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Pause VI Day 15 Greet With Grace

January 20, 2023 by Melodye Reeves Leave a Comment

Pause VI Day 15 Greet With Grace

Melodye Reeves

January 20, 2023

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Read His Words Before Ours!

Philippians 4:21-23

21 Greet every saint in Christ Jesus. The brothers who are with me send you greetings. 22 All the saints send you greetings, especially those who belong to Caesar’s household. 23 The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.

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Greet every saint in Christ Jesus … all the saints send you greetings! (Philippians 4:21-22)

Paul’s gospel is all-inclusive! Don’t you love that, sister? I just cannot ignore the intentionality of his mentions.

Emily Post was famous for writing about etiquette. She influenced the nation for years regarding what is proper, especially in writing. The apostle Paul was teaching us long before anyone knew of Emily Post. His letters included all the things that “the best letters” should. Under the influence of the Spirit: 1) Paul mixed the good with bad news, 2) he responded to questions asked or news shared in a previous letter, and 3) he always considered the recipients. (emilypost.com)

Post reminded her audience that good letter-writing included a positive salutation (greeting) and an encouraging closing (goodbye) in which the reader could relate. Paul did just that.

I heard someone say the gospel is not exclusive, but it is specific. And Paul was a master at making sure the reader understood this truth. I don’t know anyone who can preach a more concise gospel sermon in a simple greeting or goodbye. Paul is the GOAT for sure, and writing a good letter wasn’t even his goal!

Paul and Timothy, servants of Christ Jesus, to all the saints in Christ Jesus who are in Philippi, including the overseers and deacons. Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. (Philippians 1:1-2)

The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. (Philippians 4:23)

When I read the letter to the Philippians it brings me such comfort. Even now, thousands of years after he wrote it and his original audience read it, Paul’s writing is relevant to us. Why? Because the grace of God is timeless, and it’s inclusive.

Sister, as believers, we are included in this marvelous grace of the Lord Jesus.

Grace and peace were offered to the Philippians. Grace and peace are offered to me. Grace and peace are offered to you.

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Receive this greeting into your souls this very day.

Today's Pause Challenge

1) Read Philippians 4:21-23 out loud twice. Explore deeper by studying some cross-references of the authenticity of Scripture. (Here are some references regarding the reliability of the letters of the apostles: 1 Corinthians 14:35, 1 Thessalonians 2:13, Romans 16:25-26, 2 Timothy 3:16, 2 Peter 1:20-21, 2 Peter 3:15-16)

2) Here is our last hand-crafted Spotify playlist for Pause VI!
Put this playlist on repeat this weekend and be reminded of the rich truths God has shown you this week in Pause VI! Rehearse the goodness and grace of God. Let your worship be an act of joy and thankfulness before your God!

3)
Memorize Philippians 4:4-5

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The GT Weekend! ~ Open Week 3

August 17, 2019 by Rebecca Adams Leave a Comment

The GT Weekend!

At Gracefully Truthful, weekends aren’t for “checking out”.
Use this time to invite the Almighty’s fullness into you life in a deeper way!
Saturdays and Sundays are a chance to
reflect, rest, and re-center our lives onto Christ.
Don’t miss the opportunity to connect with other women in prayer,
rest your soul in reflective journaling,
and spend time worshiping the Creator who
longs for intimacy with each of us!

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1)  We all have ugly, difficult, frustrating places and scenarios playing out in our everyday lives, no matter how much we wish otherwise. What are yours? The annoying person you can’t seem to avoid, the coworker driving you insane, the family member who just does not get it, or even more deeply, the people who have hurt you, who continue throwing jabs, who choose to keep dragging you through the mud. Who are these for you? These are your messy places. And Jesus wants to bring hope to every person involved, infusing love and grace like we’ve never known to each circumstance. What if we were conduits for such love? Suppose we were exactly who Jesus wanted to use to expand His kingdom in these messy places. Are we willing to allow that?

2)  “There isn’t a person on earth who is unworthy of hearing the message of Jesus.” Yes? Maybe? It’s easy to read aloud or mentally agree with, isn’t it? Of course that statement is true! But, is that how we live? If it’s actually true, how far are we willing to go to share that message? Will we give generously? Will we keep on giving, even when we receive nothing, not even an honorable mention? As you survey the treasures you have around you in your home, your car, your bank account, or even your afternoon, begin seeing these as opportunities to build God’s Kingdom through generosity. Pray over these, asking the Lord to show you how to steward what you’ve been blessed with!

