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Brave Day 15
When Brave Isn’t Enough

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Read His Words Before Ours!

I Corinthians 13:1-3
Genesis 3:1-13
Isaiah 29:15-16
Luke 18:18-30attachment-1-17

“We all wear masks, and the time comes when we cannot remove them without removing some of our own skin.” – André Berthiaume

“We understand how dangerous a mask can be. We all become what we pretend to be.” – Patrick Rothfuss

Perhaps there’s no greater example of the above quotes fleshed out in the Bible than a couple who intentionally chose their masks and ended in death.

Enter Ananias and Saphira. Their intentions looked good, it was the perfect mask: give money to the church from a piece of property they sold.
Their masquerade: pretending to boldly give themselves away for Christ.
But their deviousness found them out.
Faking “Brave” will never work.
They sold the property and decided to keep back some of the profit, but chose together to tell the Apostle Peter (and God) that they were giving the entire sale amount to the church.

The stage was set and the script was written, the two were all in. The property sold, the money came in, and Ananias came to Peter and told his bold-faced lie…and Peter, with the help of the Holy Spirit, saw his deception as clear as day.
He confronted Ananias and the man fell to the ground dead.
Three hours later, Saphira came looking for her husband and told Peter the same story, only to end up breathing her last just as her husband had.

The thing about this deceiving duo is that they didn’t suddenly decide to boldly lie while pretending to live bravely.
They hadn’t been living authentically all along and then the idea of lying about their property suddenly showed up as an option.
Masquerades had become their life.

Maybe it started innocently enough. A stretching of truth here, a white lie there, or a covering for oneself when they felt cornered until eventually, the lies became easier to tell than the truth.
What once may have felt ill-fitting, was now like second skin, like a mask one had worn for too long. Eventually, they probably even fooled themselves. They looked like they really cared about the church. Probably looked like devoted Christ-followers. They were clearly involved in church life and were on a first name basis with the apostles. But somewhere along the way, they wrapped themselves in lies as they pretended to follow truth.

Starting to squirm?
I am.
I know there are times when lies are easier in my life. When chasing after the truths of Christ are a lot more work than just floating along, fading away into my own perceptions and setting up my own definition of truth, little by lethal little.
Masks are easier to wear than we’d like to think, but are always more deadly than they appear.

Remember another liar? The first one?
Yes, the Enemy Satan. His deception kick-started humanity’s descent into eternal separation from a Holy God.
Death.
Which is why our loving God set in motion His plan to send Jesus as our only possible redeemer because He Is Truth.

Masks aren’t brave.
And the God who died to restore our hearts to His,
longs for us to take them all off
so He can bring genuine, true redemption.

Lies are blossoms rooted in Death.
Truth is solidarity grounded in Life.

Brave appearances will only get us so far in life and will get us nowhere with God.
We can show up to church each week,
serve at the homeless shelter once a month,
give to charity at year’s end,
and it will all look great on paper.
But Jesus teaches that brave living without true love, is meaningless in the end.

No amount of kind deeds, encouraging words, or ornate masks we put on can cover up our fatal flaw….
we are dead because of sin.
Dead without Christ’s life.
Bravery can’t fake life.
Only Jesus’s transformational true love can bring about a bravery that brings abundant life.

I’d like to challenge you to re-read Ananias and Saphira’s story again and as you do, think about the masks you wear, the lies you parade in your heart, and beg God to make you new!
Christ-follower or not,
You can’t fake bravery before the Righteous God.
We all need to be made new!

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Beauty Day 10
Glorified Beauty

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Read His Words Before Ours!

Psalm 139:14
Genesis 1:26-31
1 Corinthians 6:19-20
Matthew 5:16
Psalm 115:1

attachment-1-6It’s been almost four years. The time has flown by faster than I ever imagined, and sometimes, my journey four years ago, actually feels like a dream. But if I close my eyes and focus really hard, I am back for just an instant. I can actually smell the cabbage cooking over the little stove or our clothes soaking in laundry soap. I can feel little arms wrapping around my legs and sweat dripping down my back. I can hear the sound of their worship and hear the noise of the market. And for one short moment, I am back in a far away land I never dreamed of going to.

I am back in Kenya.

