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She Day 15 A She For The Kingdom: Digging Deeper

November 17, 2023 by Rebecca Adams Leave a Comment

She Day 15 A She For The Kingdom: Digging Deeper

Rebecca Adams

November 17, 2023

Freedom,Future,Glory,Gospel,Jesus,Journey,Kingdom,Sin,Worship

Discover the original intent of Scripture. Make good application to our everyday lives.
Become equipped to correctly handle the Word of Truth!

This DD Connects With "A She For The Kingdom"
Why Dig Deeper?

Read His Words Before Ours!

Jeremiah 31:31-40

31 “Look, the days are coming”—this is the Lord’s declaration—“when I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel and with the house of Judah. 32 This one will not be like the covenant I made with their ancestors on the day I took them by the hand to lead them out of the land of Egypt—my covenant that they broke even though I am their master” — the Lord’s declaration. 33 “Instead, this is the covenant I will make with the house of Israel after those days”—the Lord’s declaration. “I will put my teaching within them and write it on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people. 34 No longer will one teach his neighbor or his brother, saying, ‘Know the Lord,’ for they will all know me, from the least to the greatest of them”—this is the Lord’s declaration. “For I will forgive their iniquity and never again remember their sin.

35 “This is what the Lord says:
The one who gives the sun for light by day, the fixed order of moon and stars for light by night, who stirs up the sea and makes its waves roar— the Lord of Armies is his name: 36 If this fixed order departs from before me— this is the Lord’s declaration— only then will Israel’s descendants cease to be a nation before me forever. 37 “This is what the Lord says: Only if the heavens above can be measured and the foundations of the earth below explored, will I reject all of Israel’s descendants because of all they have done— this is the Lord’s declaration.

38 “Look, the days are coming”—the Lord’s declaration—“when the city from the Tower of Hananel to the Corner Gate will be rebuilt for the Lord. 39 A measuring line will once again stretch out straight to the hill of Gareb and then turn toward Goah. 40 The whole valley—the corpses, the ashes, and all the fields as far as the Kidron Valley to the corner of the Horse Gate to the east—will be holy to the Lord. It will never be uprooted or demolished again.”
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The Original Intent

1) Who were the “coming days” for, when would they arrive, and what would be the mark of these days? (verse 31)

God had handcrafted His people, birthing an entire nation, causing them to flourish and then waited 400 years while they both suffered and flourished as slaves in Egypt. (see Marietta’s Journey Study for the story of Puah and Shiphrah)

Though He birthed them, nurtured them, provided lavishly for them in miraculous ways, His people grew tired of loving Him and turned to “gods” they could manipulate as they desired. In His kindness, the Lord sent His people warnings through His mouthpieces, prophets (like Jeremiah and Ezekiel), so they might know He was the One True God (Ezekiel 7:1-4, Ezekiel 11:11-12). Still, they arrogantly rejected His pleas to return for hundreds of years.

Finally, the Lord proved true to His character of justice and allowed His people to be carried away from their homeland and scattered abroad. The heartbreak of God was intended to be felt by His people (Ezekiel 6:9-10) with the hope they would repent, turn from their awful sin of rejecting Him, and come Home to His Heart. (Hosea 6:1-3)

In the midst of these decades of punishment and exile in a foreign land without a place to corporately meet with or worship their Creator King, the Loving God used His mouthpiece-prophets to speak a wonderous word of Hope. Jeremiah 31 overflows with incredible promises that would one day be made manifest when the true King of Israel brought His people back to their land.

The people had broken their covenant (the Ten Commandments and all the laws in Leviticus) with God innumerable times. They needed much more a covenant renewal ceremony, they needed a whole new covenant, one that couldn’t be broken by their sin. In verse 31, the Lord spoke through Jeremiah of a coming day of restoration, a new era, marked by a new covenant.  

The Everyday Application

1) Who were the “coming days” for, when would they arrive, and what would be the mark of these days? (verse 31)

The history of God’s people is, by far, the most engaging, wild historical narrative I’ve ever encountered. If I had space, I would re-tell it all here, but I will invite you to do something better than read my words, read #HisWordsBeforeMine. Take the next few weeks and go on your own adventure through God’s narrative of beginnings!

Read Genesis and Exodus, then fast forward to Jeremiah and Ezekiel, but read them chronologically to avoid confusion. (here’s a chapter guide for timeline reading!) While many are reading narratives of Jesus’ birth leading up to Christmas, read the history of the people Christ came to save! See the devastation of their rebellion (Ezekiel 16) that eventually brought a radical, unheard of gift: God Himself wrapped in flesh.

I guarantee that these four books will bring a fresh understanding of Christmas like never before because we share a theme from Israel’s history in the telling of our own lives, and it’s an ugly one. Rebellion. A reviling of God’s laws and His ways that is as deep as the core of our soul and equally impossible to root out.

Just like Israel, we don’t need an “I promise to do better” ceremony for God, we need a gut-honest, fall-on-your-knees awakening before His throne. One where we realize with shocking clarity how desperately we too need a new covenant, one that cannot be broken by our perpetual affinity to sin against God.

Israel wanted to return to their homeland, and, deep inside, we want a place to call Home in the heart of God, which is precisely why Jesus came!

The Original Intent

2) What is meant by the distinction between the old and new covenant language in verses 31-34?

Ancient world covenants were a regular reality, but in the 21st century, we only have a vague idea of what was meant by cutting a covenant. Covenants were permanently binding upon the two parties; if one party broke their end of the covenant they relinquished rights of their very life to the other party, giving them full permission to execute the death penalty as a consequence. Again, this was common practice in the ancient world and did a decent job of maintaining justice and order.

The “old” covenant was the original “agreement”, to put it lightly, that Abraham had entered into with the Lord God, Yahweh, on behalf of his future offspring who would become the nation of Israel. (Genesis 15) The terms of the covenant were written and held binding at Mt. Sinai when Moses received the Ten Commandments on behalf of Israel.

Proving their rebellious hearts and their insatiable love affair with sin, Israel broke the covenant before Moses even came down the mountain carrying the Ten Commandments. (Exodus 32) Death to Israel for breaking the covenant was God’s right when Israel disobeyed His very first covenantal law right along with the second one, “Do not have other gods besides Me” and “Do not make an idol for yourself.” (Exodus 20:3-4) Death was their earned portion. 

The Everyday Application

2) What is meant by the distinction between the old and new covenant language in verses 31-34?

God is a God of Justice. (Job 37:23, Psalm 9:7-8) He would be unfair and unjust to “look the other way” and “pretend” Israel had not broken the covenant between themselves and the God of the Universe.

So, why didn’t God immediately put an end to Israel? Did the Lord sin? Is He unjust? No; absolutely not! What lavish kindness displayed in the heart of God as He so graciously delayed His justice. He knew His people would never be able to keep the law of the covenant, so He provided an intermediary payment system to paint a picture of the high price tag of sin: death. (Romans 6:23)

Through the sacrificial system, innocent animals were slain in place of people for their sin. Still, the Lord knew this wasn’t justice “For it is impossible for the blood of bulls and goats to take away sin.” (Hebrews 10:4) For generations, He delayed, but not without purpose. He delayed payment, so the full cup of God’s just wrath (Isaiah 51:17, Jeremiah 49:12) could be poured out at one time on His Son, Jesus Christ. (Matthew 20:22)

Only One could drink this cup and survive: the wholly innocent God who had divinely become fully man while maintaining His deity. Christmas, Sisters, where God wrapped Himself in humanity and humbly confined Himself within wrinkly, infant skin that He might die in our place thirty-three years later, tortured to death on a cross where He was unjustly slain for the sins of the world so that, ironically, justice might be perfectly fulfilled.

Through this willful shedding of innocent blood, a new covenant was established. (Matthew 26:28) Here was a covenant of mercy, undeserved forgiveness, and lavish grace. A covenant that could no longer be broken by our sin, for all sin was paid for in one, perfectly satisfying sacrifice.

The Day came where the New covenant replaced the Old and justice was eternally satisfied. Christ’s death brought a new portion for all who believe in Him: Eternal Life!

The Original Intent

3) Why the Lord’s name of “Yahweh Sabaoth” used as an anchoring point for the remainder of this chapter on hope? (verse 35)

We read His name in our English Bibles as “LORD of Hosts” or “LORD of Armies”. Take note of LORD with all capital letters and you’ll discover something you won’t want to forget!

English Bible translators render the Hebrew name of YHWH, which is the deeply personal, intimate name God shared with Moses at the burning bush. God intended this Name to be the doorway for His people, Israel, to truly know Him.

Another helpful side note, when you read “know” in the Old Testament regarding a relationship, it means “knowing by having personal experience with”, which provides us with a much richer understanding of the text! Apply this understanding to God giving His Name YHWH to Moses as the first thing His people should experientially know about Him, and we are left with breathless wonder!

