Come Day 5 Come To Receive
Farah Isbell
February 14, 2025

Psalm 66
Matthew 19:13-15
Ephesians 1
Acts 20:32-38
2 Corinthians 1:3-4
“It is more blessed to give than to receive.” (Acts 20:35)
Has our enemy ever used this verse against you, perhaps twisting Scripture to leave you feeling guilty for receiving care from God or fellow believers?
As with all of Scripture, it’s vital for us to read any passage in context, for when shaved away from the rest of the sword of the Spirit (which is the word of God, see Ephesians 6:17), one verse can become a dangerous metallic shard. Therefore, we must examine receiving and giving within the full context of Scripture; otherwise, we might frame these concepts as opponents, with one being “right” and the other, “wrong.” That is a mistake!
In fact, Psalm 66 and Ephesians 1 are full of the blessings we receive in God! Rather than singling out any particular verse, envision these entire chapters as hidden picture puzzles. The chapters themselves are large, beautiful illustrations, now, zoom in and search for the following smaller, beautiful word pictures nestled within.
Can you find →
awe-inspiring acts,
wonders of God,
seas turned into dry land,
protection,
abundance,
every spiritual blessing,
adoption,
redemption,
understanding of the mystery of his will,
the Holy Spirit,
wisdom,
hope,
and leadership?
What else can you seek-and-find in these chapters? Make your own list; beside the truths gleaned from Scripture, describe personal moments in which you received from Him. For more fun, continue the search into Ephesians 2 and 3!
For example:
Awe-inspiring acts (Psalm 66:3) . . . . the sunset out Dad’s hospital window
Solid, dry paths (Psalm 66:6) . . . . the way He has ordered our sons’ steps
Protection (Psalm 66:9) . . . . how He changed our job scenario
As you’ve read, have you noticed a pattern in which receiving precedes giving? We receive from the Father first and then we are energized and empowered to give with steadfastness, love, patience, unity, and grace.
2 Corinthians 1:3-4 describes one of my favorite accounts of this receiving-giving pattern. “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort. He comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any kind of affliction, through the comfort we ourselves receive from God.”
Before I understood this pattern, I spent years chasing giving and avoiding receiving. I wanted to muster up the ability to give my time, energy, and resources to others, completely independent of God. I did not comprehend that my abilities and strengths were completely dependent on Him. God began to teach me He empowers and sustains my ability to give, AND He provides and cares for me through the gifts of others.
During shorter seasons of difficulty, I would be forced to receive help. Once, I became sick and unable to work for a month or even stand long enough to prepare a meal. I had to receive from my husband and others, but I did not like it, nor did I do it well.
Later, as I experienced the births and miscarriages of my children, I was a stubborn sheep who had to be hooked and wrestled to my side in order to “lie down in green pastures.” (Psalm 23:1-2) Oh, may I not put Him through that anymore! (but I likely will…)
From 2020-2022, my dad fought cancer and finally joined the LORD. After his passing, I began caring for my step-father, who was bedridden and on hospice. I have spent 4 years depending on what I receive from God and others to sustain me as I caregive.
I have relied on the kindness and care of my brothers and sisters in Christ during this time. A friend covered our hotel room expenses when Daddy was at a research hospital for 3 weeks, multiple food deliveries were made from family and friends, people sat with him, assistance came in from his neighbors for doctors appointments, and many more gifts than I can describe here were generously extended. Psalm 66 is an excellent parallel of how God worked personally in our lives (though it originally refers to the Israelites).
My mom and I have needed to humbly receive the help of so many people we will never be able to repay; we’re also learning we aren’t required nor expected to repay, because these people are serving God. Pride can be a wall to receiving and it must be torn down! I must remind myself Jesus receives children joyfully and tenderly (Matthew 19:13-15), and that I will always be a child to my Father in Heaven. Therefore, I must remain “childlike,” joyfully receiving, rather than “childish” and stubbornly rejecting or expecting.
Receiving infuses and empowers giving. I can comfort those tending sick parents now like I couldn’t before receiving all He provided. Receiving precedes giving so that as “God gets it to me, He then He gets it through me” to someone else, just as He did with Paul in Acts 20:32-38.
With a broader, deeper view, now we can grasp how “it is more blessed to give than to receive”. It’s not that giving is “right” and receiving is “wrong,” but truth resides inside the understanding that giving is the fruit of receiving, multiplied!
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