3)  The Land of Offense…we’ve all taken up residency here at various points in our lives. Betrayal. Hurtful words. Neglect. Manipulation. Abandonment. What drives you away to this place of offended and hurt? Go ahead and name the ones that are your most recent experiences with offense. Give yourself permission to feel that hurt and to know that the Lord God sees you and understands your feelings, the wound, the hurt, and wants to free you from it. We can exact no retribution on another that would slay them more deeply than an offering of love and forgiveness (with appropriate boundaries where necessary). This is not a love we can manufacture, but flows from the Spirit’s love inside of us. What would it look like to surrender your right to live in the Land of Offense and choose love instead?

Praying Scripture back to the One who wrote it in the first place is a great way to jump start our prayer-life! Pray this passage from 1 Corinthians 10:32-11:1 back to the Lord and
let His Spirit speak to you through it!

Give no offense to Jews or Greeks or the church of God, just as I also try to please everyone in everything, not seeking my own benefit, but the benefit of many, so that they may be saved. Imitate me, as I also imitate Christ.

Prayer Journal
Never do we see our own sin more clearly when we cast but a glance at Your glory and flawless love. Our offenses against You, a Holy and Righteous God, are as innumerable as the sand on the shores. Yet, You choose love over offense. You choose to generously give us Your righteousness when we have nothing to offer but our sin-wrecked selves. You give of Yourself freely to all regardless of any pre-requisite if we just trust You to be who You say You are. Lord, as You continuously treat us with such open generous love in every moment of waking or sleeping, urge us forward to treat others like this as well. Love the world through us, Abba!

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Misunderstood Day 11 Cleanliness Is Next To Godliness

May 21, 2018 by Kendra Kuntz Leave a Comment

Read His Words Before Ours!

Luke 10:38-42
Matthew 25:35-46
Hebrews 13:1-2  

Misunderstood, Day 11

“I have a gift for your girls! Are you home?” 
“Yes! Come over any time.” 
“Wonderful. I’ll be there soon. And Kendra? Do not clean a thing!”  

I sighed with relief as I looked around at my lived-in home. There was always laundry to be done, diapers I forgot to throw away lying around, and toys scattered about. It used to bother me much more, but when company comes over my stomach still turns a bit when they see… 
This is what my “real life” actually looks like.  

 That sweet friend came, armed with presents for my girls, and conversation about her days of young motherhood. With her son in college, her days of picking up toys are long gone.  

As I showed her my twin toddlers’ infamously messy room, with books and dolls strewn about, she laughed and told me something I will remember for the rest of my life. 
My friend is known for her immaculate house.
Her Christmas presents are wrapped in October with large, gold bows tied with precision.
So, I was stunned to hear her tell me this.  

“Kendra, if I had it to do over again,
I would spend less time worrying about how clean my house was,
and more time with the people who came to visit.
I can see now that I may have made family members and friends uncomfortable with my constant running around and picking up.
I wish I hadn’t cared so much about how clean my son’s room was.
I wish I would have just spent more time playing with him.”  

I smiled as I let her words run over me,
knowing I would return later to process what she’d shared.  

I began to think of Martha and Mary, the sister duo who welcomed Jesus into their home when He came to visit.  

Imagine that! 
Imagine Jesus literally knocking on your door.
What would you do?!  

I would probably pass out, which is totally biblical so that reaction would be justified. 🙂
Then, I would honestly welcome Him in,
while apologizing for my house being such a mess. 
I would excuse the clothes in the foyer, still needing to go into storage.
I would laugh off the toys on the stairs.
I would explain how I still needed to paint the top of the wainscoting we added.
Then I would invite Him to sit on my couch, while laughing about the fact that I was actually going to clean the cover tonight, so that’s why it was dirty.  

How do I know how I would respond? 
Because that is literally what I say any time anyone comes over. 
But sisters… Jesus doesn’t even care!  

How do I know?
Martha’s story. She began serving Jesus as soon as He stepped in the door.
Which sounds totally acceptable!
Except… she spent so much time serving Him, she wasn’t actually being with Him.

She offered Him coffee (Or chai or whatever they drank… Wine?)
She asked Him if He was hungry.
She swept up after Him, hurriedly cleaning,
and getting herself in a tizzy.
Soon, as it usually does, that tizzy turned into frustration. 
“Jesus! Don’t you care that I’m working so hard to make You comfortable? 
I’m working hard and Mary just sits there!”  

Jesus turned compassionate eyes on her, telling her she was getting herself in a tizzy.
He said she was anxious and worried and frantic and none of it even mattered.
He just wanted her to sit and to be.
THAT was her best service.  

There’s an age-old saying (which, incidentally, is not in the Bible!), that became popular thanks   to Martin Luther:
“Cleanliness is next to Godliness.”  

But is it?  