The Lord Of All desired to be deeply known by His creation and He invited them to call Him by His personal Name which notes both His sovereignty and His personal familiarity. To know the Lord as the God of Armies, we must begin by understanding, and personally experiencing Him, as Sovereign Ruler and Intimate Friend.

The word translated “armies” or “hosts” in English is “Sabaoth” in Hebrew. He is Victor, He is Warrior King, He is Undefeatable. This is the Lord who fights for His Beloved ones. (Exodus 14:14)

So, why bring this particular Name of God into this prophetic portion to Israel? To remind them to Hope. To help them look beyond their pain, their heartache, and sense of hopeless defeat to see the faithful God whose character never changes.

The same God who birthed them, nurtured them, and, yes, exiled them, would bring them Home. 

The Everyday Application

3) Why the Lord’s name of “Yahweh Sabaoth” used as an anchoring point for the remainder of this chapter on hope? (verse 35)

I think of a child whimpering not fully awake, not fully asleep, yet emotionally distraught, “Mama is here. Mama loves you.” Mama repeats her name in the child’s ear, hearkening them to calm, to return to truth, bringing them back to reality despite fear. This is the picture we see of the Lord as He speaks to Jeremiah.

It’s challenging to hold onto truth in the face of grief, disappointment, and hopelessness, isn’t it? In the darkest night of the soul, the Lord calls to our hearts, singing over us of His Name, Yahweh, the Great I Am, the Sovereign One.

Jeremiah uses the landscape of Israel’s broken reality to set the backdrop for the glory yet to come. Their current stage was one of death, destruction, and a loss so great it seemed impossible to rebuild. (verses 38-40) But, when the God of Armies fights for you, what is impossible with man is not too difficult for God! (Genesis 18:14)

Jeremiah effectively says, “Look out at your ruin, take in the sight of death and destruction and be reminded that the God of All Victory fights for you.” When the “Day” of Christ’s death would come, ushering in the New Covenant, it would mean an end to Death’s victory for Christ would conquer it with His resurrected Life! The God of creation (verses 35 and 37) was more than enough to bring life from death, and just as He had been faithful to hold creation together since He breathed life into it, so He would be faithful to slay death forever.

One day, for all who have trusted Christ as their Savior, we will see our Victor face to face. Death will be no more, tears will vanish, and Hope will reign forever. (Revelation 21:1-4) Whatever griefs tear at your heart, whatever hopeless situations threaten you, look around and acknowledge the reality, then take that reality to the faithful character of Yahweh Sabaoth and let Hope redefine your reality!

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Lydia’s resume would read like this:
God-fearing woman from Thyatira working in a male dominated industry selling luxury (purple) cloth. First female convert to Christianity. Baptized by Paul. (Acts 16:11-15) Home is a church and work base for Paul’s ministry in Asia. (Acts 16:40)

Lydia had no official leadership titles.
But she didn’t need them.

She was a God-fearing believer. Her capacity and willingness to lead and serve was born not from desire for accolades but from her love for and willingness to follow and obey God.
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She Day 15 A She For The Kingdom

November 17, 2023 by Marietta Taylor 2 Comments

She Day 15 A She For The Kingdom

Marietta Taylor

November 17, 2023

Courage,Daughter,Encourage,Equipped,Faith,Humility,Identity,Kingdom,Legacy

Read His Words Before Ours!

Exodus 1:15-21
Luke 8:1-3
Acts 16:11-15
Jeremiah 31

“Why have you done this and let the boys live?”
(Exodus 1:18)

How dare the midwives, Puah and Shiphrah, defy Pharaoh’s command and not kill the Hebrew babies when they delivered them! Didn’t they realize he was king and therefore must operate in complete obedience to him? Had they no fear of the repercussions of their disobedience?

While they acknowledged Pharaoh as ruler, they submitted to one higher than him. God was their ultimate king. It was Him they honored, refusing to allow these babies’ blood to cry out to the Lord from the ground as Abel’s had done centuries earlier. (Genesis 4:1-16) They operated with the wisdom found in Job 28:28 “The fear of the Lord—that is wisdom.”  Instead of bowing to tyranny, they embraced courage and strength to show God as The One and Only God.

Had they been in modern times, Matthew 10:28 might have guided them, “Don’t fear those who kill the body but are not able to kill the soul; rather, fear him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.”

Did Pharaoh punish them? Amazingly, he did not. Instead, their loving Father in heaven rewarded them. Not only did He prevent punishment, “Since the midwives feared God, He gave them families.” (Exodus 1:21)

God also blessed His beloved people by making them multiply and become numerous, (Exodus 1:20) in direct opposition to Pharaoh’s desire.
God loved His people and used the obedience of Shiphrah and Puah to put it on display.

Why is Jesus consorting with these women, who were once filled with evil spirits and sicknesses? (Luke 8:1-3)

Having women with “tainted” pasts in His close circle broke all social norms and Jewish tradition.

Can you imagine the looks and whispers?

Despite social norms, traditions, and opinions of others, these women provided tangible support for Jesus’ ministry. (Luke 8:3)

Joanna’s husband, Chuza, managed Herod’s estate; the same Herod who beheaded John the Baptist. (Mark 6:14) Joanna’s allegiance lay not with the Romans who ruled Israel on earth, but with the God who claimed Israel as His people and served as their True King. (Jeremiah 31:1) As she worshiped Yahweh, so she now worshiped Jesus, God in the flesh.

Despite Joanna’s connection with those who hated Jesus, her worship didn’t go unnoticed by the God who loved her first. (1 John 4:19) He gave her co-workers in ministry so she was not alone. And He rewarded her with the sweetest of privileges…

On Resurrection morning, the women went to Jesus’ tomb to prepare His body, but “…found
the stone rolled away from the tomb. They went in but did not find the body
of the Lord Jesus.” (Luke 24:2-3)

And then…

 “…suddenly two men stood by them in dazzling clothes”, proclaiming, “He is not here, but He has risen!”

“Returning from the tomb, they reported all these things to the Eleven and to all the rest.  Mary Magdalene, Joanna, Mary the mother of James, and the other women with them were telling the apostles these things.”

 It makes my heart leap to think, these women, whom society had shunned and discarded, saw angels and were the first witnesses to the empty tomb, the evidence of the resurrection of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

Bless the Lord!

He sees the broken and unwanted and calls them His own, using them for His glory and the good of His kingdom while lavishly demonstrating His love and care for them. What a God we serve!

“If you consider me a believer in the Lord, come and stay at my house.”
(Acts 16:15)  

Lydia’s resume would read like this: God-fearing woman from Thyatira working in a male dominated industry selling luxury (purple) cloth. First female convert to Christianity. Baptized by Paul. (Acts 16:11-15) Home is a church and work base for Paul’s ministry in Asia. (Acts 16:40)

Lydia had no official leadership titles.
But she didn’t need them.
She was a God-fearing believer. Her capacity and willingness to lead and serve was born not from desire for accolades but from her love for and willingness to follow and obey God.

We’re never told specific “rewards” for Lydia. However, based on watching her in Scripture, I believe the Lord may have rewarded her with success in a mostly male industry alongside the abundantly satisfying joy of simply serving the God she had come to know and love by serving the Church.

Sister in the faith, Co-laborer for Christ, Ministry Partner and most importantly, Friend and Encourager

This description fits, none other than the President of Gracefully Truthful (GT), Rebecca Adams. She’s a homeschooling mom raising seven kids and awaiting the day to reunite with her eighth Treasure who preceded her to Heaven. She’s been married for over 20 years. She’s on staff at her local church. She founded GT and currently serves as the President of our board of directors.

But the role I hold most dear to my heart is as friend and encourager. We share some of the same life struggles. And we pray fervently for, and with, each other over those challenges, right alongside those of this ministry and the lives it touches.

Not only does she encourage me, she does the same for countless other women, serving as a mentor for many. She loves the Lord and His Word and she openly and lavishly shares that with others.

I wish each of you could know her personally, but you can “know her” through her writings at GT. You can see the depth of her faith and her joy in serving the Lord and His people.

You.

Culture would tell you to serve your own wants and purposes, but…
Looking at these “Shes”, it’s evident serving God should be our purpose.

It will look different for each of us, but as we submit to His plans for our lives,
He will guide and reward us for our obedience. And He’ll faithfully bring others alongside us for the journey to encourage us. As She, let’s commit to living His way!

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Take the next few weeks and go on your own adventure through God’s narrative of beginnings! Read Genesis and Exodus, then fast forward to Jeremiah and Ezekiel, but read them chronologically (here’s a chapter guide for timeline reading!).

While many are reading narratives of Jesus’ birth leading up to Christmas, read the history of the people Christ came to save! See the devastation of their rebellion, and ours, that brought such a radical, unheard of gift like God Himself wrapped in flesh.

