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Neighbor Day 15 When Unloved

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Leviticus 19:17-18
Matthew 5:33-48
Luke 10:1-16
Romans 13:8-14

Neighbor, Day 15

The Command
Love your neighbor as yourself. 

Most of us have repeated the words countless times, so they roll off the tongue easily. But what does it really mean? Human nature urges us to draw the boundary line so we know what’s expected. We want to know exactly who we should consider our neighbors…and whether we consciously realize it or not, who we can exclude.

Let’s dig in a little deeper.

The Context
In this story, the title, citizenship and position of the people involved didn’t matter at all. 

Jesus was showing the disciples God was not at all interested in labels that appeal to mankind; rather, His focus was heart posture. When Jesus told His disciples the parable of the good Samaritan, He didn’t hesitate to jump knee-deep into the hypocrisy of the age and point out the wrong heart motives hidden behind titles of priest and Levite.

Jesus was a master storyteller. Every word He spoke held great intention and profound revelation. He knew that because of their heritage, those listening would be predisposed to connect with the priest, or the Levite, and prejudiced against the Samaritan.

Make no mistake; His purposeful vagueness with regard to the man who was beaten and robbed was by design as well. Because it didn’t matter who he was or where he was from. Jesus was making the point that their neighbor, and ours, is anyone and everyone in need. 

The Questions
But what about those who don’t return our love?
What about those who will not love us the way we desire to be loved? 

Dear friend. This may be a hard word to receive, but it’s absolutely vital that we grasp it. Those very questions are rooted in the great deception of our current age: that our faith is about us and how we feel. For the people in the back, I’ll say it again.

Our faith is not and can not ever be based on our feelings.

There never has been and never will be another human who will ever be able to fulfill in us the needs that God alone can fill.

As tempting as it may be to seek approval and fulfillment from those around us, our salvation can only ever be founded on Scripture alone, by faith alone, by grace alone, through Christ alone, and to the glory of God alone. This is the true gospel. The moment we begin to believe it is acceptable for our faith to be dictated by our feelings is the moment we begin to settle for a false gospel: the gospel of self.

Friends, we can not allow this to be so. The gospel message has never been about us beyond the salvation, freedom and whole heart, whole mind, whole life transformation Christ Jesus works in us when we submit ourselves to His hands.

In short, it doesn’t really matter how we feel. 

Woo. Talk about counter-cultural. But the gospel has never been about fitting in or being comfortable, has it? Jesus himself assured us that to answer His call and follow Him required us to pick up our cross and die to self.

But what about those who harm us?
Jesus said to love them.

But what about those who persecute us? What about our enemies?
Jesus said to love them.

But what about when our spouse doesn’t show love or communicate the way we need? What if we have grown apart, or are simply incompatible?
Jesus said to love them.

The Call
We are each called to yield to the work of the cross as God performs the outworking of our faith, and to live and love the gospel out in every aspect of our lives. From the moment we accept the gift of salvation, we receive the impartation and installment of Holy Spirit inside us. This is something we can take absolutely no credit for, because none of it is possible in our own strength. Our part is only to submit to what He is doing and recognize all glory belongs to God alone!

However, as we go about our daily lives, there is an enemy who actively works to destroy, distort, and disengage us from the transformation Jesus desires to work in us. How does he do this? By introducing a thought pattern rooted in lies.

So what is the lie here?

You deserve to be treated the way you want to be treated. 

Friend, the enemy loves to woo us with thoughts and ideas which glorify our feelings, ourselves, our needs, and our desires. He wants nothing more than to see us so completely wrapped up in ourselves and what we think and feel and need, that we miss what God has to say about anything. He’s sneaky, and a masterful liar, and Scripture tells us he prowls around like a lion, searching for anyone to devour. This lie is a prime example of how he works. He takes a tiny bit of truth, or even a big chunk of truth, and distorts it into something we want to hear.
Close enough to sound right, but just enough off course we miss the message. 

The Truth
Jesus said, “Love your neighbor as yourself.”

Do you catch the difference between the two statements, Love?
The lie is all about what serves us.
The truth is all about what serves others.

Because the Jesus we follow and submit to was a servant to all.
When we look at His life on earth, we can’t escape the fact the King of Kings chose humility and servanthood over control.
He chose righteousness over self-righteousness.
He chose holiness over being heavy-handed.

This is the truth, and cost, of our calling: we are called to love and serve all people.
Regardless of how they respond to and treat us.
No caveats; no excuses.

We are called to love!

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Glimmers Day 7 Hope In The Should Have: Digging Deeper

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The Questions

1) What are the circumstances for this psalm of David?

2) What is the significance of all the location names in verses 7-10?

3) What is the central anchor for David’s hope?

Psalm 108

My heart is confident, God;
I will sing; I will sing praises
with the whole of my being.
2 Wake up, harp and lyre!
I will wake up the dawn.
3 I will praise you, Lord, among the peoples;
I will sing praises to you among the nations.
4 For your faithful love is higher than the heavens,
and your faithfulness reaches to the clouds.
5 God, be exalted above the heavens,
and let your glory be over the whole earth.
6 Save with your right hand and answer me
so that those you love may be rescued.

