Digging Deeper Days
Finding the original intent of Scripture and making good application to our everyday lives as we become equipped to correctly handle the Word of Truth!
The Questions
1) Some of Jesus’ sayings were hard because they were hard to understand. Some were hard because they were hard to obey. And some were both. What did Jesus mean in verse 26 when He said one must ‘hate his own father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters’?
2) Did Jesus make this statement intentionally to whittle down the size of the crowd? (Notice the connection the author, Luke, makes in verses 25-26)
3) How do the two illustrations Jesus used make His point to the crowd?
4) How does the flavor of salt (verse 34) relate to the previous verses and the overall message Jesus wanted the audience to hear?
Luke 14:25-35
25 Now great crowds were traveling with him. So, he turned and said to them: 26 “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, and even his own life—he cannot be my disciple. 27 Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple. 28 For which of you, wanting to build a tower, doesn’t first sit down and calculate the cost to see if he has enough to complete it? 29 Otherwise, after he has laid the foundation and cannot finish it, all the onlookers will begin to ridicule him, 30 saying, ‘This man started to build and wasn’t able to finish.’
31 Or what king, going to war against another king, will not first sit down and decide if he is able with ten thousand to oppose the one who comes against him with twenty thousand? 32 If not, while the other is still far off, he sends a delegation and asks for terms of peace. 33 In the same way, therefore, every one of you who does not renounce all his possessions cannot be my disciple.
34 Now, salt is good, but if salt should lose its taste, how will it be made salty? 35 It isn’t fit for the soil or for the manure pile; they throw it out. Let anyone who has ears to hear listen.”
Original Intent
1) Some of Jesus’ sayings were hard because they were hard to understand. Some were hard because they were hard to obey. And some were both. What did Jesus mean in verse 26 when He said one must ‘hate his own father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters’?
Verse 26 is set in the context of Jesus and a large crowd of followers, making the statement of Jesus even more dramatic. As always, being full of grace and truth, Jesus did not allow the circumstances to dictate His choice of words. He always knew and spoke the truth. Did it stun the crowd? Maybe they remembered He had spoken about this previously. On one occasion, Peter wondered if it was a message for everyone present. In His answer to Peter, Jesus quoted from the book of Micah, pronouncing division, not peace. (Luke 12:49-53) In the chapter before our focal passage, we find Jesus making His way to Jerusalem teaching this same message and prompting questions from the people: “So, will only a few be saved?” (Luke 13:22-23) Jesus never minced words, though He did often speak in parables. The crowd probably grasped these words much more than we do when we take this verse out of the context of Jesus’ life and ministry. They may not have completely comprehended all He meant, but they understood this was a radical call to commitment that superseded the bonds of their family relationships. Many recognized from their Hebrew Scripture the contrast between “love” and “hate” was sometimes used to communicate preference. (Genesis 29:31, Deuteronomy 21:15-17, Malachi 1:2-3) This was not a command to an emotion of hate toward family or self. This was a call to self-denial and complete surrender, choosing Jesus above all others. The cost for them to continue to follow Jesus would be deep and wide.
2) Did Jesus make this statement intentionally to whittle down the size of the crowd? (Notice the connection the author, Luke, makes in verses 25-26)
Luke makes special note of the fact there was a multitude present. In chapter 12, he also made mention of the large crowd (Luke 12:1). Although Jesus and His disciples spent time away from the masses, when people heard He was near they usually gathered in droves. We read in the four Gospels of Jesus speaking directly to His disciples, yet much of the larger crowd was often in earshot of His teaching. The enormous crowds following Jesus frequently did so for His miracles. They saw Him heal diseases and provide for needs. Jesus used these opportunities to explain to them the necessity of sacrifice. He did not shy away from the hard truths. In fact, He made difficult and exclusionary statements, knowing the future grim consequences. Although He was popular, for the most part the crowds did not desire to obey Him, nor were they willing to surrender their lives. (John 6) They loved to marvel at the miraculous. (John 4:48) They found Jesus to be fascinating in numerous ways, but He knew their hearts were far from God. He declared His intentions to the people who were listening, and He also exposed theirs. (Luke 11:27-30) Even though He knew their ultimate rejection would bring about His death, He wept for them. (Luke 19:41-42)
3) How do the two illustrations Jesus used make His point to the crowd?
As in His previous teachings, Jesus is warning the eager multitudes that following Him is far more serious than they imagined. Contained in these illustrations are significant lessons concerning the calling of those who would choose to continue to follow Him. In His invitation (“If anyone comes to Me…”) Jesus speaks of the importance to commit fully and not shrink back, even if it leads to death (“even his own life” verse 26). It’s unclear if Jesus has specific instances in mind with these illustrations. Did He look around and observe an unfinished building? Possibly. And regarding a king going to war, was Jesus drawing from the history of the day? A few Bible scholars indicate He was likely alluding to the troubled relationship between Herod Antipas and his father-in-law. But even if this was not a specific reference, the crowd would understand the processes of kings and kingdoms. The point of Jesus’ analogy was clear. He was painting a vivid picture of what it meant to “calculate the cost”. The wise builder and the strategic warrior both take time to consider the consequences of their undertaking. Likewise, the resolve to proceed with Christ would be proven genuine and worthwhile only as there was deliberate fortitude to persevere, not simply a desire to witness miracles or be healed.