I guarantee that these four books will bring a fresh understanding of Christmas like never before!
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She Day 14 Gardner Of The Home: Digging Deeper

November 16, 2023 by Merry Ohler Leave a Comment

She Day 14 Gardner Of The Home: Digging Deeper

Merry Ohler

November 16, 2023

Called,Captivating,Character,Dwell,Family,Fellowship

Discover the original intent of Scripture. Make good application to our everyday lives.
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Titus 2:1-5

But you are to proclaim things consistent with sound teaching. 2 Older men are to be self-controlled, worthy of respect, sensible, and sound in faith, love, and endurance. 3 In the same way, older women are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not slaves to excessive drinking. They are to teach what is good, 4 so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands and to love their children, 5 to be self-controlled, pure, workers at home, kind, and in submission to their husbands, so that God’s word will not be slandered.
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The Original Intent

1) Why did Paul outline specific expectations of personal behavior for older, believing men and women in the church? (verses 2-5)

Titus was a Gentile convert (Galatians 2:3) and disciple of Paul, who had been commissioned by the apostle to set the fledgling church at Crete in order. (Titus 1:5) Titus was tasked by Paul with discipling, establishing, and training leadership in the Cretan church and teaching the new believers which behaviors were obedient, honoring, and pleasing to God. (Titus 1:1-9)

In Titus 1, Paul reiterated Titus’ mission and outlined the qualifications for men in leadership roles within the church. In Titus 2, Paul also addresses the qualifications for women in leadership and discipling roles within the church. (Titus 2:3-5) Simultaneously, Paul pointed to the fruit one could expect to see in the life of a believer who was growing in maturity and in their Christian walk.

False teaching had already reached the church at Crete, and the new believers were exposed to teaching that endorsed sinful behaviors, laziness, dissension, factions, and more. Paul underscored the importance of sound teaching, highlighting the fruit Titus could expect to see in those who followed sound doctrine and teaching.

Rather than focus on the mark of believing relationships between believers, Paul pointed to the fruit Titus (and all believers) would be able to see in the personal lifestyles and relationships of mature believing men and women. Paul explained that these fruits were indicative of the maturity of older men and women in the church, qualifying them to lead their newer counterparts in sound teaching, truth, and right living in Christ. These investing relationships would build strong, healthy churches.

The Everyday Application

1) Why did Paul outline specific expectations of personal behavior for older, believing men and women in the church? (verses 2-5)

While current American culture prescribes militant “femininity” as the only antidote for “toxic masculinity,” the church today is rife with women, men, and children who are starving for sound, Scriptural teaching and discipleship. As women who have chosen to surrender our lives to Jesus and pursue following Him, we seek sound teachers who will speak God’s truth to us and encourage us to joyfully serve those around us.

As a whole, the church desperately needs mature followers of Christ who are able and willing to pour into younger men and women and point them to Jesus. There is no shortage of false, twisted teaching from new age to self-affirmation, to false gospels, and more. Deceptions have been present in the church since the very beginning, because people make up the church, and people are selfishly sinful. Paul penned his letter to Titus centuries ago, but we share the same challenges and struggles within the church today.

Just like Titus, we must know how to discern which teachers and teachings point us to Christ and are in alignment with His Word. When false teachers effortlessly weave their errant teaching alongside truth, it is imperative that believers use sound discernment to determine whether a teaching aligns with Scripture, or whether it points to a false gospel or other false teaching.

When I’m considering whether a teacher is one I could trust, Paul’s words help me to know what fruit I should look for in their life. If the fruit of the teacher’s life doesn’t line up with the descriptions Paul provided in Titus 2:2-5, I can recognize warning flags that this teacher is not necessarily walking and growing with the Lord in a manner consistent with biblical maturity. The teaching they provide may not point me directly to Christ and His way.

The Original Intent

2) How did Paul’s descriptions of mature Christian lifestyle behaviors (verses 2-5) tie in with his exhortation for Titus to proclaim things consistent with sound teaching in verse 1?

As Titus was establishing leadership in the church at Crete, Paul knew he would need clarity, guidance, and wisdom to choose leaders. In addition, Paul wanted Titus to be bold in teaching truth and in training others how to live like Christ. Paul’s descriptions of mature, Christian lifestyle behaviors were directly tied to sound teaching; a mature believer would exhibit the evidence of sound teaching in a life marked by self-control, sensibility, strong faith, love, and endurance. (Colossians 3:5-10, 2 Corinthians 5:17, James 1:22-27)

Paul explained mature women believers should be recognized by their reverence, or seriousness, about their life in Jesus, their edifying speech, and their lack of dependence on anything but Christ. These mature believing women should be pouring into younger women in the church, teaching them what is good, especially regarding how to serve and love their husbands and children well.

The primary roles of women in this time were within the household, and Paul highlighted the godly approach spiritually mature believing women would take. Paul demonstrated they would be given to godly discipleship of newer believing women, teaching them to walk in a godly manner and serving those God had given them well.

Sound teaching of Christ and His way naturally pointed to all these things, and Paul’s letter to Titus affirmed this as he outlined what the fruit of sound teaching would yield in a believer’s life.

The Everyday Application

2) How did Paul’s descriptions of mature Christian lifestyle behaviors (verses 2-5) tie in with his exhortation for Titus to proclaim things consistent with sound teaching in verse 1?

The fruit of sound teaching rooted in Scripture will yield radical transformation in the life of every believer, whether male or female. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 tells us all Scripture is useful for teaching, correction, reproof, and training in righteousness. As women navigating life in the current age, we are inundated with a virtual tsunami of women’s teachings, guidance and more.

It is vitally important that we use the wisdom and discernment God has given us to ascertain whether a teaching or teacher is actually pointing us toward Christ and His way, or toward the way of the world. Paul’s words to Titus are a help to us as we navigate those waters. When we read or hear a teaching, receive advice from someone, or consider entering a discipling relationship with another Christian woman, Spirit-led discernment is imperative!

We should ask the Holy Spirit to show us what is true and then consider whether Scripture supports or refutes what is being taught. Sometimes, this is enough to clarify whether the teaching, teacher, or advice is sound and godly, but sometimes more consideration is required. If all is not clear, we can and should ask God to help us ascertain what the fruit of the given advice will be in our lives, and what the fruit of the teacher’s life reveals.

Will it yield fruit consistent with the Gospel and God’s desire for our lives as followers of Christ?

Will this teaching or teacher point us to lay down our selfish desires so we can fully serve and love others, our husband, our children?

Or does it elevate ourselves and point us to pursue what our “heart wants” or what we think is right at all costs?

The Holy Spirit is faithful to provide guidance, and God provides wisdom every time we ask. (James 1:5-6) Praise be to God!

The Original Intent

3) What is at the heart of Paul’s words in verses 4 and 5 regarding women, home, and submission to husbands?

The role of women in Paul’s day and age revolved almost entirely around the home and their families. The primary identity markers of wife and mother provided women of that time with financial and physical security. Those who did not have a husband or children rarely had financial provision beyond the generosity of others.

To be an unmarried woman was far less common than it is in our society today. Paul’s words in this passage were specifically directed to the behaviors and teachings Titus could expect to see in mature, godly women in the church.

While Paul did not indicate that women leaders in the church must be married, he did highlight that spiritually mature Christian women would be sound teachers of what is good. By teaching sound doctrine and godly truth, they would encourage the newer women believers to be faithful in the roles God had given them. Specifically, Paul mentioned the roles of wife and mother, but he also outlined qualities every believing woman should possess: purity, kindness, diligence, self-control, and submission to their husbands.

While Titus was setting order to the church at Crete, he was dealing with a mixture of people at different places in their walk with Christ. Paul’s direction to Titus regarding spiritually mature men and women were a great help to Titus in discerning where a believer was in their walk, and whether they were ready to lead others or needed further discipleship or transformation before stepping into those roles.

The Everyday Application

3) What is at the heart of Paul’s words in verses 4 and 5 regarding women, home, and submission to husbands?

Paul’s teaching regarding women leading and receiving in the church begins with character and how they serve those in their closest relationships. First, we see his outline for what Titus could expect to see in a mature Christian woman’s walk. She would be a woman who truly lives for Christ. She would take her Christian faith and walk with Christ seriously.

Second, he states that a mature believing woman capable of discipling younger women would be a woman who understands and respects the weight of her words. Rather than let fly cutting words with loose lips, she would be reluctant to slander.

Third, she would not be a believer still enslaved to besetting sins. Instead, she would teach what is good and sound, so she might encourage newer believing women to love their husbands and children well. The heart of Paul’s words to Titus is: believing women will love God and others well.