7 God has spoken in his sanctuary:
“I will celebrate!
I will divide up Shechem.
I will apportion the Valley of Succoth.
8 Gilead is mine, Manasseh is mine,
and Ephraim is my helmet;
Judah is my scepter.
9 Moab is my washbasin;
I throw my sandal on Edom.
I shout in triumph over Philistia.”

10 Who will bring me to the fortified city?
Who will lead me to Edom?
11 God, haven’t you rejected us?
God, you do not march out with our armies.
12 Give us aid against the foe,
for human help is worthless.
13 With God we will perform valiantly;
he will trample our foes.

Original Intent

1) What are the circumstances for this psalm of David?
This psalm is a historic “mashup” of two other psalms David had previously penned during two distinctly difficult times in his life. Verses 1-5 were first written in Psalm 57:7-11 where David, the anointed king of Israel, found himself hiding in the cold depths of a cave to save his life as the current King Saul chased him down to kill him. If ever David was in need of hope, it was in that dark cave. Verses 6-13 are first found in Psalm 60:5-12 as David, now King, but having experienced significant defeat at the hands of Edom (descendants of Esau) on Judah in the south. David was surrounded by defeat within his own land and Israel was left reeling like a drunkard with the beating blow of her enemy’s victory. The “mashup song” then was combined by David as a firm reminder of these two turning point instances in his life. The purpose was to quickly call to his mind how the dark the past had been and how victorious the Lord had proven to be. Now, having survived both the depths of depressing darkness and resounding defeat, David urges Israel to look forward and take new ground for, with the Lord as their help, nothing else matters.

2) What is the significance of all the location names in verses 7-10?
Moses had led the budding nation of Israel out of the chains of slavery in Egypt and forward into all God had promised them in Canaan (the Promised Land). After Moses’ death, Joshua led them across the Jordan River to literally take new ground the Lord had given as an inheritance to His people. Shechem and the Valley of Succoth (Genesis 33:17-18) were the first territories Israel would have encountered when crossing the Jordan. The other names are locations farther into Canaan that were all part of Israel’s inheritance from the Lord. Here, the David calls to mind the Lord’s words in speaking over David, “I will divide up Shechem. I will apportion the Valley of Succoth. Gilead is mine, Manasseh is mine.” (verses 7-8) This was the Lord’s reminder that the inheritance was the LORD’S. He owned it, He ruled it, and whatever circumstances were happening, the Lord was the final victor and King.

3) What is the central anchor for David’s hope?
David’s words speak of victory already won and real reason to celebrate. “My heart is confident, God. I will sing; I will sing praises with the whole of my being!” (verse 1) His reason to rejoice is so sure and solid that he boasts of “wake(ing) up the dawn” with his loud rejoicing. (verse 2) But remember, these words were written as David sat in the back of a cold, musty, cave with little supplies and a sinking morale among his men. Clearly, defeat appeared ready to swallow him alive, yet he sang. He rejoiced so boldly he “awakened the dawn”. He declared the Lord’s goodness to all, he praised God for His faithful love and His magnificent glory. David praised God’s character when his circumstances gave him nothing to praise Him for. I doubt David felt like worshipping while he crouched there with his life hanging in the balance. But David made a very intentional choice to praise God’s good character because his anchor for life was found in the Lord Almighty and nothing less.

Everyday Application

1) What are the circumstances for this psalm of David?
This is a great time to grab a journal, pen, and Bible. Read through Psalm 108 again with the understanding that it represents two very dark times for David, then write your own psalm with the same format. What have been shadow grounds for you in your past, how has the Lord proven His victory? Speak of His great hope that displayed itself in the middle of your night! Or maybe you’re exploring the Lord and the claims of the Bible. Perhaps you’ve never experienced that victory or known His hope as it settled into the core of who you are. Give time to consider your current dark places, the areas of your life you’d rather run from than walk into. What if, like David, you decided to trust the Lord in the midst of mayhem? What if you asked Him to make Himself known to you like He did to Israel? It’s one prayer the Bible says the Lord will absolutely answer in the affirmative every single time! Call to Him, ask Him to show you Who He Is! (Jeremiah 33:3, Ephesians 1:17-18)

2) What is the significance of all the location names in verses 7-10?
As believers today, we aren’t given specific plots of land to call our own from the hand of God, but we are given incredible inheritance, one that lasts for eternity. An inheritance where the boundary lines have fallen in wide, open spaces because the Lord Himself is our inheritance. (Psalm 16:5-6) We are co-heirs with the Lord Jesus Christ, all He has access to is ours in Him. His is an inheritance of faith, joy, peace, grace, un-ending love, incorruptible hope, and treasure that neither rusts nor fades! Like David, whatever the circumstances of your journey right now, you can claim the Lord’s victory over it. If you are His, having been washed in His blood shed at the cross as He took the punishment deserved for us upon Himself, His righteousness is yours as you are made eternally right in your standing with God. You are His, purchased by His sacrifice. Just as the Lord reminded David that his inheritance of the land and kingdom was really the Lord’s and owned and ruled by Him and His heart of love, so are we, our lives, and our circumstances. There is nothing we experience, walk through, grieve, or worry about that He is not intimately familiar with. Because He is our victor, living within us by His Spirit, we can confidently shout with David, “My heart is confident!”. (verse 1) Hear this, the Lord Himself is celebrating over you because while He is our inheritance, we are His! And He celebrates that! (verse 7)