A pure heart, washed in forgiveness by the God of all righteousness?
Absolutely; that IS godliness!  

Having a clean home? Being a clean person?
Not. A. Chance. 

Honestly? Jesus was probably a pretty filthy man, physically speaking.
Barely bathing and walking everywhere, mixing sweat with dust will do that to a person.
(And you can’t get more Godly than Jesus because He IS God…so…) 

I digress… 

Having a clean home says nothing about your godliness.
Only the status of your soul determines that.
We will NOT get to Heaven and be drilled for those seven loads of laundry we didn’t do.
God will not ask why we didn’t put away that bin of clothes before our guest arrived.  

Instead, His Spirit is ready to prompt us now, just as He did with Martha….
Why are we spending so much time cleaning, serving, running, and doing
that we have a hard time slowing enough to listen to our guest?
Why not take the time to pray with them or show them HOPE?
Why work ourselves into an anxious tizzy (I’m clearly loving that word today)
by expecting perfection in our own appearance,
when the Lord has always cared only about the contents of our heart. 
God cares about our hospitality, NOT our house. 
Whether brick and mortar or skin and bones. 

I am so guilty of this, guys!
If Jesus came today, I would be Martha.
Trying to prove my worth by the appearance of my home and my ability to serve Him.
I would completely miss the opportunity to actually be enthralled with Him.  

Cleanliness is NOT next to Godliness. 
Cleanliness can get in the way of Godliness. 

The need to clean, the urge to perform, it can fill our minds, consuming our actions,
even becoming our idol. 
And that isn’t godly at all.

Don’t let pressure and performance hinder you 
from investing in people and being at peace with Jesus.  

*In my struggle to spend more time with people rather than focus on performance, I’ve found the app “The Fly Lady” to be a helpful reset. Give it a try! 

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Palette Day 15 Courageous Colors

October 20, 2017 by Sara Colquhoun Leave a Comment

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Genesis 1:27
Romans 12:2
2 Corinthians 5:11-21
Galatians 3:28 

I’ve started and stopped the closing of this journey study multiple times over the last few weeks. Each time I began I felt pulled in a different direction and it wasn’t until I heard a sermon a few days ago, that spoke on this subject so beautifully, that it finally allowed the words to flow freely from my keyboard.

In November of 1954, in Montgomery, Alabama, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. delivered a sermon entitled “Transformed Nonconformist.” He preached this shortly after being installed as the church’s twentieth pastor, and would frequent this sermon often, as part of his traveling ministry. His sermon, as evidence by the title, dealt a great deal with Romans 12:2, but it also began to challenge racism within the church.

He shares that as Christians, we are citizens of Heaven, thrown out in the midst of an unchristian world, sent to love one another until the fullness of the Lord’s return.

Mothers.
Fathers.
Daughters.
Sons.
Sisters.
Brothers.
Wives.
Husbands.
Red.
Yellow.
Black.
White.
We.

Through this calling, we are sent to be ones that create an atmosphere of change. He gives the example of a thermostat and a thermometer. Thermometers, those who conform to the world, simply read the temperature, whereas thermostats, create an atmospheric change.

We, as Christians, should strive to change the temperature of our society. When we choose to live outside of the Gospel, we are refusing, by the sin of omission, to stand up for the rights of all mankind at the expense of our own comfort. Yet when we grasp the authority that the gospel welcomes everyone, no matter their race, we can look up and see the beauty, the diversity, in our world and welcome it into our home with open arms.

Dr. King states, “I have seen many white people who sincerely oppose segregation and discrimination, but they never took a real stand against it because of fear of standing alone.”

Can we jump back in time to Queen Esther for a moment?

When Haman realized that Mordecai did not bow down or pay homage, he made it his mission to destroy all the Jews. When Esther heard the Decree of Susa that was written by Haman, Mordecai warned her, “For if you keep silent at this time, relief and deliverance will rise for the Jews from another place, but you and your father’s house will perish. And who knows whether you have come to the kingdom for such a time as this?”

What if Esther’s story stopped there?
What if she accepted what Mordecai said as the only way?
What if she obeyed the law and did not approach the king?

The good news is that her story, along with the Jew’s did not stop there. She humbly went before the king, risking death, and asked for him to revoke the decree.

Queen Esther was just one person.
I, am just one person.

And while I am not going before a king to beg for my people’s life,
I am a friend of those that are different than me.
On their behalf, I’m asking for color bravery from all those reading this.

May we no longer use the words color blind, for the blindness in this phrase has been used as a way of ignoring the problem. But color bravery, as Mellody Hobson states, empowers us to be comfortable with the uncomfortable conversation about race.