Believing wives are called to submit to their husbands as the spiritual authority in their household, just as the church submits to Christ as the spiritual authority of us all. “Submission” is a challenging subject, but the heart of Paul’s words is largely overlooked when we malign what God’s word actually says. Just as Adam called Eve, “flesh of my flesh,” when we enter into a Christ-centered union of marriage in Him, we are no longer two, but have become one. We are fitly joined together, and our marriage is a testament to the perfect design of Christ and His church.

As believers, we are all called to live in submission to all brothers and sisters in the body of Christ. (Ephesians 5:18-21) Paul’s instruction to Titus wasn’t a mandate to enforce men in the church to control women, or anything similar. My friend, Jacob, says, “Submission is something that must be given to another; it cannot be taken.”

Every believer is called to live a life of willing responsibility, transparency, and submission to trustworthy brothers and sisters in Christ, all submitting together to Christ our head. Thank You, Father, for your beautiful design for marriage and Your church!

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Submission.

The arrangement of those particular letters forming that specific word often turn my insides raw.

A “you will obey me” mentality comes to mind. Coercion. Manipulation. Head down. Crushed spirit. Wanting to fight, but knowing it would bring no benefit, and would likely make it worse.

Slap on a “spiritual happy face” and label this scene “submission”.

Ugly Chills.
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She Day 13 Gardner Of The Home

November 15, 2023 by Rebecca Adams Leave a Comment

She Day 13 Gardner Of The Home

Rebecca Adams

November 15, 2023

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Read His Words Before Ours!

Titus 2:1-5
Psalm 92
Proverbs 14:1
Revelation 3:19-22
Psalm 1:1-3

Submission
.

The arrangement of those particular letters forming that specific word often turn my insides raw.

A “you will obey me” mentality comes to mind.
Coercion.
Manipulation.
Head down.
Crushed spirit.
Wanting to fight, but knowing it would bring no benefit, and would likely make it worse.

Slap on a “spiritual happy face” and label this scene “submission”.

Ugly Chills.

But it’s not just my heart that revolts against that definition. The Lord’s righteous jealousy glows hot when His daughters believe such sinister lies as they actively exchange the truth of God for an insidious Satanic lie wrapped in a package labeled “Christian Wife Qualities”. (Romans 1:18, Nahum 1:2-3)

Is your stomach churning?
Mine is.

The same slippery snake has been doling out sickening, sugar-coated deceptions since time began in the Garden of Eden with his cunning question, “Did God really say…?”. (Genesis 3:1)

It worked in Eden as creation’s very first She, Eve, took God’s original words, added to them, and twisted His intent, making the Almighty Gracious Creator look like a stingy, self-absorbed power-monger. And it works exactly the same for us every time we hold onto a definition of submission that departs from Scriptural teaching.

Ready for some truth?
I Am!

There’s something richly wholesome about feeding on solid truth, and as Shes in a world of fraud and faux, Truth sets a welcoming banquet like nothing else.
I need truth.
Desperately.

Bring your stretchy pants for this one, girls, we’re gonna’ EAT!

“…older women are to be reverent in behavior,
not slanderers, not slaves to excessive drinking.
They are to teach what is good,
so that they may encourage the young women
to love their husbands and to love their children,
to be self-controlled, pure, workers at home,
kind, and in submission to their husbands,
so that God’s word will not be slandered.” (Titus 2:3-5)

Pastor Paul sent this letter to Titus who was strengthening house churches on the island of Crete. Church leadership had gone awry as self-love took first place and cultural slothful laziness influenced Christ-followers so much that they began to look more like Cretans than Christians. Paul’s letter provided wisdom and practical insight as Titus went to work correcting poor spiritual habits in the churches on Crete.

Let’s join Titus at the table while the Holy Spirit teaches our hearts through His Word!

Teachers (verse 3)
Women are excellent teachers, whether it’s in the classroom, at home, or at work; we were designed to teach others just by the way we live. The woman mature in Christ will leverage her teaching gifts to influence others for the gospel as she trains them to follow Jesus.

Encouragers
(verse 4)
Jesus-loving women have grown strong in emotionally connecting and naturally empathizing with others; they are quick to not only notice when encouragement is needed, but give it generously.

Love
(verse 4)
Women are natural born lovers and nurturers. We comfort, tend, fuss over, soothe, and foster nourishment. When that woman has sat under the maturing work of the Holy Spirit, their lives will prove it by loving their children, spouses, neighbors, and teammates with a deep, fight-for-you kind of selfless, humble love.

Self Control & Purity
(verse 5)
Spotting the admirable characteristics of self-control and purity in Paul’s list, we understand that women who have learned to dance in step with Jesus will be wearing Self-Control as she lives out Purity of thoughts, words, and actions in her hum-drum normal life.

Then comes “workers at home” and my modern, feminist-culture-influenced-self shoots up flags.
Um, what?
No.
Workers at home?
I can’t have a career?
Can’t speak up?
Don’t have influence?

Soon, we’ve grasped so tightly onto a single aspect, wrenching it free from its original place in Scripture to its original audience, that we’ve lost sight of the Lord’s good intention. (verse 3) In fact, our eyes likely missed “kind” altogether, skipped to “submission”, and we’re ready to make heads roll as the feminist flag flies high.

Before we jump on that bandwagon, sisters, would you be willing to sit quietly with me and reach a little deeper into God’s Word to see something spectacular?

Christ Jesus, Lord of all things, Holder of every molecule, submitted.
It was His idea.
He modeled it.
He chose it.
(Colossians 1:15-20, Luke 22:42)

Steeped in Scripture, we start to rightly define submission.
It’s a choice.
Never a coercion.
Never a manipulation.

If you’ve ever been “commanded” by anyone to “submit”, you’ve been the object of severe mistreatment of God’s Word.
Submission can only ever be willfully given. 

Submission is our gift to the Lord Jesus who submitted to the Father, by submitting to the cross to pay the death penalty in our stead.
Submission is our gift to a husband if we are married.
Submission is our gift to brothers and sisters in Jesus.

Have you ever read the gospel accounts of Jesus healing diseases everywhere He went as crowds gathered? (John 6:2) Have you ever wondered why there aren’t also stories of relationships suddenly healed and marriages made whole?
Answer: Submission

The Author of submission
who wrote the rules of love,
knew that forced behavior
would never equal humble, sacrificial love.
Submissive love must be chosen.

Which is why Christ will never force Himself on any soul. We are each given the choice to accept or reject His offer of total forgiveness for our sin as He powerfully pursues us with mercy and goodness. (Psalm 23:6, 1 John 1:9)

Within a marriage relationship, submission is such a stunning gift and holds such great, steadying value that the Greek word translated in our Bibles as “submit” provides the visual of a pillar that upholds a building. It’s an anchoring support. The building, or in the case of wives, the Home, grows shaky without her influence.

She, as homemaker submitting to her husband, has been handcrafted to uphold structure, to protect those within her care, to guard them from harmful influences and cultivate growth as the Gardner of Her Home.

Does She have influence?
So Much.
And in unique ways that her husband doesn’t because marriage is designed as a partnership.

Should She do whatever her husband says?
Absolutely not, for the Lord God created male and female. Uniquely fitted to work together to reflect the trinity of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

Incredible!

Through submission to her husband’s love, she reflects what Christ Jesus did unto the Father when He chose death to pay for our sin so that
He could be our pillar of safety,
our anchoring support, our guard,
and our nourishment.
Can there be any more stunning role than this?!

She who submits is a She who has great influence and great power,
yet willingly chooses to use those powers to uphold, guard, protect, and deeply, sacrificially love.

The next time you see letters arranging the word “submission”, I hope you’ll think of Jesus.
I hope you’ll think of Pastor Paul writing to Titus, urging him to find Jesus-following Shes who so deeply loved Jesus they couldn’t think of any better investment for their lives than willingly submitting to Christ and their husbands for the strengthening and nourishing of the whole, beautiful family of God!

“Every wise woman builds her house, but a foolish one tears it down with her own hands.”
(Proverbs 14:1)

Be a She who submits to Jesus!

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She Day 12 Flesh Of My Flesh: Digging Deeper

November 14, 2023 by Melodye Reeves Leave a Comment

She Day 12 Flesh Of My Flesh: Digging Deeper

Melodye Reeves

November 14, 2023

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Discover the original intent of Scripture. Make good application to our everyday lives.
Become equipped to correctly handle the Word of Truth!

This DD Connects With "Flesh Of My Flesh"
Why Dig Deeper?

Read His Words Before Ours!

Hebrews 13:1-5

Let brotherly love continue. 2 Don’t neglect to show hospitality, for by doing this some have welcomed angels as guests without knowing it.

3 Remember those in prison, as though you were in prison with them, and the mistreated, as though you yourselves were suffering bodily. 4 Marriage is to be honored by all and the marriage bed kept undefiled, because God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.

5 Keep your life free from the love of money. Be satisfied with what you have, for he himself has said, “I will never leave you or abandon you.”
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The Original Intent

1) In its context, who is the writer addressing from verse 1 onward?