3) What is the central anchor for David’s hope?
In yesterday’s Journey, we saw Israel stuck in a cycle of sin, consequence, repentance, and return. Israel stubbornly chose to live perpetually below the inheritance they had received as God’s chosen ones, yet the Lord pursued and loved because He is a God whose heart loves unconditionally. Sit With That. How often we run, shoving back the embrace of the Lord who loves us. How often we find ourselves focused on dark circumstances, our woeful feelings, our shaking fears, and our incessant worries, but we have a choice, just like David did and just like the Israel did. We can return, we can still our hearts before the Almighty and chose to worship Him for Who He Is, the Great Bringer of Hope. Hope glimmered for Israel every time the Lord disciplined them, drawing them back. They hadn’t gone ‘too far’ for His love to reach because there is no such thing. Hope glimmered in the back of a cave and on a defeated, bloody battlefield for David, not because his surroundings were ‘up and to the right’, but because His God Was GOOD. Sister, the same is true for you and me. Hope does more than glimmer for us, it shines brilliantly, piercing our ugly parts because the baby in the manger is God on the cross and Final Victor over death and sin. Hope Lives. Praise Him for being HIM!

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Dwell Day 11 The Prayer Challenge

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Romans 8:26-27
1 Samuel 1:10-19
Psalm 51:1-10
Daniel 6 

Dwell, Day 11

“Why must people kneel down to pray? If I really wanted to pray I’ll tell you what I’d do. I’d go out into a great big field all alone or in the deep, deep woods, and I’d look up into the sky – up -up – up into that lovely blue sky that looks as if there was no end to its blueness, and then I’d just feel a prayer.”  ~Anne Shirley 

I’ve been reliving my childhood fancies lately; escaping into the ever-magical, imaginative world of Anne Shirley. After a difficult upbringing by incredibly strict grandparents, author Lucy Maud Montgomery married a Reverend and wrote many books, including my all-time favorite, Anne of Green Gables. Montgomery’s bold theological statements often pointed out how reverence and worship aren’t what we tend to make it.  

Since re-reading Anne’s quote about feeling a prayer, I’ve done just that many times over. 

My life feels a little as if it’s spinning out of control right now.
I’ve tried to paint a perfect picture of my life for the outside world to see,
but inside, a tornado rages.. 
Many days, I feel like I can’t even think what to pray.
So, I’ve closed my eyes, imagined myself in a massive field, and just felt my prayers. 
I’ve felt the glory and wonder of God and what He has created.
I’ve felt the loneliness and instability that quakes my soul.
I’ve felt the insecurities and I’ve felt the joy.
And I’ve felt myself releasing it all and giving it to Him.  

All without saying a word.
How is that even possible?
Because God knows. 

He knows my every thought and every feeling.
He knows me.
The Spirit Himself prays for me. (Romans 8:26), 

In this blessed assurance, I’m free to saturate my chaos with intimate moments of communion with my Savior, while He calms my storms and brings peace.  

I feel the tornado slowing. The tension is leaving.  

Because of prayer. 
Not perfect, holy, well-thought through words. 
But connection, groanings I lack words for, shared to the ear of God through the Spirit who dwells within me. 

Centuries ago, Christians practiced the discipline of prayer through “Daily Offices”. Believers marked off specific times throughout the day, generally the third, sixth, ninth, and bedtime hours, dedicating them to prayer. At each interval, they put aside their daily tasks to spend time saturating themselves with the Lord.
Prayers of praise.
Prayers of worship.
Prayers of joy.
Prayers of need.
Prayers of longing.
Prayers for others.
Prayers for themselves.
Prayers of confession.
Prayers of angst.
Intimacy and relationship. 

What if we prayed like Hannah? 
She bitterly wept before the Lord, thinking her prayer,
unable to even audibly speak!
She was heartbroken with infertility. She poured out her soul to the Lord, all of her deep anguish and grief.
The vulnerability!  

What if we surrendered our deep anguish and grief all throughout the day?
Suppose we told Him our ache for a lost brother, or the way our arms feel empty for the child we’ve never held, or how our soul feels crushed from the weight of a seemingly hopeless marriage?

Enter into that intimacy with the Lord, Sisters.
Hearts are changed here.  

What if we prayed like David? 
King David had an affair with a married woman, yet with the deep convictions of his heart, he cried out to God to wash him of his iniquity and cleanse him of sin.
In prayer, David begged the Lord to restore the joy he’d once known.
The repentance! 