We touched on this a couple weeks ago, how Paul wrote in Galatians 3:28, “There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”

There is no room for racism when we are all ONE in Christ!

Let this Journey Study be a catalyst for you to start asking yourself the hard questions.
Am I being intentional in my diverse friend group to love them well?
To walk in their shoes?
To ask them what it is like living day-to-day?
Am I going out of my way to teach my children about the beauty in every person that surrounds them?

It’s okay if you answered no to those questions.
The good news is that we are creating a safe place right here for you to change them to a yes.
So, keep your head held high sister!
We’re all in this together!
“After this I looked, and behold,
A great multitude that no one could number,
from every nation, from all tribes, and peoples,
and languages, standing before the throne and the Lamb,
clothed in white robes, with palm branches in their hands….”


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Palette Day 11 One Step Of Bravery

October 16, 2017 by Rebecca Adams Leave a Comment

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Psalm 141
1 John 4:13-21
1 John 2:7-11

Lord
, set up a guard for my mouth;
keep watch at the door of my lips.
Do not let my heart turn to any evil thing
or perform wicked acts
with men who commit sin.
Do not let me feast on their delicacies.

Psalm 141:3-5

In the last few months, memorizing Scripture has moved from “something I should do” to “something I love to eagerly do”. My husband graciously puts up with neon-colored index cards plastered all over the shower door so I can put the verses to memory while I shave and shampoo. I’ve been floored with how effective it is!

But these verses tied me up! I simply could not get my tongue wrapped around the right words at the right time. I was ready to just choose another set of verses to avoid frustration, but I’m too stubborn (or prideful perhaps) for that.
One sentence at a time.
I insistently said the words over and over and over.
Literally 100’s of times.
Probably around recitation #247 I was slapped in the face with the obvious:
The heart is attributed as doing the actions.
Do not let my heart turn to any evil thing or perform wicked acts with men who commit sin.

The subject of the sentence didn’t change when the verb did.
David prayed that God would not let his heart turn to any evil thing or perform wicked acts.
It wasn’t his hands he prayed over,
or that his feet wouldn’t rush to do evil,
that he wouldn’t give the “evil eye” with body language or give it over to lusting.
It wasn’t even his mind that he prayed would flee sin.
David realized that it was his heart that committed sin first.

As racial injustice has grabbed my attention in deeper ways over the last few months, it’s become more blatantly obvious that this problem we obviously have (and is most definitely not isolated to one location of our country), is a heart problem.
Just like I couldn’t see the blaring point of my memory verse without repetition and an opening of my eyes to truth, I have needed to remind myself, repeatedly and often, that I am part of the problem when it comes to racial injustice in our country.
My silence is a problem.
My claim of ignorance is a problem.
When I choose to only have 1 race of friends, that’s a problem.
And it flies in the face of the gospel I claim to hold so dear.

I recently met with a beautiful friend of mine, Keshia. I asked her to help me see what was common place for her everyday life as a black woman that I’d never even considered as a white woman. Keshia shared two gripping, personal stories that she’s given me permission to share with you.

First, she told me of a black homeless man she’d met through her position as a social worker. She assisted with his care after he suffered a major stroke. For her as a social worker some days it’s hard not to pick up from others pain. And, for him the tears he shed and the fear in his eyes, was telling. After helping him secure a rehabilitation facility she continued to stay involved. She visited with him with hopes of helping him get to the surface of his hurt and to bring him hope. Going far above and beyond her job because of her love for people and Jesus. Her heart broke for this man. But, sisters, when she began to share of her faith to this gentleman and the undergirding why behind her compassion for him, he turned away.
He said, “You’re one of them.” (meaning a white person). “I don’t want their God.”
This man associated the Savior of the world,
the God for all nations,
as being a “white man’s God”.

The gospel is being held back, my precious friends, because of racism!

Souls are destined for an eternity apart from a Savior
because of a stigma that the Savior isn’t for all mankind.
This should make us weep!
It turned my stomach, hurt my heart, and made me long to know what I could do.

Then Keshia shared of a woman she had met.
Jenny an unfamilar face went to the altar for prayer. As Jenny headed back to her seat,  Keshia could see the tears in her eyes, and a hurting heart . The Holy Spirit prompted an action of reaching out and touching Jenny, holding her tight while speaking words of comfort. Keshia didn’t know her nor did she know her grievances with Christianity and the Lord.  Keshia knew she was hurting, and only wanted her to know that she was accepted and loved at PVC.  Jenny later at a QT gas station recognized Keshia immediately saying, “You hugged me at the church and told me everything would be okay”. Jenny officially introduced herself and thanked Keshia for the random hug and words of encouragement  at church. Jenny talked about how much that moment meant to her as it was one of the lowest points in her life. Since then Jenny had returned back to PV church. Jenny and Keshia has since made a connection and are now friends. Keshia had no idea that she had made an impact on Jenny’s life . One random hug at the church and a few encouraging words across racial borders, seemed like nothing at all, until they happened to cross paths again.
Stunned.
One step of bravery.
One embrace.
And Keshia broke down walls of fear for the sake of the gospel.