Much like the apostle Paul does in his letters, the unnamed author of Hebrews makes a shift from the direction of his letter leading up to this point as he prepares his closing. The transition of verse 1 signals an upcoming practical exhortation to believers.

As chapter 13 begins, the writer offers final encouragement to live in such a way that honors one another. In the previous verse, he referred to his audience as participants with him in the kingdom of God. He writes, “Since we receive it … let us be thankful.” (Hebrews 12:28) He begins by speaking to them regarding brotherly and sisterly (philadelphia) love.

The Scriptures teach that all the saints are to demonstrate a familial love for one another within their spiritual relationship. What we read about in verse 1 is an affectionate love among men and women who are connected to each other through Christ, therefore are unified spiritually just as a biological family is unified by blood. (John 17:21-23)

The reference to “brotherly love” is a combination of the Greek word phileo (Biblehub.com) with the Greek word adelphos (Biblestudytools.com). In its different forms, the word adelphos occurs several times in the New Testament with a variety of meanings which can be determined by looking at the context.

Adelphoi, the plural form of the word, is used by Paul in Galatians 3:27-29 to refer to siblings in the family of God who are heirs of promise. It identifies those who are in a sacred relationship with one another in Christ. There is to be a unique ‘kindredness’ of love and honor among those who are in the family of God through Jesus Christ. (Romans 12:10, Philippians 2:20)

The Everyday Application

1) In its context, who is the writer addressing from verse 1 onward?

Since the book’s author never names himself nor specifically designates his audience, both are an uncertainty for the Bible reader. Ancient theories suggest that the original recipients were Jewish Christians, hence the title Hebrews. (Hebrews 1:1: “Long ago, God spoke to our ancestors…)

If that is so, the reader would have understood the book’s many references to the Old Testament. Becoming familiar with the biblical traditions which were previously taught helps us interpret the writer’s mindset and possible meaning. It guides us to understand God and learn what He thinks about practical living.

For instance, reading the psalmist’s reflection in Psalm 133:1 provides us insight on his perspective of unity. His expression was possibly indicative of his own experiences of the hostile existence between those who should be kindreds. (1 Kings 15:3-6) David, the author of Psalm 133, knew it was better to have unity and love rather than disharmony and dishonor.

Continually demonstrating brotherly and sisterly love toward one another is essential for us as believers. Dear GT Sister, let’s pray for God to ignite within us a deep love for all our sisters in Christ. There are women in our sphere of influence who need our genuine compassion and care. I encourage you to look around within your own church family to find them. I assure you there’s someone who needs a caring friend.

May we prayerfully look toward others with our eyes and hearts open to God’s prompting to really see them and reach out to one of them today.

The Original Intent

2) What connection does the writer make in verses 2-3?

Family ties were common in Jewish culture with a rich heritage of honor running through their bloodlines. Psalms and Proverbs give us several examples of familial ties that would have existed within God’s people. (Proverbs 1:8, Proverbs 3:11, Proverbs 12:4, Psalm 127:3-5)

The Ten Commandments given by God indicate the vital role that family plays in His covenant with them as six of the ten handle relationships between people. (Deuteronomy 5:16-21) Under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit (2 Timothy 3:16, 2 Peter 1:20-21), the writer of Hebrews is making sure the reader understands the responsibility they have beyond their physical family. (verse 1) He urges them to carry their hospitality into the realm of potentially uncomfortable.

His mention of angels in verse 2 in interesting. Was the writer remembering the strangers who appeared at the door of Abraham? (Genesis 18:1-8) We learn from that Old Testament story the magnitude of extending hospitality to needy strangers! The author then mentions in verse 3 the prisoner and the outcast.

It could be tempting to gather with family and never consider the unseen suffering of those beyond those we love. Not only were they to be ready to serve those who needed hospitality, but also those who needed their remembrance. (Greek: mimnesko) This was a call to share in the suffering of others by consistently being mindful of those who were in prison or were abused (likely because of their faith).

Whether it was tangible support, prayers, or simply reminding each other of those suffering, there was to be acknowledgment and love for the “unseen”! Jesus told His followers that when they refused to help “the least of these brothers and sisters”— they were refusing to help the Lord Himself. (Matthew 25:35-45) In verses 2-3, we learn genuine love isn’t neglectful of others’ needs!

The Everyday Application

2) What connection does the writer make in verses 2-3?

Friends, as women of Jesus, we should be consistently developing a heart of love for others. Some of them sit near us each week in our local churches. But there are more!

Maybe you’ve read in your church’s ministry announcements of opportunities to love the marginalized and often disregarded. Or maybe you can open your home to someone who needs shelter. Not everyone can serve in the same capacity or give the same amount of time to community ministries or local missions’ efforts, but we can probably do something to demonstrate Jesus’ love for all.

Maybe it’s helping someone who is helping someone. Some churches offer groups who work together to minister to prisoners, widows, orphans and the poor. Women can also lead the way by joining together with other women to form teams to serve alongside one another. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-11)

There are many ways we can serve “the least of these.” Careportal.org serves kids and families by connecting believers to real-time needs in their own cities. See if it’s available in your area! Likely, you also know women who are striving to love Jesus well who may live across the world from us.

Gracefully Truthful is a great resource for finding and “meeting” women from other cities, states, and nations. We would love to increase our international opportunities to love and honor women all over the world who desire to follow Jesus in deeper ways.

Join a GT POD, register to study with us, or perhaps the Lord is calling you to join our team and write with us! Maybe you can’t move across the world and serve suffering believers. But we can ALL … 1) pray, 2) give and 3) remember those who are in need.

The Original Intent

3) Why might the writer include the subject of marriage in this passage? (verse 4)

The author of Hebrews continues his teaching on love by offering instruction on how to reflect God’s image as faithful, God-honoring wives. We may feel the subject is out of place as it can seem like it has been inserted in the middle of a thought without connection to its surroundings. So, we must ask ourselves if and how it connects.

The writer explains how marriage is to be honorable and “the marriage bed kept undefiled.” (verse 4) The Greek word translated “undefiled” (amiantos) is used three other times in the New Testament, and it carries the idea of being “set apart.” (Hebrews 7:26-27)

Just as it was essential to honor one another within community, the author commands the recipients to show honor within marriage by having an exclusive sexual relationship within marriage. An honoring kind of love in marriage guards against betrayal, specifically sexual unfaithfulness.

Notice the importance of honor in marriage: ONLY in verse 4 of our passage does the verse come with a warning of God’s judgment. We don’t always know God’s will about something. But in this we do! Scripture tells us it is God’s will we abstain from sexual immorality. (1 Thessalonians 4:2-5)

God does not take lightly dishonoring the marriage vow. The word for honor (timios) used in verse 4 means precious. Marriage was to be considered as precious. It’s the word used in 1 Corinthians 3:12 regarding precious stones and in 1 Peter 1:19 in reference to the precious blood of Jesus.

Considering marriage as precious and priceless should instill in the recipients the value God placed on marital faithfulness. It was a strong command and a lesson in the significance of honoring one another in marriage in a marked way.

The Everyday Application

3) Why might the writer include the subject of marriage in this passage? (verse 4)

We have read that loving others in the right way works for the good of everyone: for the brothers and sisters in Christ, for the strangers, and for the prisoners. But in the midst of these thoughts, we also learn how to please God in marriage.

Calling people to lifelong faithfulness was as counter-cultural then as it is today. Though seemingly a random mention, I believe the writer meant to include it here to indicate its significance. My friend, if you’re a wife as I am, may we understand that honoring our marriages is good for us and for society. Malachi 2:13-15, Proverbs 14;34,  Because this is God’s original plan, He would not be just if he did not judge those who disgrace marriage and treat it with contempt. (Psalm 89:14)

Yes, all Jesus-loving women are called honor others. But Jesus-loving wives are also called to honor our marriages. Scriptures teach us that our marriages are to be set apart as precious. If you are following along with our GT theme of “She”, we are considering the intentional delight of the Lord God who formed femininity and wrapped it in strength, courage, and dignity for the purpose of reflecting the image of the Lord who made “She”.

There are so many ways “SHE” can become involved in reflecting the image of the Lord. For wives, we have one particular way we are to reflect Him, by honoring our marriages in remaining faithful to our husbands and making marriage an exclusive sexual union. Friends, please know this: if you’ve failed, there’s grace. There’s always grace. (1 John 1:9)

You can walk in forgiveness, choose faithfulness, and trust God to provide you with strength to remain faithful.

The Original Intent

4) What essential truth is expressed in verse 5 to give the believer confidence and peace in all our circumstances?