What if we recognized our great sins and ugly failures, confessing them to the Lord multiple times a day? Would we become more aware of our pride, quickly confessing and running from it? Would our hearts begin to grieve as we recognized and confessed our lust again?

Enter into that intimacy of giving the Lord your sins, Sister.
Hearts are changed here. 

What if we prayed like Mary? 
With the news of her pregnancy, and the coming Messiah,
Mary worshipped!
Perhaps she knelt to sang. Maybe she danced, rejoicing loudly while exclaiming the fulfillment of Yahweh’s promise! She celebrated her worship!
The delight! 

Sisters, imagine if we were to take intentional time to thank God, celebrate Him, and declare His name throughout the day!
EVEN IF we don’t feel like it.
EVEN IF we have difficulty believing what we say.
Imagine how the thanksgiving we surrender will grow in our hearts, overflowing onto others, and shifting our perspective as we praise the Lord throughout the day.  

Enter into that joyful intimacy with the Lord, Sister.
Hearts are changed here! 

What if we prayed like Daniel? 
Nothing could stop Daniel from praying throughout the day. 
Not distractions.
Not hunger.
Not inconvenience.
Not even the LAW or the threat of his LIFE.
Daniel met the Lord three times, everyday, windows open to the world, unashamed of his God.
The integrity!
What if we said no to distractions having priority over prayer?
What if we paused our lives several times a day to approach the throne of God.
Even WITH kids screaming in the background.
Even WITH a messy house just beyond our closed eyes.
Even WITH a meeting that will last all day.
What if we kept the conversation going on road trips, on business trips, in the grocery store, in the car.  

Oh, let’s go there, Sister! Enter into that precious intimacy with the Lord.
Hearts are changed here. Yours and those around you! 

I want that in the middle of my messy chaos.
Join me in my Prayer Challenge: 

Choose 3 times a day for your phone alarm to go off.
I’m doing it right now setting it for 9 AM, Noon, and 3 PM.
When those timers go off, we pray.
Even if all we can muster is our deepest feelings, a groan, or a cry.
Let’s specifically, intentionally, prayerfully, enter into deeper intimacy with our King. 

Watch out, Sisters.
Our hearts and lives are about to change! 

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Misunderstood Day 6 No More Than I Can Handle

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1 Corinthians 10:1-13
2 Corinthians 1:8-11
Psalm 118
Psalm 73:26 

Misunderstood, Day 6

I remember the moments like they were yesterday as we walked in the mall on a Saturday.  The scene played out regularly.  Inevitably, someone would stop the one of us pushing our twins in our stroller…. 

Stranger:  Oh my goodness, they’re so cute!  But wow, that’s a lot of work.
Me: Thank you.  And yes, it is.
Stranger:  I’m glad it’s you and not me, I could never do that.
Me:  (polite laugh and a smile…) 

And then, the real fun started.  The other one of us would roll up with stroller number 2, occupied by a 3 and 5 year old.  

Stranger:  Ooooohh.  Wow.  You guys have your hands full, don’t you?
Me:  Yes, we do. 
Stranger: (super chipper!) Well, remember God won’t give you more than you can handle.
Me:  (polite laugh and smile #2 as I found the exit as quickly as possible) 

It wasn’t just strangers at the mall.  It happened everywhere.  The grocery store.  With friends.  At church.  In those moments, I just wanted to cry and yell a little: 

Really?  Are you kidding me?
Why do I feel like such a mess?
I have no idea what I’m doing.
Why do I get upset sometimes?
Why do I get angry? 

The list could go on…
In those moments, I knew those people were 100% wrong. 
They thought I could handle it.
They thought God believed I could handle it.  

But 4 preschoolers was WAY more than I could handle.  So why did people keep telling me that?  Was I even cut out to be a mom?  The tears would come and I would think, everyone keeps saying I can handle this because it’s what God gave me, so why am I having a hard time? 

None of those people meant any harm, but I know the words were harmful.
They made me question why I was overwhelmed and struggling,
and they were patently untrue. 

Why do people use that phrase?
Where does it come from?   

 It’s a misapplied use of 1 Corinthians 10:13 that says,
“No temptation has come upon you except what is common to humanity. But God is faithful; he will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation he will also provide a way out so that you may be able to bear it.”

God will allow us to be tempted,
but never to the point that we cannot resist,
if we choose to obey and follow the way out that He will provide. 

The reference has been taken out of context and applied to any and every situation,
not just temptation.
That is where the danger comes in.

What does that say to….
The parents who just lost a child?
The addict who just hit rock bottom?
The man overwhelmed by the pressure of work who is considering suicide?
Those taking care of kids, parents, and grandkids all at the same time?
The abandoned and abused?
Lonely spouses who cry themselves to sleep? 

When we hear someone tell us that we’ll be okay because God won’t give us more than we can handle, we walk away thinking,
I can handle it…I should handle it….
that’s what God expects me to do.