You can do the same, my sister.
So can I.

Fear resides on both sides of racial lines, but remember David’s words.
The heart is where we sin first.
The heart is where fear first grows roots.
Stand with me and fight against that fear, refuse to give it space in your heart any longer.

In the end, racial issues in our country, or anywhere in the world, are not about boundary lines, statues, historical perspective, or popularity of one group over another, it’s about the heart.
And for those who claim Jesus Christ as Lord, we are called to so much more in the arena of racial healing and overcoming fear with the love of Jesus inside us.
Will you join me and extend your hand, open your embrace, and dare to tear down the stereotype of Christianity and walls of fear for the sake of the lost?!

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Palette Day 5 The Father’s Masterpiece

October 6, 2017 by Merry Ohler Leave a Comment

Read His Words Before Ours!

Genesis 1: 26-28
Acts 17:26-31
Romans 10:5-13

“Are you changing your little black baby’s diaper?”

My eyes widened in shock and (let’s be real) horror as I heard my two year old’s voice ring out over the din of the church nursery. I spun around in time to see the woman stiffen as she bit her tongue, finish changing her infant and turn to walk away. I wasn’t close enough to hear if, or how, she responded, but he had already moved on and was playing with a toy truck a few feet away. At two, my son was learning his colors and he loved to share his newfound knowledge with everyone he met by assigning a color to anything that caught his eye – blocks, toys, books, cars, houses – and now, apparently, people. He spoke very clearly for his age, and although his question was completely innocent, it brought the racial tension into stark clarity in that moment.

Why in the world is this happening to me, I thought. That boy has never in his life heard anyone describe another person by the color of their skin! My stomach dropped as I fumbled for an apology that wouldn’t sound entirely awkward…while wondering if the apology itself would make an innocent situation awkward. I would rather choose the constant questions of a toddler in every public restroom known to mankind over this, any day of the week, I thought. Her eyes met mine for an instant as she passed by, and I could sense the ocean of distance between us.

My heart ached with conviction. In my worry over what she might think after my son’s (albeit innocent) comment, my thoughts had revolved only around how I might be perceived. I had given no thought to her own feelings. The reality of racial inequality that I so often read and heard about, but had never actually related to, came to life for me in that moment. Granted, the experience was mild compared to what could have been, but my heart ached as I considered her for a moment. I wondered how many other awkward moments she had been forced to push through. Perhaps the question or comment in those instances was innocent, perhaps not. I thought about our beautiful boys. Each created for a unique purpose. Each created in the image of the Father. Each an equally important, equally loved, equally vital part of the Master Storyteller’s intricate tale. The fact that anyone could think anything different made my stomach throb.

Racial inequality is the narrative we are fed by mainstream media and the current culture in America (shockingly more so than other countries), but by using the very title “racial inequality” we only serve to further the divide by reinforcing the belief that there are different races. In reality and by definition, all humans, regardless of creed or color, are of one race. Until Charles Darwin published On the Origin of Species By Means of Natural Selection or the Preservation of Favored Races in the Struggle for Life in 1859, this was a fact known and accepted by all. However, Darwin’s book asserted that different tribes or groups of people evolved and developed, both mentally and physically, at different rates, thus dividing mankind and re-defining race as unique groups of people with similar characteristics and evolutionary growth, rather than mankind as a whole.

So, where does that leave us as people of the cross? First, we must examine our hearts to discover if we believe truth or if we have bought into the lie that we are not all created in God’s image. If we believe that man was created in God’s image, we must believe that all people, regardless of skin tone or nationality, were created in God’s image.
We are one race.
One people.
One blood.

Throughout the Old and New Testament, it is apparent that God is indiscriminate when it comes to loving people. He loves and wants to save us all. Not “some of us.” Not “those with blond hair or brown eyes or size eight feet.” Not “those with muscles or slender bodies or darker skin tones.”

ALL. HE LOVES US ALL.
Jesus died to save us all.

Can we say that we are truly loving as He leads?
Without borders or reservations?
Are we drawing the people He sends us into life with us?
What would our world look like if we began to emulate His love for others boldly and without reservation?

