budget-making, our sin-confessing, and our hand-holding, we are meant to KNOW what it means to be the Bride of Christ!

But the image is murky, so murky.
Even on our best days, it’s still cloudy.

“For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror….”

Every Jesus-following She
is meant to uphold the sacred role of Wife.

If you’re single, lean in to your married friends. Observe their marriages, find a wife who is willing to be transparent (while honoring to her husband and her Lord) about what she’s learning about Jesus through marriage. Cheer her on in her marriage. Urge her to protect it and fight for it. Pray for her marriage. Watch them laugh together and see a reflection of the love the Bridegroom, Christ, has for His Bride, for you!

If you’re married, you are up close and personal to the murky side (and the sweet side) of our present reality while we wait for the Perfect Marriage consummation in Glory!

The right-now-reality-image we see of the Perfect Groom & Bride is like taking Vaseline and swirling it on a mirror and then trying to apply our morning makeup. Murky.

With every deception from the enemy that sneaks into our marriages and every self-soaked sin that twists a knife of pain in our wedded hearts, another layer of Vaseline swirls the surface of our marred looking glass. What was intended to be astoundingly beautiful in the Garden of Eden as Adam beheld his Wife and breathed aloud in awe-filled wonder, She is “bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh!” (Genesis 2:23), has been marred.

Every married man and woman, and unmarried observer, attests to the jagged edges of that brokenness in marriage. Sin’s purpose is to steal, kill, and destroy, which is why the Lord lifts our eyes from the disappointments, hurts, and even pleasurable joys of our marriages, and says, “Remember, the purpose is to point your hearts to ME, not your spouse.”

Our hope doesn’t hang on being a wife or being loved wonderfully by a husband. (which is why singles and marrieds are beautiful gifts to the community of believers by the way!)
Our happiness in marriage doesn’t hinge on either spouse living out Christ’s love perfectly.
Our Hope is our coming Bridegroom.

But that’s then, but what about now?
Same answer, Sister, Christ.

Christ to comfort when our marriage hurts.
Christ to guide us when we realize, again, we can’t fix what’s broken.  
Christ to love us when our husband’s try hard, but miss the mark (um, also, just like us!)
Christ to teach us to forgive, because He knows what it’s like to forgive those who hurt and wound and are mean-spirited. Mean-spirited enough to crucify Him. (Also, Sister, that was us too…our sin put innocent Jesus to death as He PAID for the privilege to be our perfect Husband)

We are the Bride who messed up marriage as it was beautifully intended to be.
But we are also the Bride whom the Groom died to save.
And while He waits for us to finally come down the aisle in Eternity and enjoy His presence forever, He has given us a jewel of a gift, marriage. If we look closely amidst delight and sorrow, we can see the outline of what it looks like to be perfectly loved as Bride.

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There are so many ways “SHE” can become involved in reflecting the image of the Lord. For wives, we have one particular way we are to reflect Him, by honoring our marriages in remaining faithful to our husbands and making marriage an exclusive sexual union.
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