Then in our struggles, we end up feeling like there’s something wrong with ME.
It’s MY problem.
Do more.
Get better.
Cowboy up.
Pull yourself up by your bootstraps. 

The lie of the enemy is that I’m on my own,
meant to handle it by myself. 
“You got this…” he whispers in a loud scream. 

With that thought process, why is there a need for God at all?
Why do I need grace?  

I just need to do more, be more, try harder, and handle it better.  

But the truth of the gospel is that God WILL ALWAYS  give me more than I can handle,
but NEVER more than He expects Jesus to handle for me.  

The apostle Paul grasped the truth and reality of the gospel.  He writes to the church in Corinth about some of the difficulties he and Timothy encountered (2 Corinthians 1:8-11).  He admits that they were pushed to the point of despair
so much that they would have chosen death in the moment.

However, Paul knew that God pushed them to force them to
put their trust in Him over their own strength.
Paul understood the truth and the power of the gospel;
he didn’t have to handle it, because Jesus would handle it for him. 

Now that my preschoolers have become teenagers, the “Oh’s”, laced with pity and thankfulness it’s not them, have returned once again.
But now, I process the comments differently.
Parenting is more than I can handle.
So is being a wife, much less a pastor’s wife, writer, employee, or friend.

When I am allowing Him to handle it for me, the most overwhelming of circumstances is laced with a peace and rest in the strength that comes through someone bigger than me (Philippians 4:7).  And when I do feel overwhelmed, it becomes a sign that I am relying on myself, not allowing Him to be my strength, song and salvation (Psalm 118:14).   

With the truth of the gospel, and the strength that I receive in Christ, 
He promises to handle everything He asks me to do.  
I listen and obey, and He carries the burden. 

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Bride Day 1 Picture Perfect Redemption

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Hosea 1:1-10
Hosea 2:7-9
Hosea 2:14-20
Hosea 11:4-9
Hosea 14:4-7  

Bride, Day 1

She doesn’t even know how loved she is. 
She doesn’t know her value. 
She doesn’t know her worth.   

Hosea was alone, once again. His emotions a mix of anger, hurt, jealousy, and sorrow.
She gave herself and her love to every man except him.
They had joyful and sweet moments, but then, she was gone,
chasing other fantasies….other men.  

And Hosea was alone. 
Heartsick, worried; He missed his wife.  

And this, he knew, was how God felt over His unfaithful people.
The Lord had saved Israel time and time again, He had loved her, pursued her, provided for her, yet Israel gave herself and her love to everything but Him.
There were times of joy, sweet worship, and surrender, but then,
just as it had happened before, they were gone…
Chasing other nations and bowing before other idols,
brazenly loving another.  

In Hosea’s emotion he saw the Lord’s heart for Israel.
A burning jealousy for his bride.
A steady flame in his belly, slowly growing until it became a lion within that had to roar.  

“Hosea, have mercy on your wife.” 
The Lord beckoned to Hosea.   

Yahweh, have I not done that before? She had already been loved by many men when I married her, and yet, I gave her all of me, and that wasn’t enough. I am not enough to satisfy her.  

Hosea, allure her. Bring her into the wilderness and speak tenderly to her. 
Give her beautiful things. She will know you again. 
Let her come home, shelter her from the wars raging inside of her soul. 
Give her rest.   

How do You do this, Yahweh? How do You endure this? 
I see your people, I see their sin! I feel your agony! How can you pursue us still?! 

Because I love my people. They have forgotten my ways, ignored the blessing I set before them, broken our covenant. The more they grow arrogant in their independence, the more they sin against me, and I will punish them for their ways because I want them back! 
They have forsaken me. 
They have left me… just as Gomer has left you. 
I am enough for them, but my Bride would rather believe lies. 
She forgets that I AM the One who has saved her and lavished gifts on her. 
All Israel has is because of Me. 
I give her value. 
I give her worth. 
I’ve fought for her. 
Yet, she still forgets me. 

Together, their hearts broke. 
The Lord’s broke for His children.
Hosea’s broke for his wife, and with fresh eyes, he saw Israel’s faithlessness and he was broken for their sin as a people against the Lord.   

As Hosea spoke the Lord’s prophetic words to Israel, his voice broke and the tears poured.
God was speaking to the Israelites, but Hosea was speaking to his wife.

I led her with cords of kindness, with bands of love. 
I worked to ease her burdens. I’ve provided for her and given everything to her. 
How can I give you up, my dear one? 
How  can I hand you over to another man? 
How can I let you destroy yourself? 
How can I let you feel like you are not worthy? 
How can I treat you like a whore? 
My heart recoils within me; my compassion grows warm and tender. 
I’m angry, but I will come after you. 
I will fight for you. 
I will take up my job as your husband and you will come back to me.  