Father, we love You. We believe that You made each of us in Your perfect image. Forgive us for our weakness. Help us to recognize when our heart posture encourages anything but love for one another. Help us to see the unique and valuable traits you placed in every one of us. Give us Your eyes, Your heart. Soften our hearts as we Journey through Palette and the real heart issues behind what we call racial injustice. Holy Spirit, convict us where we need to be convicted. We are Yours.

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Palette Day 3 Image Bearers

October 4, 2017 by Rebecca Adams Leave a Comment

Read His Words Before Ours!

Genesis 1:26-31
James 3:1-12
Psalm 139:13-16
1 John 4:14-16  

A couple of years ago, our community group was challenged to go beyond our comfort zone and engage with those who lived on the streets of Kansas City. Those who made their dwelling places under bridges, behind abandoned warehouses, and in the hidden corners of forgotten parks. As children usually are known for doing, our kids went “all in”. We prepared meals together as a group and piled into the car, eager to find a lonely friend who needed a hot meal. From the backseat, the kids begged to be “next” to pass a bag of food, new gloves, or a warm blanket through the car window.

We coached our kids to not label those we would meet as “homeless”, but rather to see them as people, just like us, who needed love. We practiced looking into a person’s eyes when we talked to them and encouraged our kids to ask the other person’s name.
The experience was profound for each of us.
Our children led the way in their excitement and the way they had conversations in reaching out to these people who looked and lived nothing like them.
They were each thrilled to hold out their hand to another.

The impact was so far-reaching that even now, 2 years removed, they will still randomly ask to buy extra “day old bread” at a local sandwich shop so we can trek downtown and give someone lunch. They do the same with water bottles, extra blankets they find, cookies they bake, or even portions of their meals. The transformation was more than I’d hoped for and was deeply convicting for me and my own view of people.

Superiority is ugly.
But it shows up, slithering in, when we least expect it.
And it’s rooted in our hearts when we choose to ignore the truth that
we are each created in the image of God.
That solid truth levels the playing field when it comes to how we see people.

I remember sitting on a counselor’s couch painfully recounting how I couldn’t bear to see myself on the same playing field as my father, at whose hands I had suffered so much emotional damage. She responded with words I’ll never forget,
“I would put to you that, before the Lord God, we are all on the same playing field.”
She was so right.

The girl dying in Zambia for lack of clean water.
We are equal.

The man who has lived his entire life on the streets.
We are equal.

The aging woman who still holds the scars in her heart of the child she aborted.
We are equal.

The white mama raising bi-racial children in a society that doesn’t favor them.
We are equal.

The grown boy whose mental deficiencies make most turn their heads away.
We are equal.

These are the ones, we are the ones, created in the image of God.
And we mirror Him best when we love others
Just As We Are Loved!

I’m reminded of James’ words in James 3:10-11.
Can both fresh and salt water flow from the same spring?
He was speaking of our tongue.
How we cannot, with integrity, curse our brother and worship our Savior with the same mouth.
With the same heart that loves Jesus and the same lips that teaches salvation, we cannot only use those arms to reach out in friendship to those whose skin color matches our own.
Equality and Inequality cannot both reside in the heart of the believer!
A Greater and Lesser view when it comes to how we see people cannot co-exist!
It short-changes the God who sent His only Son to be the Savior of the world.

When we choose to stay quiet about racism, ignore other races, or be engaged only with those who act like, look like, and live like us,
we intentionally step out of sync with the gospel of Jesus Christ.
When we choose fear of others over compassion for their souls, we’ve placed our judgement of ourselves higher than the Lord’s.
We’ve superseded another human being who was crafted from the same God who knit us together by His own hands.

See the color, my friends.
See the diversity.
See the Korean, the Japanese, the African, the Latino, the Indian, the Caucasian….
and link arms in praise to a creative God who has crafted each of us in His own image!

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Palette Day 2 Fighting The Fear Tactic: Digging Deeper

October 3, 2017 by Candace Jeffries 6 Comments

Digging Deeper Days...are a pretty big deal at GT!

We search God's Word together, ask questions as we read, dig around to find the original intentions at the time of writing, and then make some applications to our everyday lives.
Along the way, we hope you'll pick up some new tools to study Scripture and you'll see truth in a new and accessible way!
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The Passage

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Ephesians 5:1-2, 6-16 English Standard Version (ESV)

1  Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children;
2  and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.
6  Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience.
7  Therefore do not be partakers with them;
8  for you were formerly darkness, but now you are Light in the Lord; walk as children of Light
9  (for the fruit of the Light consists in all goodness and righteousness and truth),
10  trying to learn what is pleasing to the Lord.
11  Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them;
12  for it is disgraceful even to speak of the things which are done by them in secret.
13  But all things become visible when they are exposed by the light, for everything that becomes visible is light.
14  For this reason it says, “Awake, sleeper, And arise from the dead, And Christ will shine on you.”
15  Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men but as wise,
16  making the most of your time, because the days are evil.