We read in the previous passage how grace and thankfulness are to be lived out, knowing the reality of the unshakeable kingdom of God. (Hebrews 12:14-29)

With this in their minds, believers are to live with one another in loving and honorable ways within 1) faith relationships (verse 1), 2) local communities (verses 2-3), and 3) marriages (verse 4). In addition to these responsibilities, the author instructs believers to rightfully consider money matters. Again, the verse may seem to be an interruption of thought until we notice the contrast from the previous verses.

The perspective of a person who follows Christ is that our love is to be given to people, not money. We are to be content with what we have because of God’s faithful presence. (verse 5) There is no reason to place priority on keeping money for our security when we have God Himself.

The author’s goal was to communicate that what matters most in the kingdom of God was the forever relationships we’re creating. Believers are to honor others by sacrificially giving to them, honor marriage by being faithful, and honor God by not being consumed with self.

Jesus also addressed money issues in ways least expected. (Luke 12:13-21) The Jewish recipients of this letter had faced plenty of adversity, and they felt the sting of abuse, prison and need. (Hebrews 10:32-34) But they are reminded that God had made a promise to them just as He had to Moses (Deuteronomy 31:6) and to Joshua (Joshua 1:5).

This isn’t as much about money as it is about WHO God is. He is the believer’s confidence and contentment as He was the apostle Paul’s. (Philippians 4:11-13) They could graciously serve others, even if they had to sacrifice their own possessions.

The Everyday Application

4) What essential truth is expressed in verse 5 to give the believer confidence and peace in all our circumstances?

It is in the DNA of humanity to worry. (Matthew 6:19-34) But when we worry, it’s a sign that we believe something can go permanently wrong. So, we begin to make plans to save and gather all the things for ourselves to be “secure”. But, Sister, we don’t need to do this!

What a wonderful promise we read, “For He Himself has said, ‘I will never leave you or abandon you.’” He Himself. That’s the Lord God of all creation. Even though this is probably a reference to Deuteronomy 31:6, God’s never-forsaking presence is a prevalent promise found throughout the Bible.

Long before Jesus promised His disciples His presence (Matthew 28:19-20), God promised to be with His people. The Old Testament believers were assured of God’s presence with them. The psalmist often declared the Lord’s nearness to him in days of distress or trouble. The prophet Isaiah spoke God’s promise to the people when he told them the Lord would give a sign of a baby born of a virgin whose name would be Emmanuel, meaning God with us.

One day, all true believers will be with the Lord forever and ever! (Genesis 28:15, Psalm 46, Isaiah 7:14, Matthew 1:21-23, and Revelation 21:3) So, my Friend, the end of verse 5 is really the key to obeying the rest of the instructions in this passage. We can love others and we can honor our marriages because God is faithful!

“Now, trusting anyone is risky. But the biblical story portrays a God who has been faithful all along and whose promises were fulfilled in the story of Jesus. And so, as we look out at the obstacles facing us and our world, we’re invited to take that same risk and join Abraham, David, and the people of God in trusting that God is overflowing with faithfulness.” (bibleproject.com)

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While I had some vague, dreamy understanding that marriage was designed to honor God, I am absolutely certain my definition would never have included the curious verse that reads like a cliff-hanger at the close of The Love Chapter.

“For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I will know fully, as I am fully known.” (1 Corinthians 13:12)
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The GT Weekend! ~ She, Week 2

November 11, 2023 by Marietta Taylor Leave a Comment

The GT Weekend! ~ She, Week 2

Marietta Taylor

November 11, 2023

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Rest your soul through reflective journaling,
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Pray His Words Back To Him!

Psalm 34:11-14

“Come, children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the LORD. Who is someone who desires life, loving a long life to enjoy what is good?

Keep your tongue from evil and your lips from deceitful speech. Turn away from evil and do what is good; seek peace and pursue it.”
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Prayer Journal Entry

We all have many roles. But, Lord God, for every role I have, I want to use it to point others to You.

All of my actions and words should make others want to know You more fully. Thank you for the many ways I am allowed to show my faith in and love for You. When I fall short, let the grace You extend be evident to those around me so they know You are loving and good.

May I speak of that grace as well. I pray I will be a good representative for Your glory, no matter my role

Worship Through Song

Journal Prompts

JOURNAL ONE

When we think of teaching, we often think of a teacher in a classroom. On Monday, Sara stretched our thinking to consider an expanded role to include those we interact with and those who observe us. We are all teachers!

On Tuesday we studied the importance of holy living. If we are always teaching, then it makes sense we should live holy lives. We are able to do this by the same grace and faith that saved us. Jesus saved us from sinful living and has made us people who want to do good works and live holy.

Sara had some great questions to journal for this weekend and beyond. Am I patient and kind or easily frustrated? Am I humble and own my actions, or do I rationalize my behavior and blame others? Do I show diligence or resignation? Am I relying on God or myself?

Choose one or more of the Journey Studies from the “Another” theme and journal how it connects to one the roles you fulfill.

JOURNAL TWO

On Wednesday, we considered together the answer to the question, “Who is my neighbor?”. Your neighbor isn’t just one who lives close to you. God actually tells us to love others in 1 John 4:21 “And we have this command from Him: The one who loves God must also love his brother and sister.”

Make a list of five “Shes” who are your neighbors based on the definition we explored on Wednesday. Journal ways you can love each of them, then go do them!

Thursday’s Digging Deeper walked us through Galatians 5:14, where we discovered the overriding concept is this: Loving God and loving others. Dr. Leslie reminds us that “others” also includes our enemies, and enemies are also neighbors!

Write a prayer asking God to help you love your enemies. If you cannot think of an enemy, pray about someone who rubs you raw like sandpaper.

Finally, check out this Journey Study on Prayer and forgiveness because, if we are praying about enemies or sandpaper people, we need to consider forgiveness as a loving act!

JOURNAL THREE

Ah, the relationship of sisters. It could be a good relationship or a not so great one. On Friday, we considered some sister accounts from the Bible, namely Rachel and Leah and then Mary and Martha. Carol also reminded us we have a large number of sisters as daughters of God. She encourages us to “lean into repentance, forgiveness, mercy, and grace” in our relationship with all our sisters.

Rachel Jones helped us Dig Deeper into Luke 10:38-42, which is Mary and Martha’s story. The takeaway from this, especially in relation to being a sister, is we need to listen to and learn from Jesus in order to do the things we’re called to do. To be a good sister, especially a sister in Christ, we need Jesus to instruct and direct us, which requires us to sit consistently at His feet with a readiness to learn.

Review Luke 10:38-42 for yourself and make your own notes as you read. Journal practical ways you can be more like Mary. Read some of the stories from Sketched VI as an extra challenge and encouragement.

Which ones do you connect with the most? Pray for those sisters in Christ, then write a prayer asking God to help you be a better sister in Christ.
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She Day 10 Sisters In Christ: Digging Deeper

November 10, 2023 by Rachel Jones Leave a Comment

She Day 10 Sisters In Christ: Digging Deeper

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November 10, 2023

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Luke 10:38-42

38 While they were traveling, he entered a village, and a woman named Martha welcomed him into her home. 39 She had a sister named Mary, who also sat at the Lord’s feet and was listening to what he said.

40 But Martha was distracted by her many tasks, and she came up and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to serve alone? So tell her to give me a hand.” 41 The Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and upset about many things, 42 but one thing is necessary. Mary has made the right choice, and it will not be taken away from her.”
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The Original Intent

1) Why was Martha so distracted by the guests and Mary so eager to listen? (verses 39-40)

In Luke 10:39-40, Jesus’ friend, Mary, “sat at the Lord’s feet and was listening to what He said. But Martha was distracted by her many tasks, and she came up and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to serve alone?’” Martha, with love and good intentions, allowed the tyranny of the urgent distract her from seeking a place at the Lords feet. While men were expected to sit at Jesus’ feet and learn, managing the household was a woman’s job in Biblical times. (Proverbs 31:27)

It would be a daunting task, especially when crowds of people turned up at your house to hear Jesus. Mary’s choice to learn from Jesus with the men rather than working alongside Martha was as astounding to Martha as it assuredly was to the men gathered there that day. Rather than realizing she should follow Mary’s lead, Martha could only resent that all of the work fell to her.

Grace Valentine notes that “Martha may have been the one who was being productive, but she was missing out on her purpose . . . You only have one purpose, and it is Jesus. . . Jesus doesn’t want your schedule, your hustle or your good deeds. Jesus wants YOU.”

Martha could not see past the important tasks and needs of the day to discover what Mary saw, which was the invitation of Jesus to be filled with every good thing through His love. (Ephesians 3:19) Cynthia Heald suggests, “the sitting is a prerequisite to knowing the serving that is God-directed, that furthers His Kingdom, and that is right for [you].”

Mary understood that listening and learning from Jesus would prepare her for the service He had laid out for her.

The Everyday Application

1) Why was Martha so distracted by the guests and Mary so eager to listen? (verses 39-40)

In high school, my sister, our friend and I were assigned to write and perform a skit, including preparing historical recipes for our classmates. We underestimated the food service time, so my friend and I ad-libbed while my sister served the tiny crowd.