As I prepared for my four month mission trip to Kenya, I spent hours shopping and purchasing everything I would need. Then I spent hours packing and deciding which “necessities” weren’t making the trip. Among them, hairspray, a flat iron, a blow dryer, and all of my make-up and nail polish. For some reason, I believed that I wouldn’t be able to focus on why I was in Kenya if I spent any time on my physical appearance.
(I did pack my tweezers and a teeny tiny mirror, which was such a good idea. I probably would have scared even the most remote villages with my eyebrow. Yes. One eyebrow.)
I was determined to honor God with my body by working hard to serve Him.

I came home a couple of weeks before Christmas, my skin extremely darkened by the hot African sun, my hair sun-bleached blonde and frizzy from the extremely hard water, my toenails unpainted, my body weighing 30 pounds more than it did when I left four months prior, and my heart extremely torn and a little heavy.
I didn’t feel beautiful.
Honestly, I hadn’t felt beautiful for four months.

We sang of God’s beauty almost every night. We admired the Great Rift Valley and the evidence of the Lord’s hand in His creation. I held the tiniest brown babies and whispered into their ears, “You are so beautiful. You are perfectly and wonderfully made.”
We were constantly proclaiming God’s beauty!
But I didn’t feel beautiful.

I have battled a struggle of inward beauty versus outward beauty for a long time, believing that there could only be one or the other.
Then another Jesus-loving Mama told me that her body was bought for a price.
Her body matters to Christ.

“I aim to have a body that is well kept: healthy on the inside, clothing that is functional on the outside so I can do the things with my body to serve the Lord (like chase my kids) and presentable in keeping with current trends, so I can be relatable and approachable to those I meet.”
She went on to tell me that make-up actually draws attention to our countenance, as opposed to our bodies.

My body was bought for a price.
Jesus not only died for our souls, but for our bodies.
And we are called to honor God with these bodies… these tools… that He has given us!

“If I had time, I would go out in the members of this church and ask different ones of you to come up here and testify about what difference God has made in your body. I would ask a man with AIDS, tell us about what it means to glorify God with your body. I would ask a man who just found out he has a serious, life-threatening cancer and say, tell us about what it means to glorify God with your body. I would ask a young woman who has struggled with bulimia and has just turned a significant corner of hope, how do you see God getting glory in your body? And I would ask dozens of women who have lost the little bodies of unborn children, do you believe God can be glorified in those bodies? And I do not doubt that in every case, what you would hear is that God has indeed manifest His glory in ways that many cannot imagine.” John Piper

God is beautiful. His creation is so extravagantly beautiful. The Grand Canyon, Yellowstone, Niagara Falls, leaves changing color in the autumn and tulips blooming in the spring declare His beauty. They bring glory to HIM.

His glory is shown in the warm smiles of those African children and the bright eyes of the Kenyan women I hugged. My precious little girls, and my unborn baby still growing inside of me… the Lord’s beauty is shown through them, too.

I’m choosing to allow God to receive glory through my body, but it doesn’t always look the same. Some days giving Him glory looks like messy hair and un-brushed teeth as I sit and sing with my children. Some days His glory will shine through as I put more effort into my appearance to, as my friend reminded, become more relatable and approachable. The truth is that we live in an appearance based world. When I’m taking the time to care about how I look to others, I’m caring about how the gospel is being presented. If I’m engageable and well-presented, I’m offering my best to others on the outside, so they can better glimpse the inside too.

Maybe you’re in the same place I was four years ago.
Maybe you’ve put on a few pounds,
your haircut doesn’t quite suit your face,
or you just don’t feel beautiful.

I want to remind you that you are beautiful, feelings or not.
Rather than letting your feelings overturn truth, let them rise up to match it.

YOU are a declaration of God’s beauty.
YOU are perfectly and wonderfully made.
God created beauty, and He said that it was good.

He created man and woman, in His image, and said that it is very good.
So go forth today, and every day following, knowing that you are beautiful, and knowing that it is God’s plan for us to be beautiful. And allow His beauty to shine through you as you give glory to Him with your body. However that looks, no matter how you feel.

Did you see today’s photo of me in Kenya?
Me, not feeling beautiful?
This picture represents so much of God’s work despite how I felt about myself.
See that woman I’m next to? She was a widow and social outcast because her son was murdered. I was part of the team that brought her family much needed groceries and I cared for wounds on her legs. It was one of the most powerful moments of my trip. God’s beauty was evidenced in me, despite how I struggled with my own perceptions. He brought beauty and glory where I hadn’t seen it!

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