The Questions

1) What does it mean to be an imitator of God where race is concerned?

2) What does it mean to walk in love?

3) What do deceptive words look like in verse 6?

4) How can we expose the deeds of darkness to the Light?

The Findings for Intention

1) What does it mean to be an imitator of God where race is concerned?
To be an imitator of God is to be an imitator of Jesus. In His time on earth, Jews did not talk to Samaritans. Samaritans were considered half-breeds. They were the offspring of the descendants from the Northern tribe of Israel and the Canaanites that inhabited their lands. Monotheistic Jews did not like Samaritans because they often worshipped God alongside all their pagan gods. However, we see Jesus on multiple occasions associating with or encouraging others to associate with Samaritans. A few examples are when He talked to the woman at the well (John 4:4-26) and when He told the parable of the good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37). In both cases, Jesus treats the Samaritan just as He would treat a fellow Jew. He makes no distinction between race.

2) What does it mean to walk in love?
The Greek word for “walk” is paripateo, and it means to live or behave in a specified manner. The Greek word for “love” is agape, and it means a strong affection and regard for a person and their good. It is especially characterized by a willing forfeiture of rights or privileges on another person’s behalf. This is the kind of love that Christ displayed on the cross. He gave up His own rights to do what as best on our behalf. So, to walk in love means to care more about another than you care about yourself, to live in such a way that you are doing what is best for the other person, not what is always best for yourself.

3) What do deceptive words look like in verse 6?
In this passage, Paul just got done telling them what sins to stay away from-immorality, impurity, greed, filthiness and silly talk, or course jesting. The deception was coming from men who were telling them that these things really wouldn’t hurt them. “Everyone is doing it!”, they would say. Gnosticism was running rampant at the time, and Gnostics believed that sin could only touch the body, but couldn’t harm the soul. Paul is warning the Ephesians that these men are wrong and that the wrath of God will come on them.

4) How can we expose the deeds of darkness to the Light?
In verse 7, Paul says, “Therefore do not be partakers with them.” The first step he gave the Ephesians was to not participate in these acts of sin. He reminds them that they’ve been saved from the darkness and are now children of Light. In verse 11, he says again, “Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them.” The word expose actually means to reprove with conviction upon the offender. In other words, they were to correct the sinner, make them aware of their sinful patterns, not just ignore them!

The Everyday Application

1) What does it mean to be an imitator of God where race is concerned?
In our world today, the best way to imitate Jesus is to treat everyone as equals- red, yellow, black, and white, rich, poor, EVERYONE!! God doesn’t show partiality (Romans 2:11), and He doesn’t want us to either. Ask yourself what thoughts or attitudes or words or actions in your life need to change to truly see every single person as an image bearer of God.

2) What does it mean to walk in love?
I think to walk in love in our culture today means to look fear square in the face and tell it to leave in Jesus name!! We have been sent so many messages about people that are different than us. They’re dangerous. They don’t like you. They don’t care about anyone but themselves. They’re lazy. They’re thieves. On and on and on, but here’s the deal, until you get to know each person individually, you can’t know any of those things about them. Is it scary to walk in love? YES!!! Do you think Jesus really wanted to die on the cross? He did that, knowing every single thing He was about to endure, because He loves us. We must conquer our fears and walk in love when it comes to people that don’t look like us or talk like us or act like us. Perfect love casts out fear (1 John 4:18).

3) What do deceptive words look like in verse 6?
Today, deceptive words look like racial jokes and racial slurs. They can even be attitudes that are deceptive. Ideas that we believe about other races that have been taught to us over the years or that we have perceived all on our own. I think it’s easy to let a bad encounter taint our view of a whole race. We need to be aware of where our prejudices come from and ask ourselves if we’re stereotyping a whole race of people off of an encounter that we saw on the news, or that someone told us about, or even one that we experienced for ourselves.

4) How can we expose the deeds of darkness to the Light?
For me, this means getting into God’s Word and allowing it to cut out the parts of me that are dark, the parts that don’t glorify God, the thoughts and attitudes I’ve acquired over my lifetime that don’t line up with who Jesus is. It also means that, once I know truth, I must stand up for truth. I must point out to others the darkness I see when I hear their deceptive words, their racial overtones. I must sympathize with others in their suffering. When something is going on in our world that effects those of other races, I need to let them know I care, I see, and that they’re not alone. I must walk in faith and truth and not in fear and lies.