Hosea found his wife, who had, once again, been loved by another man.
The love that went far beyond emotion began to billow out as he ROARED:
Return to me, your husband! 
No one else can love you the way I do! 
I will love you freely, I’m not angry at you anymore! 
Come back and live with me, let me protect you, and you will flourish, 
you will see your true value and worth.  
COME HOME WITH ME. I WANT YOU. I LOVE YOU. 
AND I WILL NEVER STOP LOVING YOU. 

He paid a price for her and brought her home.
He stared into her downcast eyes and prayed,  

Yahweh, let her see her worth. Let her know her value. Let her know how loved she is. 
Gomer’s eyes slowly raised and met his, and there she saw love. 
There, she saw redemption.  

Sisters, the Lord’s heart breaks when we give ourselves to anything and anyone besides Him, just as Hosea’s broke when Gomer gave herself away to other men.
Gomer willingly abandoned her family and husband to pursue something
she thought was better.

She didn’t know her true worth to Hosea.
She couldn’t fully grasp the kind of love Hosea had lavished on her.  

The Lord chose Hosea to deliver His messages of coming destruction to Israel,
but the Lord knew that Hosea would be able to deliver these messages in a way no other prophet could… because Hosea lived out heartbroken love in his marriage. 
God used Hosea’s heart, his marriage, and his life to showcase His own love for His people. 

Sisters, never doubt the trials God is asking you to endure,
because He may just be softening your heart to reach people.  

And never doubt the great love God has lavished on you,
because, just as Hosea deeply loved his wife, the Lord deeply loves you. 

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Chase Day 15 The Rest Of The Story

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Matthew 12:38-42
Matthew 3:1-12
Acts 3:17-21
Jonah 4

You know, after studying the ins and outs of Jonah for this Journey… I feel for the guy. We know so little about him or his life, and what few snippets we do know are completely colored by his disobedience and anger. I can’t imagine that his whole life’s story is truly summed up by those four short chapters we’ve been digging through, but the Bible is completely silent about Jonah’s life, both leading up to and after the events outlined there.

Everybody has a rough week (or two…or three…yep, I’m raising my hand, too) now and then. Let’s try to put ourselves in his shoes for a moment.

Let’s imagine ourselves in a pretty awful spot, faith-wise. Let’s say…our relationship with our spouse is pretty stilted and we just haven’t been communicating very well. Maybe our children have really been testing their boundaries and our job is incredibly stressful on top of everything else. Then, maybe God tells us to give our life’s savings (everything we have worked so hard for!) to the homeless guy on the corner. And…we don’t do it. Instead, we book our family for a weekend getaway, because hello! Things are stressful and we need to reconnect! But then…everything goes haywire. The hotel is hit by a tornado and we find ourselves bunking in the basement with a bunch of other irritated guests. When we finally get out, we have a change of heart and decide to give what is left in our savings account to the homeless guy, but it is too little, too late. He’s gone.

This may be a stretch, but now imagine that a film crew was secretly documenting all of this to broadcast on television. Can you imagine the shame? The embarrassment?

Now imagine that no matter what else happened in your life leading up to that experience, no one would ever know about it. And afterward? You very well may have won a Nobel Peace Prize, but no one would ever know about that, either. You will always and forever only be recognized for that particular incident.

The Bible doesn’t tell us how Jonah lived out the rest of his life. He may very well have repented of his anger and chosen to live a life of humility and grace. He may have been so convicted by God’s mercy toward the Ninevites that he lived out the rest of his days showing great mercy to everyone he met, giving glory to God.

Or he may have chosen to walk in anger for the rest of his life.
We may never know.

Loves, is his story so very different from our own? Looking back at my week, there are three separate instances that make me ashamed to even remember them. I lost my temper. Raised my voice. Chose anger rather than peace. If those few scenarios were the defining moments of my whole life…let’s just say our friend Jonah would look pretty spiffy by comparison.

Maybe it’s the same for you. Maybe you have been making some choices and acting in ways that you know are wrong. Maybe you’d rather forget the way things have been going, but you feel stuck. Sister, we don’t have to be stuck! Even after all of Jonah’s disobedience and unrighteous anger, Jesus still used his story to point toward salvation. He can use us at our worst, but my heart longs for Him to use me at my best.

Doesn’t yours?

Jesus, we love you. We declare you the King of our hearts, minds, and lips. Show us how to love others and You better. We want to be available to tell Your story and to stop getting caught up in our own. Forgive us for our selfish attitudes and sinful choices. Grow mercy in our hearts and minds, and increase our capacity to love others as You do. We want to reflect You in everything we say and do. Bring Your Kingdom here in our hearts. Amen.

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Battle Day 3 Sole Satisfier

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Ephesians 2:11-22
1 Peter 2:1-5
1 Peter 1:13-23

I re-discovered something today.
I’d known it for quite a while, but sometimes things get brought to a new light, squeezing our insides and forcing our eyes to look full in the face of something hard, something bitter.
The man I married….he cannot satisfy my deepest needs.

But it isn’t one-sided.
I can’t satisfy him either.

We’d been fighting (er, having a “discussion”), and the farther in we got, the more we realized, again, how very different we are.
Too different?
Irreconcilably different?