She kept beckoning us for help, but we were focused on our impromptu dialogue (“Such excellent corn, my dear! etc) She wanted us to stop the play to help her serve, but we knew the show must go on! We were having our own Mary & Martha moment right there in the school gymnasium.

In Luke 10: 39-40, Jesus visits Lazarus, Martha and Mary. Mary “sat at the Lord’s feet and was listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by her many tasks, and she came up and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to serve alone?’” I think we have all felt like Martha at some point, distracted by our tasks and exasperated by ministering to others at the expense of having our own needs met.

The good news is that Jesus does not call us to service without equipping us and preparing us by His grace and by time in His presence. (1 Corinthians 15:10) Denisse Copeland asserts, “Christ wasn’t exalting Mary above her sister (or any of us). Rather, He was inviting Martha to be at peace. Mary had chosen peace in that moment, but Jesus wasn’t encouraging Martha to competitive comparison. He was inviting her to observe an example and follow.”

Jesus wants everyone to experience what Mary found. He appreciated Martha’s service, but He cared more about her heart and spending time with her, which was intended to fuel her service.

The Original Intent

2) What was the necessary thing that Mary chose? (verses 41-42)

When Martha complained to Jesus that her sister wasn’t helping her with her hosting duties, “The Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and upset about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has made the right choice, and it will not be taken away from her.” (Luke 10:41-42)  

Jesus pointed out that spending time in His presence was the only necessary thing on Martha’s pressing to-do list. (1 John 1:3) Jesus was not rebuking Martha as much as showing her a better way. Pastor Robert Morris notes, “In Biblical language, when you use a person’s name twice, it’s compassion…like saying ‘I understand how you feel’”.

In repeating Martha’s name, Jesus was telling her that her concerns were important to Him, but not more important than letting Him teach and lead her. Mary chose the necessary thing, to sit at the feet of Jesus to listen, learn, and adore. (Psalm 27:4) She probably knew her sister had other expectations for her that day, but the presence of God in her midst drew her to His feet to hear and ponder His teachings.

David Guzik suggests “There are people like Mary: Those who know how to serve and also sit at Jesus’ feet. There are people like Martha: Those who diligently, and with the best intention serve God, but without adding the one thing – a continued focus on Jesus – and it results in great frustration.” That relationship with Jesus was what Mary chose and what Jesus offered to Martha. He promised that once she learned His ways and aligned hers with His, everything else would fall into place. (Matthew 6:33)

The Everyday Application

2) What was the necessary thing that Mary chose? (verses 41-42)

My friend loved to go fishing with his dad when he was a kid, but it was a rare treat. One summer, he begged to go fishing until his busy dad finally gave in and drove him several hours to their favorite fishing hole. Once they got there, though, his Dad couldn’t take his mind off of his responsibilities and didn’t even put a hook in the water. “You have fun fishing,” he told his son, “but I can’t enjoy it with so much on my mind.”

His Dad was so preoccupied that he couldn’t concentrate on the reason he drove hours away from home—to spend time with his son. His Dad was anxious like Martha in the Bible, whom the Lord told, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and upset about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has made the right choice, and it will not be taken away from her.” (Luke 10:41-42)

Martha’s sister, Mary, chose to give her time and attention to the Lord, but Martha let her worries and responsibilities keep her from focusing on God in her midst. Jesus let Martha know that He wanted her to spend time with Him, too. Pastor Robert Morris contends, “Every time stress and tension come into your life, you have a choice whether to get quiet or get busy.”

Jesus wanted Martha to come to Him when she felt worried and experience His peace instead of trying to cover the anxiety with busyness. (Ephesians 2:17) Jesus wanted Martha to know He could take care of everything she was worried about. (Philippians 4:6-7)

All she needed to do was seek Him and receive from Him. God has work for all of us to do, but not in our own strength and never alone. (Ephesians 6:10)

The Original Intent

3) Why did Jesus say Mary’s choice would not be taken away from her? (verse 42)

When Jesus described how Martha was worried, but Mary had chosen the one necessary thing, He said, “Mary has made the right choice, and it will not be taken away from her.” (Luke 10:42) He may have been referencing women having access to religious instruction.

It was highly uncommon for women to be taught alongside men, or even at all, in ancient cultures, but Jesus said women were just as welcome to learn at His feet as men. Indeed, many of His traveling entourage were women. (Luke 8:1-3) Christine Caine points out that in 1st century Israel, women “were second-class citizens at best . . . Women had few rights inside the home and practically none outside of it. They were not counted as members during a synagogue count, and received little or no religious education, except from their husband if he so desired.”

When Mary recognized that the most important thing was to sit learning and worshipping at Jesus’ feet, Jesus welcomed her into His presence. He did not banish her from the room or limit her to access to Him. He allowed her to sit at His feet, and He invited Martha to do the same.

Adam Clarke notes, “This was the posture of the Jewish scholars, while listening to the instructions of the [rabbis.] It is in this sense that St. Paul says he was brought up at the FEET of Gamaliel, Acts 22:3”. The Good News of Jesus is that He invites everyone, male and female, to learn from Him and accept His love. (Acts 10:34) Jesus welcomed Mary, invited Martha, and beckons us today to sit at His feet and become more like Him. (2 Corinthians 3:18)

The Everyday Application

3) Why did Jesus say Mary’s choice would not be taken away from her? (verse 42)

The story of Eric Liddell, Scottish missionary to China, is fascinating, particularly his participation in the 1924 Paris Olympics as a track and field athlete for Great Britain (depicted in the film Chariots of Fire).

Liddell did not believe it was right to work (or run) on the Sabbath, so he chose to forego a race held on a Sunday, though it would end his Olympic bid. A team mate offered to switch races with him, allowing him to run another day of the week and win a gold medal for Great Britain, bringing glory to God through his victory.

It was almost as if God was saying about Eric Liddell what he said about Mary in Luke 10:42 when she chose to focus on God by sitting at His feet, “Mary has made the right choice, and it will not be taken away from her.” (Luke 10:42) God is well-pleased when we spend time with Him (John 15:4), allowing Him to teach us and provide for us. He desires and delights in our obedience (John 14:15) and our worship (Psalm 150:6).

John Piper says, “Mary was more enthralled with Jesus than with Mary. She cared more about what Jesus said than what others thought of her or her home. And because of this, Jesus commended her choice not to serve.” When we choose to follow in His ways, God honors that decision because He is a rewarder of those who seek Him. (Hebrews 11:6)

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Both pairs of sisters show us their humanity and allow us ours, as well. I love that these women in the Bible are real people, experiencing many of the same emotional and relational triumphs and struggles as we do today.

There is a bond in being a sister, transcending time and culture. As believers, we are daughters of God and therefore sisters in Christ.
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She Day 9 Is She My Neighbor?: Digging Deeper

November 9, 2023 by Dr. Leslie Umstattd Leave a Comment

She Day 9 Is She My Neighbor?: Digging Deeper

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November 9, 2023

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Galatians 5:14

“For the entire law is fulfilled in one statement: Love your neighbor as yourself.”
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The Original Intent

1) What law is Paul referring to in this verse?

Paul is the author of the letter to the Galatians under the empowerment of the Holy Spirit. In this verse, Paul is referring to the Old Testament Law given to Moses by God to give to the people of Israel.

The Law was given by God to provide boundaries, examples, and directions on how best to follow Him and obey Him. In Exodus 19-31, Moses and the Israelites receive instructions on how to honor God in their everyday life. The Law was the standard practice of behavior to pursue holiness and live rightly before the Lord; it required a yearly sacrifice for sin atonement, plus keeping the law, and following the feasts and festivals.

These laws were put in place by God, prior to Jesus being sent, as a way for people to follow God and for God to be in relationship with His people.

The Everyday Application

1) What law is Paul referring to in this verse?

The Law described the standard practice of those who believed in God. When Christ came the Law was fulfilled to completion. (Matthew 5:17) Jesus explained how every possible thought, word, or deed we could imagine for pleasing God comes down to two connected things: Loving God and loving others. (Mark 12:28-34)

As women, we have the power of the Holy Spirit to love well and use our freedom in Christ as an opportunity to serve one another. (Galatians 5:13)

Paul challenged the Galatians, and he challenges us today, as we read this letter, to have confidence in our relationship and identity in Christ and to live in the power of the Holy Spirit. The Spirit produces “the fruit of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” (Galatians 5:22-23)

This fruit in our life pours out in tangible ways such as taking a meal to a friend, having patience with our kids as they test boundaries, returning hateful words with gentleness and a pursuit of peace, and allowing joy to permeate everything we do.

The Original Intent

2) How did Jesus change our perspective of the law?