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1) Take this passage (or any other passage).
2) Read through it (always more than a verse or two).
3) Write down your questions as you think of them.
4) Ask specific culture related questions and be ready to dig around for your answers. Google them, use www.studylight.org, or look them up in a study Bible and read the footnotes (click on the little letters next to a word and it will show you other related verses!). (www.esvbible.org)
5) Check your applications with other trusted Christians that you are in community with and embrace the fullness of God in your everyday!

The Community!

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The Tools!

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Want to know more about a specific word in a verse? Click on “Strong’s Interlinear Bible” then click the word you’d like to study. Find super awesome stuff like “origin”, “definition”, and even all the different ways that single word has been translated into English! If you want to be geeky, you can even click the word and hear its original pronunciation – That Is Awesome!

Want to get more background on a word or phrasing or passage? Click “Study Tools”, then pick a few commentaries to read their scholarly approach, keeping in mind that just because a commentary says it, doesn’t mean it’s true. (just like the internet :-))

The Why!

Finding the original meaning is a huge deal when we study Scripture and can make all the difference in our understanding as we apply God’s truths to our everyday lives.

In our modern-day relationships, we want people to understand our original intention as we communicate; how much more so between God and humanity?!

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Justice Day 15 Leading With Love

September 29, 2017 by Merry Ohler Leave a Comment

Read His Words Before Ours!

Romans 13:8-10
Mark 12:28-34
1Peter 4:7-11
Deuteronomy 10:12-19 

“Trust me, I’m not going to hurt you,” I coaxed my little sister. “This is going to be so cool!”

I must have only been around 9 years old, but I remember the conversation well. A boy from my Sunday school class had shown me how to “fake punch” someone, and I was determined to show my sister Annah how it worked. It seemed easy enough, and he and I had “fake punched” each other a bunch of times earlier that day with no problem. “The real trick,” he said, “is to make it look really real. Really put some force behind it.” I nodded; it made perfect sense.

What could go wrong? After all, we had practiced.

I will never forget the look on her face. Trusting…but a little worried. I reeled back, made a fist and thrust my arm forward with exquisite perfection while calculating the exact spot at which to halt my arm’s motion. The grin breaking over my face turned from excitement to abject horror as my fist collided forcefully with her innocent, trusting eye.

The wail that burst from her mouth mirrored how I felt inside; I never meant to hurt her! I couldn’t tell you the punishment I (rightly) received, but I will never forget the sickening feeling that came over me when I realized my mistake had caused her such pain.

All of us can pinpoint a time when we have felt the same at one point or another.
Regret over our actions. Remorse that we have caused another pain. That unforgettable instant when all our good intentions collide with the harsh reality that we were wrong. Loves, there is something else we are getting wrong, too.

As we conclude our Journey through Justice, we would be remiss if we didn’t talk about the pressing social injustice of racial inequality. Depending on each individual’s circle of influence, the picture being painted regarding this social injustice typically appears very different from one social media newsfeed to the next. Regardless of the news and opinion articles, demonstrations and heartfelt conversations which may or may not cross our field of vision on a daily basis, racial inequality is real and it is happening on our watch.
Those of us in minority groups are hurting.
For real reasons.
People are being abused, ignored and made to feel that their feelings and very selves are not enough.
This isn’t something we can feign ignorance to and brush aside with little or no thought.

How much damage are we doing to the Body of Christ when we pretend these things aren’t happening? Our brothers and sisters are facing turmoil, uncertainty and pain, and most importantly injustice.
In the face of these truths, can each of us claim that we are supporting and reaching out to bridge the gap for those battling the reality of racial inequality every day?
Are we seeing our people and using our gifts to provide a platform for the forgotten and ignored?
Or are we turning our eyes away because we aren’t sure how we can make a difference or we just don’t know where to start?
Thankfully, so thankfully, we follow the One Who knows exactly where to begin – and He tells us to lead with love.

Love your neighbor as yourself.
Love does no harm to anyone.
Love covers a multitude of sins.

Take a moment to peruse any current news headlines, and you will be left with little doubt that our world is charged with racial tension and injustice. Hurting people respond to other hurting people…with sharp words, actions and attitudes.
Frightened, comfortable people respond to racial injustice
by choosing to ignore truth.
When we face those ugliest parts of humanity, our questions mustn’t revolve around how such things could happen – we already know that answer – sin.
It seeps silently into our good intentions and misconceptions.

Instead, we must decide how we will respond in love.
Will we, in our fear, brush aside the reality we uncover?
Or will we choose to come alongside our hurting brothers and sisters,
pull them in close beside us with words of encouragement and belonging?
Will we acknowledge that we don’t know what to say or what to do or how to do it,
but we will try anyway?

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