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Christin
Christin
2 years ago

Such great words of wisdom and truth! I also have struggled with this parable, and it is so true–we ALL have a debt we can never repay! Praise God for His forgiveness towards us, who gives us the strength to forgive others!

Mary Geisen
Mary Geisen
2 years ago

Forgiveness is not the same as just saying “I’m sorry”. We teach young children to tell another child “I’m sorry” when something needs to be cleared up but that’s like putting a bandaid on to cover it up. Your words about forgiveness each us how God forgives and how we can do the same. You truly dug into the foundation of what forgiveness looks like. Thank you for these words.

Rebecca
2 years ago
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I agree, Mary. Words can only do so much, it’s our actions and heart attitude that truly matter.
Lesley did a great job digging into this topic that is oh-so-relevant!

Anita Ojeda
Anita Ojeda
2 years ago

Yep. I needed this today! I’m working to forgive the stylist who butchered my hair. Thank you for the reminder that forgiveness is a process and that we sometimes have to work at it!

Sarah
Sarah
2 years ago

Lesley, this was such a good post! I, too, usually don’t struggle with forgiveness, but recently there was an instance where I had the hard task of trying to forgive someone that didn’t know that they had hurt me. I had to fight the urge to call their attention to it. I had to go through the difficulty of forgiving them without an apology. And I couldn’t do it. I had to live from Christ’s power in me. I had to choose daily to love them. I am so so so grateful for the Lord’s mercy and grace towards me!… Read more »

Lisa Brittain
Lisa Brittain
2 years ago

These are great points and a much-needed discussion in our world today. I don’t think people in Jesus’ day forgave more easily. I think people are people and it is just plain hard to forgive sometimes. We don’t really know how to forgive. It doesn’t come naturally, but Jesus really wants us to know how. I’m so grateful He has so much to say to us about forgiveness. Forgiveness is truly a key which can set us free. Thank you!

Lisa notes
Lisa notes
2 years ago

Forgiving again and again is often so hard to do, but I’m so thankful that God does! “I’m grateful that His forgiveness isn’t limited,
instead He continues to forgive over and over again.” Amen.

Yvonne Chase
Yvonne Chase
2 years ago

Forgiveness is definitely an ongoing process especially when tactics like gaslighting are involved and people are blind to the depth of their hurtful acts. Have mercy, Jesus!

Stacey Pardoe
Stacey Pardoe
2 years ago

This so truth-filled! If we truly grasped the depth of Christ’s forgiveness, our hearts just might be transformed to his image of mercy. It’s not easy to forgive when someone never says sorry or doesn’t admit to the offense, but my heart is much the same all too often! I love all the Scripture in this post!

Barbara Robbins
Barbara Robbins
2 years ago

Another excellent post, Leslie. Forgiveness was the subject of discussion for our iConnect Bible study class at church yesterday, so a subject already on my heart and mind. I shared a very personal story of forgiveness and God teaching me that sometimes forgiving is not just a single act but a process, especially when there is a very hurtful situation involved. Was thinking about putting this story in writing when I saw your new post.

Joanne Viola
Joanne Viola
2 years ago

Such a thought provoking post … I sure am grateful God doesn’t keep count of how many times I have received His forgiveness. May He fill me with all I need to forgive others, no matter how many times.

Patricia
Patricia
2 years ago

Such a thoughtful post…..The song, “Losing” by Tenth Avenue North finally broke through my spirit of unforgiveness. You post is a refresher course that is much needed and helpful! Thank you!

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bethany mcilrath
bethany mcilrath
2 years ago

Lesley, this is so convicting (but also encouraging.) This really resonates with me: “The problem was I felt the sins I was being asked to forgive
were bigger than any sins I had committed.
I felt that I was being forgiven a small amount,
but being asked to forgive a much bigger debt,
and it seemed unfair. ” I so get that. Thanks for explaining more and reminding me of God’s great forgiveness! Oh, to be more like Him!