I wept.
He walked away.
We both love each other, but the one we each married to find happiness, wasn’t delivering.

I stowed away, carrying our youngest and a handful of tissues to our closet, closing the door behind me as my eyes sought out a familiar landmark on our bookshelf:
our wedding pictures.
Not the professional one, but a scrapbook created with the loving hands of my mother-in-love. I prepared for a good, long cry as I sat cross-legged, wiggling baby cooing, and opened its pages, already weeping.

I gazed at our happy faces, naïve little 20 year olds who knew nothing of what lie ahead. Nothing of the pain of journeying.
Nothing of the angst of disappointment.
Nothing of being un-fulfilled.

Oh, if I could go back…
Run into that “ready room” where that young, glowing bride was gleefully putting on her gown.
Me, mid-thirties, plenty of graying hairs mixed with my blond,
pooching belly drooping with the stretched skin of carrying 8 little lives,
a face lined with wrinkles of both worry and laughter,
hands that had wiped tears, baby bottoms, caressed my husband, clenched tight in anger, and now held the pages of that scrapbook nearly 15 years old.

“Stop!” I’d say.
“You don’t know what you’re doing!
That man! He won’t deliver on his promises.
He can’t satisfy your heart. You will grieve, dear one! You will grieve!”
He will grieve.

My baby gurgled and chortled, grabbing at the pages before me. I looked into his eyes, and looked back the girl in the picture, and at the skinny boy next to her.
Neither of them knew.
But someone did.
The Father who loved them both.

Jesus knew we’d open our eyes to this day when we’d recognize again that we weren’t “perfect for each other”.
He knew we would wade into this disappointment.
That we would see the other as the enemy.
And He was ready to hold our hands as we kept walking.

See, marriage wasn’t the problem, the focus of our affection was.
Marriage wasn’t designed to make us happy, but to make us holy.

Not married? No problem…whoever you’re relationship tension is with,
they weren’t designed to make you happy either.
Parents.
Siblings.
Extended family.
Those people at church.
That man from work.
That guy on the internet.
Those friends who betrayed you.
That bestie who loves you, but still manages to hurt your feelings.
Your pastor.
Your boss.
Your son or daughter……
all will disappoint,
all will leave you empty,
all will confuse you into thinking that the enemy is the other person’s inability to fulfill.
I turned a few more pages and saw the younger version of my in-laws, smiling and glowing as they looked at us. They were celebrating their 25th anniversary that year, noting that when we celebrated our 25th, they would be celebrating their 50th.
Depth. Richness. Fullness.
My tears stopped falling.
Rich relationships awaited my husband and me for the next 50 years if we’d allow it, but our happiness had to stop depending on the other.

We were so different.
My love and I.
So far apart.
Then the Spirit’s voice reminded me of precious verses in Ephesians.

Paul had just finished teaching the church how, even though we are dead in our sins, God made us alive together with Christ.
Our “alive-ness” is found first in unity Jesus!

For He Himself IS our peace, who has made us both one,
and has broken down in His flesh, the dividing wall of hostility. (Ephesians 2:14)

There were 2 groups: Jews and Gentiles.
If ever there was reason for intense conflict, it was between these two.
But Paul reminds them that Jesus is for them all, and that peace begins in Him.

Walking together means first walking with Jesus.
Finding resolution means finding my footing in my identity in Christ first.
Growing love for my husband starts with investing in my relationship with God.

“…that he (Jesus) might create in himself one new man in place of the two,
so making peace,
16 and might reconcile us both to God in one body through the cross,
thereby killing the hostility.
18 For through him we both have access in one Spirit to the Father.”
Ephesians 2:15-16, 18

If the Lord can bring two dissenting parties together for the sake of the gospel, He is more than able to bring unity in your relationships!

If I could go back to that “ready room”, I wouldn’t warn that girl to “stop and run”, but to lean in to her Savior, because His love would fill her up, allowing her to love her husband even better.

Go. Lean In. Do Battle and Love Well!

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The GT Weekend – Passionate Week 2

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Use this time to invite the Almighty’s fullness into you life in a deeper way!
Saturdays and Sundays are a chance to reflect, rest, and re-center our lives onto Christ. Don’t miss the opportunity to connect with other women in prayer, rest your soul in reflective journaling, and spend time worshiping the Creator who longs for intimacy with each of us!

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2) When have you felt entirely abandoned, alone, betrayed, and forsaken? Or perhaps you fear that it will happen to you. Consider your view of God. Is your view of Him grounded in biblical truth or are you afraid to trust Him because you don’t feel that He is trustworthy? Remind yourself that Jesus chose our punishment of being forsaken so that we would never feel separated from the One who loves us most!

3) How hungry are you for the Word of God? For deep community? For drinking deeply from the spring of Living Water? Jesus holds life and truth and mercy in quantities far beyond our comprehension. Set aside time to consistently lean in to all that He has waiting for you!