Prior to Christ, the Law was the way God’s people followed Him. When Christ came, Jesus fulfilled every part of the law and provided a new covenant for those who desired to follow God. (Matthew 26:28) He was the fulfilled way to access a relationship with God as He perfectly fulfilled the Law on our behalf. (John 14:6-7)

In Romans 8:1-4, another letter Paul wrote, he tells us the Law was based on flesh (human weakness because of sin) and there was a need for continual sin offering because humanity could never keep the law perfectly because of their sinfulness. (Romans 7:5) Every year, the Jewish High Priest was required by the Law to make an offering before God for the sin of humanity, but when Christ came, His death on the cross and His resurrection, did away with the need for a sin sacrifice.

Jesus became the sin sacrifice for us! (2 Corinthians 5:21) Jesus fulfilled every part of the law in full and also made right all of the wrongness of sinful humanity for all eternity. (Matthew 5:17) He did not do away with the Law but fulfilled it in every way, which means we have eternal freedom if we are in Christ. (Romans 5:1-11)

In our freedom and through the Holy Spirit, God transforms who we are by adopting us and placing His Spirit in us (Romans 8:12-17); because He loves us and forgives us, we can, in turn, love others as He does. (1 John 4:19)

The Everyday Application

2) How did Jesus change our perspective of the law?

Jesus approached the Jewish leaders of His day wanting them to see beyond just the “letter of the Law” to the heart behind the Law. (Matthew 15:1-9)

Jesus changed the filter through which we operate as believers.

It is no longer a set of rules to be followed, but a heart transformation through the power of the Holy Spirit that prompts us to love God and others by going above and beyond in the name of the Lord. In Him, we can go the extra mile, we can turn the other cheek, and we can pray for those who persecute us. (Matthew 5:38-44)

As neighbors, we seek out the unreachable, the downcast and, as the Spirit prompts, live open-handed lives for the purpose of intentionally loving and serving others as ambassadors for Christ who bear His Name. (2 Corinthians 5:20)

The Original Intent

3) Who are the neighbors that Paul is describing?

In this verse, Paul is referring to more than the person who technically lives next door to your house. Although, traditionally, we would define our neighbor in a proximity sense, the Bible pushes beyond our borders to include everyone under the definition of “neighbor”.

From our new filter of living called Jesus’ Love, we are called to demonstrate this love to all people, regardless of how well they love us in return. In Romans 13:8-10, Paul defines what it means to love your neighbor as doing no wrong toward them and loving your neighbor as yourself.

Jesus, in Matthew 5:43-48, clarifies in detail that loving your neighbor goes beyond loving the lovable, it also includes your enemies.

The Everyday Application

3) Who are the neighbors that Paul is describing?

One of my absolute favorite stories in all of the Bible is the encounter Jesus has with the Samaritan Woman. (John 4) In this case, the regions of Samaria, Galilee, and Judea were all literal neighbors butting right up next to one another like puzzle pieces.

Yet, the Jewish people of the day spent extra days in hotter, more mountainous regions, traveling between the three regions because Jews and Samaritans detested one another. The reviling hatred these two ethnicities carried toward one another is likely the strongest racial prejudice we encounter in the Bible.

If a Jew was traveling from Judea to Galilee or vice versa, they would physically take a harder route in order to go around Samaria. I tell you this because it is a perfect example of how Jesus changed everything. Jesus didn’t go around the reviled and unlovable. We see in John 4, He went through and, not only that, He stayed in Samaria and many came to believe because of it. (John 4:39-41)

When we talk about who our neighbors are, and the role we play in their life, Jesus is our example. He disregarded the man-made laws of the day and prejudiced attitudes to intentionally go out of His way to bring life and light to his neighbor, a Samaritan woman.

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In his human-ness do you think it was easy for Jesus to be persecuted during His ministry and then willing give His life for us so He could be resurrected for our salvation?

Reading the record of His prayer in the Garden of Gethsemane, I think not.

His was the greatest and most extravagant sacrifice. One we certainly do not deserve, but He gave it anyway.
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She Day 8 Is She My Neighbor?

November 8, 2023 by Marietta Taylor Leave a Comment

She Day 8 Is She My Neighbor?

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Proverbs 3:27-35
Matthew 22:34-40
Matthew 25:31-46
1 John 4:7-21

 “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind,” and “your neighbor as yourself.” (Luke 10:27)

Jesus, in Matthew 22:37-40, states that these are the two greatest commandments. All other teachings, laws, and regulations could be neatly summed up into these two commands. Simple, right? Yes, unless you are trying to wiggle your way out of it and then you ask:

“And who is my neighbor?” (Luke 10:29)

SHE is your neighbor and my neighbor. The woman across the street I wave at but never move the conversation past “hello”. The young mother you see struggling with her toddlers in the church parking lot each week, but you offer nothing more than a kind “I remember those days” smile as you rush to get to your seat. The clerk at the grocery store who smiles at everyone though I know she’s having terrible back pain lately because she shared it with me last week. The difficult co-worker who is like sandpaper to you but is going through a rough patch and could use an ear or a shoulder and you let her know you’re there for her. They are all our neighbor.

There is a verse that tells us to not just hear God’s instructions, but also do what the Word says. (James 1:22) So let’s see what God says about being a SHE and a neighbor. Proverbs 3:27-35 offers good instruction, which, if we followed it, what good neighbors we would be and have.

  • Don’t withhold good from others (verse 27)
  • Help your neighbor now if you can. Why wait? (verse 28)
  • Don’t do harm to your neighbor (verse 29)
  • Don’t tell lies about your neighbor (verse 30)
  • Don’t envy those doing ungodly things (verse 31-32)

The end result of this obedience?

“He mocks those who mock but gives grace to the humble. The wise will inherit honor, but He holds up fools to dishonor.” (Proverbs 3:34-35, emphasis mine)

Elsewhere in the Word we see other instructions such as, if you are kind to your neighbor, you will be happy (Proverbs 14:21) and “ Love does no wrong to a neighbor. Love, therefore, is the fulfillment of the law.” (Romans 13:10) 

Jeremiah 29:7 talks about pursuing the well-being of your city, “Pray to the Lord on its behalf, for when it thrives, you will thrive.” We can apply that wisdom to our neighborhood and places of employment. Neighbors are all around us.

In fact, Jesus talks about them in Matthew 25:31-46. While this passage is written about Jesus’ return, it also speaks to how we should conduct ourselves as Christians in relation to others. The “goats” saw others in need and did not help, even if it would have been easy to do so. The “sheep” helped others, even when it cost them something. (if you’re confused by “sheep” and “goats”, go read #HisWordsBeforeMine in Matthew!)

What I love about this parable is how personal Jesus makes it. To the sheep he says, “Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of Mine, you did for Me”. (Matthew 25:40) To the goats He says, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for Me.” (Matthew 25:45) How each group responded to their neighbors, was a reflection of how they lived out their faith. Jesus counted kindness toward others as kindness toward Himself and indifference to others as an offense to Him.

There are other passages as well. Spend a little time reading and praying over these:

Proverbs 19:17, Proverbs 27:10, Proverbs 17:17, Galatians 5:14, 1 Peter 4:9-11, 1 Corinthians 10:24, and Ephesians 4:25.

We see throughout Scripture how we should operate with God’s wisdom. And wouldn’t you know, in the Bible, wisdom is personified as a woman. This should make it easier to apply that wisdom to every She we encounter. She, Wisdom, issues many warnings about the consequences of ignoring her, but she ends her beseeching with, “But whoever listens to me will live securely and be undisturbed by the dread of danger.” (Proverbs 1:33)

The one binding thread you notice in all instruction about neighbors is one word. Love.  I think 1 John 4:7-21 best speaks to why this is true. Let’s walk through it, Neighbor.

“Dear friends, let us love one another, because love is from God, and everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God” (1 John 4:7) 

“Love consists in this: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins” (1 John 4:10)

“No one has ever seen God. If we love one another, God remains in us and His love is made complete in us.” (1 John 4:12)

 “God is love, and the one who remains in love remains in God, and God remains in Him.” (1 John 4:16)

“And we have this command from Him: The one who loves God must also love his brother and sister.” (1 John 4:21)

In his human-ness do you think it was easy for Jesus to be persecuted during His ministry and then willing give His life for us so He could be resurrected for our salvation? Reading the record of His prayer in the Garden of Gethsemane, I think not. His was the greatest and most extravagant sacrifice. One we certainly do not deserve, but He gave it anyway.

How can we then, choose not love our neighbor, whether it’s easy or hard? How can we not do our best for whoever the She is that God places in our path? Sisters, Neighbors, if you love God, then love your neighbor. Pour out God’s love on her in whatever way you can. And if she doesn’t yet know Jesus, pray your actions will lead her to be a She for Jesus through your faithful “doing” of the Word.

Is She my neighbor? Absolutely yes. Now go love her in Jesus’ name.

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