4) How does the flavor of salt (verse 34) relate to the previous verses and the overall message Jesus wanted the audience to hear?
Three Gospels record Jesus referencing “salt”. (Matthew 5:13, Mark 9:50 and here in Luke 14) All these verses are similar, but each statement was spoken in a different context. From this passage, how do we understand what Jesus was saying to those listening? We can derive intent from reading and receiving Jesus’ words relative to the rest of His message. The crowd was familiar with the uses of salt. It was a common additive that served two purposes in this area of the world at that time: 1) Due to the lack of refrigeration, salt was utilized to preserve the food, specifically the meat. 2) Like today, it enhanced the flavor of food. Here in verse 34, Jesus draws from this cultural understanding to illustrate a follower’s calling to be useful for God’s purposes – in life or death. Just as salt is useless if it has no flavor or preserving element, it would be of no value for anyone to continue to be His disciple if they were half-hearted in their commitment to obedience and full surrender.
Everyday Application
1) Some of Jesus’ sayings were hard because they were hard to understand. Some were hard because they were hard to obey. And some were both. What did Jesus mean in verse 26 when He said one must ‘hate his own father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters’?
For years, well-intentioned voices have challenged Christians to “focus on the family”. Scripture is clear that families are to be a priority. Unfortunately, far too many have misunderstood, misapplied or have even ignored Jesus’ teaching regarding family relationships. Christian families can frequently fall into the trap of becoming self-absorbed. Bible teacher and author David Platt said “I want to love my family well. I want to pass the word and works of God down to the next generation. On the other hand, I see a world of urgent spiritual and physical need — unreached people, on top of physical needs. I want to leverage my life for the spread of the gospel among the nations.” Many Christians, especially in the United States, will never have to sacrifice their familial relationships to follow Christ. What often occurs, though, is an extreme focus on the immediate family, ignoring the call of Christ to be willing to die for His sake. Platt goes on to exhort us: “Lay your life before the Lord every day. Deny yourself. Cry out, ‘Lord save me from myself, save me from my dreams, my plans. Help me want to do whatever You want me to do. Help me to want to go wherever You want me to go.’” This is what Christ meant.
2) Did Jesus make this statement intentionally to whittle down the size of the crowd? (Notice the connection the author, Luke, makes in verses 25-26)
In his commentary on the book of Luke, Alexander MacLaren said “He desired every soul in that crowd for His own, and He knew the best way to attract is sometimes to repel; and that a plain statement of the painful consequences of a course will quench no genuine enthusiasm, but may turn a mere flash in the pan into a purpose that will flame through a life.” (studylight.org) It wasn’t that Jesus wanted people to stop following Him. His very presence on earth indicated His desire for all people to have a relationship with God. (1 Timothy 2:5) Jesus’ purpose in making radical statements was to stir the crowds of people to consider their motives. The coming of the kingdom of God was not what they imagined. Genuine faith would be reflected in an extreme commitment to obedience. Even now the message is clear: there’s a great cost. But the reward is greater! (Mark 10:28-31)
3) How do the two illustrations Jesus used make His point to the crowd?
Ponder yourself in this scene yet make it present day: You have been gifted an all-expense-paid life on the tropical island of your choice, complete with full-time housekeeper. You could spend your time bragging about this offer. You could dream about it constantly and make all the plans for a new life. But until you fully engage by relocating, the exotic life never becomes a reality. You can’t have both a full-time life here and a full-time life there. Many people view following Christ this way. They love the idea of eternal happiness, of eternal fulfillment, of escaping hell, and of having Jesus satisfy their needs. But they are not willing to abandon the life they have. It’s more tempting than we may realize to hold tightly to our desires, comfort, and sinful habits. Releasing them, even for a glorious eternity, takes faith and courage. Our lives may exhibit a temporary modification—attending church more often or giving of our time and money to good causes—but if we have no real desire to relinquish ownership of everything, then we are more like the crowds who followed Jesus. That cost is just too great for most. (Matthew 7:14, John 6:66 )
4) How does the flavor of salt (verse 34) relate to the previous verses and the overall message Jesus wanted the audience to hear?
In the context of obedient discipleship, the loss of saltiness occurs when those who call themselves followers of Christ are not living for Him wholeheartedly. Jesus’ words to the crowd that day are relevant to us today. Our very reason for being in the world, as believers, is to be salt and light (Matthew 5:13-16). The purpose for which we became followers of Jesus (Matthew 4:19) may be hindered or prevented when we choose to compromise, or settle, for what is more convenient and comfortable, rather than giving our lives to whatever will bring the most people into the kingdom of God. Becoming and remaining ‘useful salt’ happens when we maintain a life of humble obedience to Christ. When we deviate from Spirit-enthused sacrifice and submission, the distinctions between ourselves and those of the world are blurred and we allow our testimony to become empty words – useless for producing genuine life change in others. By focusing on and following Christ, even in inevitable suffering or loss, we will have opportunities to proclaim Him to all who witness our lives. (Colossians 1:24-29)
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