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Father, I praise You for being the center foundation for truth! Jesus, thank You for dying in my place, taking my punishment on Your shoulders, and choosing separation from God that I could be made whole! Spirit, I need your fresh breath! Whisper to my heart, flood me with truth, remind me of Your unfathomable love for me. I pray that this Easter would be one of deep renewal for my heart, Lord. Show me Yourself in new ways and deepen my understanding of Your boundless grace at the cross. Show me how to live out Your love in new ways to the people around me as a result of Your un-ending love for me!

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Remade Day 3
The Kingdom of Death

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Romans 5:12-21
Romans 7:7-12
Romans 2:12-24  

She closed her eyes and rocked back and forth, the floor creaking every time. Her faded yellow blanket was draped over her legs, so only the tips of her brown shoes could be seen. I sat at her feet and watched her intently, determined to predict what she was going to share. She was quiet while I studied her gray hair pulled into a bun and her soft, wrinkled hands folded on her lap. Her face was emotionless, but peaceful.

Then she stopped and looked down at me.

“My sweet child, you’ve heard many stories in your lifetime. Fairy tales about princesses and dragons with handsome princes from far away kingdoms; you’ve known that these stories are just that…stories. But, dear child, I must tell you a true story, it may seem distant and perhaps strange, but one where you are one of the characters.

“There were two Kingdoms with two rulers and a beautiful woman, who had long brown hair that curled towards the ends. She had big blue eyes that held a world of curiosity, and she wore a simple brown dress that hung loosely over her shoulders. She lived in a kingdom that was ruled by a master. It was a kingdom that seemed lovely on the outside. There were elegant churches with steeples so high, the tips couldn’t be seen. There were beautiful white beaches with crystal-clear oceans, where people would watch the tide from the grassy bluffs off the shore. The master, however, was evil. He had purposefully made his Kingdom into a land where people would find beauty and joy in the things they did, the places they went to, and the people they lived with. No one found joy in the Maker.

“Despite their happiness, the citizens here were still empty and hollow. Every morning, some of the citizens would rise, walk towards the large cathedral on the hill, and silently climb the steps leading to its entrance. After they entered, they would bow to the front of the building ten times, then turn and walk back down the steps to return to their homes. They had fulfilled their duties for the day. Others would indulge in food and wine day in and day out, trying to fill themselves up, but never satisfying the void inside. Still, others would wake to trudge towards one of the glass buildings, and sit to work. For hours and hours they would be busy, and when they received their pay, their pockets were full, but the emptiness remained.

“The beautiful woman had partaken in all of those practices. She had bowed in the cathedral, filled herself on delectable food and wine, and she’d worked until she couldn’t any more. Yet she found herself in the same predicament as every other citizen in this Kingdom. She was empty, sad, hurt, and confused.
“One night, she found herself walking along the shoreline, staring into the distance, when she saw a light shining through the stillness. Then she heard a Voice, ‘Come.’
She quickly looked around, trying to find its source.
But she was alone.
She shook her head, believing she mustn’t have heard anything at all.
Finding that light again, she studied it, her head tilting as she began to think of what could be out there. Again she heard the Voice, ‘Come to me.’”

The elderly lady stopped speaking to look at me, a smile spread across her lips as she saw the confusion masked on my face. This was unlike any story she’d told before.

“My dear one, I think you know that the beautiful brunette woman, was you.”
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While the story the woman is sharing isn’t exactly true, it is completely metaphorical of the images we find dancing across the pages of the book of Romans. Romans paints for us the picture of two Kingdoms. A Kingdom of Death, ruled by a master Paul calls Mr. Death, and a Kingdom of Light, that is governed by the King of Life.

The Kingdom of Death was born through a man called Adam. When Adam first sinned, there came a curse that brought death. While this Kingdom came through Adam, the master is Satan.

Every person is bound up in one of these Kingdoms, and many are completely unaware that their home is actually found in the Kingdom of Death. Here reigns the law and people believe that by following rules, they are doing “enough”, not knowing that they really can never do “enough”. They can bow in worship all day, spend weeks fasting, but that will never be enough. There is no faith, just cold, hard law that can never be fulfilled. Emptiness, death, and loneliness win.

Romans 2 and 7 tell us that the law was created so people would know right from wrong. If there were no law, there would be nothing that defines “sin”, which means breaking the law.

The Kingdom of Death is filled with people consumed in legalism, or sensuality, or people consumed with their work. The citizens of the Kingdom of Death will constantly break the law (sin), even though some will try not to… for that is the impossible task. The citizens of this Kingdom are slaves to their sin. They are empty and sin-filled people, and they still don’t know that.

Maybe you are seeing for the first time that you might just be a citizen in the Kingdom of Death. Maybe you’re trapped by your sin, only pretending that you have it all together. You’re always falling short with an empty void inside. You try to fill that void with companions, religious traditions, or wealth. But you never quite have enough to be satisfied.

The Kingdom of Death dooms its citizens to eternal death.
And there’s only one way out.
Join us tomorrow as we turn the page to read the rest of the story!

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